OP but your DW has made here choice for whatever reason and now she is with her AP. It will be rough for you the next few years but your DW has screwed you and the kids. Life is not fair but you will be stronger after this. An AP is only short lived and the DH will know that.
Good luck!!!!!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's hard to tell from your post what is actually happening vs. your "sleuthing" and suspicious controlling nature and a child's reports to you (are you really basing your actions on a kid's version of events?).

Have you talked to your wife, asked for counseling, asked for for honesty, told her you are thinking of divorce? All of this sounds like a soap opera so far.

You are ridiculous.

If this were a woman posting about her husband having two secret cell phones, buying lap tops for "him" that aren't anywhere in the house, dropping the kids off at his parents house while he spends 3 days at a resort - all the pitchforks would be out. Go back to your feminist bullshit cave.

Whoops! You caught us. All women on DCUM are secretly thrilled that OP’s DW is having the first halfway decent sex of her life. One of the phones is actually the hotline for the secret feminist bullshit cave. All women have this phone. But most are vaguely phallic shaped and we hide them in our underwear drawer. Using these secret phones, we have a daily partyline where we discuss how to screw over our kids and whether pumpkin spice season is over yet.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP:

She has enlisted new bone;
She is not alone;
She has soiled the home;
She sent pics on the phone;
Her skills she did hone;
She was unafraid to moan;
Her whereabouts are unknown;
She has lowered the tone;
And entered the zone...

of Allison Capone.

Wise words.

True - the DW has checked out and the kids will pay the price.

Anonymous wrote:OP:

She has enlisted new bone;
She is not alone;
She has soiled the home;
She sent pics on the phone;
Her skills she did hone;
She was unafraid to moan;
Her whereabouts are unknown;
She has lowered the tone;
And entered the zone...

of Allison Capone.

Wise words.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's hard to tell from your post what is actually happening vs. your "sleuthing" and suspicious controlling nature and a child's reports to you (are you really basing your actions on a kid's version of events?).

Have you talked to your wife, asked for counseling, asked for for honesty, told her you are thinking of divorce? All of this sounds like a soap opera so far.

You are ridiculous.

If this were a woman posting about her husband having two secret cell phones, buying lap tops for "him" that aren't anywhere in the house, dropping the kids off at his parents house while he spends 3 days at a resort - all the pitchforks would be out. Go back to your feminist bullshit cave.

BAM! how apt.


to the original poster....let me guess, you have had a pool boy for years, but still wonder why there is no pool in your back yard?

Anonymous wrote:It's hard to tell from your post what is actually happening vs. your "sleuthing" and suspicious controlling nature and a child's reports to you (are you really basing your actions on a kid's version of events?).

Have you talked to your wife, asked for counseling, asked for for honesty, told her you are thinking of divorce? All of this sounds like a soap opera so far.

You are ridiculous.

If this were a woman posting about her husband having two secret cell phones, buying lap tops for "him" that aren't anywhere in the house, dropping the kids off at his parents house while he spends 3 days at a resort - all the pitchforks would be out. Go back to your feminist bullshit cave.