Anonymous wrote:Great thoughts. The truth is that the GSUSA experience is entirely different that the BSA experience, so much that the organizations never should or could merge. GSUSA is arguing in its law suit that the 65,000 families whose girls are now wearing blue Cub Scouts BSA uniforms are somehow confused and think they have joined the Girl Scouts. Or, that these same helpless people now think the Girl Scouts no longer exist despite the whole cookie activity. The idea that families who join "Scouts BSA" think they have joined Girl Scouts is an idea a litigator dreamed up to cash in.
Anonymous wrote:That was an article I read: "The Girl Scouts are suing the Boy Scouts, saying the organization’s inclusive rebranding effort has caused all sorts of consumer confusion from mistaken enrollment in the Boy Scouts to misinformation about a merge of the two groups."
You can make everyone happy. Boys scouts should sue them for causing stress.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are your girls honestly and truly taking away anything from GS other than that it’s basically an elementary-level sorority? I don’t think my Brownie cares what patches or badges she earns, she just likes going twice a week to be with her friends, and taking the occasional field trip. She is super excited about camping this year though.
The absolute only benefit and difference between the GS and BS that I can tell is becoming an Eagle Scout, and the long term benefits of becoming one. Most GS and BS don’t stick with it that long anyway, so comparing the two at elementary level is pointless. It’s a bunch of kids getting together to essentially socialize, and that’s just fine and a healthy part of development in and of itself. I do wish their were equal incentives for GS to stick with it in middle and high school though. That’s the only benefit of BS that I can think of, of course, if your girl sticks it out for the long haul.
My daughter loves GS but for the reason that you mentioned above, she enjoys hanging out and playing with her friends. I don't think she has really gotten much out of it. From what I have seen Boy Scouts, even at the elementary age seem to be much more active than Girl Scouts. I think this is because Boy Scouts encourages more active family participation. It is common for both moms and dads to be actively involved in boy scout troops. Girl Scouts seems to be more discouraging of men participating. There have been a few times where my DH has taken/picked up my daughter from girl scout events (not troop level but council wide) where the woman in charge was very discouraging of him being around. When he picked up DD from Brownie Encampment, [u]he wasn't even allowed to go near the cabins[/u]!
My experience is that no adults are allowed to go near the cabins. They encourage the girls to be more independent. That they are expected them to move their gear to and from the cabin to the collection sites. It had nothing to do with him being discouraged - it is about giving our daughters the space to grow.
Yes. NP here. That is how it was at pick-up from sleepaway camp this summer at Camp Potomac Woods. No parents were allowed near the cabin areas. I think it was for both independence reasons for the girls, and for sheer logistics (keeping cars moving as quickly as possible in and out of the parking lot).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are your girls honestly and truly taking away anything from GS other than that it’s basically an elementary-level sorority? I don’t think my Brownie cares what patches or badges she earns, she just likes going twice a week to be with her friends, and taking the occasional field trip. She is super excited about camping this year though.
The absolute only benefit and difference between the GS and BS that I can tell is becoming an Eagle Scout, and the long term benefits of becoming one. Most GS and BS don’t stick with it that long anyway, so comparing the two at elementary level is pointless. It’s a bunch of kids getting together to essentially socialize, and that’s just fine and a healthy part of development in and of itself. I do wish their were equal incentives for GS to stick with it in middle and high school though. That’s the only benefit of BS that I can think of, of course, if your girl sticks it out for the long haul.
My daughter loves GS but for the reason that you mentioned above, she enjoys hanging out and playing with her friends. I don't think she has really gotten much out of it. From what I have seen Boy Scouts, even at the elementary age seem to be much more active than Girl Scouts. I think this is because Boy Scouts encourages more active family participation. It is common for both moms and dads to be actively involved in boy scout troops. Girl Scouts seems to be more discouraging of men participating. There have been a few times where my DH has taken/picked up my daughter from girl scout events (not troop level but council wide) where the woman in charge was very discouraging of him being around. When he picked up DD from Brownie Encampment, [u]he wasn't even allowed to go near the cabins[/u]!
My experience is that no adults are allowed to go near the cabins. They encourage the girls to be more independent. That they are expected them to move their gear to and from the cabin to the collection sites. It had nothing to do with him being discouraged - it is about giving our daughters the space to grow.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are your girls honestly and truly taking away anything from GS other than that it’s basically an elementary-level sorority? I don’t think my Brownie cares what patches or badges she earns, she just likes going twice a week to be with her friends, and taking the occasional field trip. She is super excited about camping this year though.
The absolute only benefit and difference between the GS and BS that I can tell is becoming an Eagle Scout, and the long term benefits of becoming one. Most GS and BS don’t stick with it that long anyway, so comparing the two at elementary level is pointless. It’s a bunch of kids getting together to essentially socialize, and that’s just fine and a healthy part of development in and of itself. I do wish their were equal incentives for GS to stick with it in middle and high school though. That’s the only benefit of BS that I can think of, of course, if your girl sticks it out for the long haul.
My daughter loves GS but for the reason that you mentioned above, she enjoys hanging out and playing with her friends. I don't think she has really gotten much out of it. From what I have seen Boy Scouts, even at the elementary age seem to be much more active than Girl Scouts. I think this is because Boy Scouts encourages more active family participation. It is common for both moms and dads to be actively involved in boy scout troops. Girl Scouts seems to be more discouraging of men participating. There have been a few times where my DH has taken/picked up my daughter from girl scout events (not troop level but council wide) where the woman in charge was very discouraging of him being around. When he picked up DD from Brownie Encampment, [u]he wasn't even allowed to go near the cabins[/u]!
Anonymous wrote:I would feel so sorry for this birthday child, because I would worry that no one was going to go to this party that his silly parents planned, and I would worry his or her feelings would be really hurt, unnecessarily!
Anonymous wrote: The problem the Girl Scouts are seeing is that girls want to move over to the Boy Scouts. Suing because of the name it’s not going to make a difference. The Girl Scouts needs to change their image. Right now they are seen as cookie sellers, cookie pushers, Girl Scouts is synonymous with Girl Scout cookies ( and every single connotation that being in the kitchen with cookies evokes).
Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts are known for doing stuff, being outside, camping, wilderness, woodworking,, and the very prestigious Eagle Scout award.
The Girl Scouts shouldn't be suing the Boy Scouts but rather revamping the system to change perception for what the program is .
Anonymous wrote:What I'm hearing out of this discussion is this:
1) Girl Scouts can and DO do cool things, say those who are in the knkow.
2) People who are NOT involved or not HEAVILY involved with Girls Scouts are not aware of this and mostly think of cookies when it comes to Girl Scouts.
3) Conclusion: Girl Scouts *have* moved and changed with the times, but needs to work on their PUBLIC BRANDING and IMAGE, because the message is not reaching those who are not involved.