Anonymous wrote:Ewww. Old peen.

yea but those saggy balls are to die for!

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who has done this too. He first husband (her age) was an abusive dick. She then found a much older man who actually looks like he could be her grandfather. It’s so odd to see them hugging and kissing. However, he’s very sweet to her and well off and they have similar interests. To each his own I guess.

I suppose?

OP, you would have to really not care what anyone else thinks, ever - and rationally, that is impossible. A twenty plus age difference WILL be noticed and judged, like it or not. And yeah, the term gold digger will probably be used, especially if there are notable difference in the couple (which is a given, with such a large age delta). It just looks creepy and weird and suspicious. Since you asked.

Ewww. Old peen.