It is all very doable the more money you have. Unfortunately single mothers tend not to have much of it. As long as the OP has lots of money, it can be done. I actually think it's easier. I'm the only one in charge.

I am a SMBC. My child is 9, and so far, so good. It was a great decision for me. My child has a pretty decent life on paper , and seems to be in good spirits.

I think my life is simpler in some ways than that of a married parent, as I don't have to discuss anything with anyone. It's harder, because there is no backup.

I will say that, as with a lot of things, it is easier with more money. I don't have family in the area. Being able to afford an emergency babysitting service, takeout or a cab when your schedule is tight, grocery delivery etc. really makes things easier. That's on top of daycare, camp, activities etc. The first few years are probably the hardest logistically.

And I am back to say any woman who wants to become a mom and has the means should become a mom. I did - and my 2 daughters whom i adopted from foster care sure are happy I did, too. My adoption costs were minimal.

Enjoying our extended time together during the pandemic. Board games galore, and 3 new bikes!

Who resurrected an old thread just to say "best of luck"?

I posted back in February. Friend should not become a mom.