Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:44     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:What other city has highly fashionable women walking around? NYC? Where else? I don't think DC is unique in this regard. Find me super fashion forward HOARDES of working women in another city please. Sure, the fashion magazines and art careers are most likely more fashion forward. Outside of those, show me a city where office drones dress fashion forward. I'll wait.


Tokyo, Copenhagen


Let's try an American city. My argument is that this isn't a DC thing. It's an American thing.


Spent plenty of time in Tokyo. Most 20s-40a working people are in a VERY basic uniform, black suits, tailored shirts (women too) what makes them look more chic IMO is that most people are a different stature (read:slim) and tailoring is slim and chic looking across the spectrum of price points, the uniqulo suit and the Philip lim suit all cut narrow and looks better even if a super basic outfit

also most have great hair. that helps
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:40     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry the dmv area women’s fashion is HORRIBLE!!

Women here consider an Ann Taylor dress, kate spade watch and purse and Tory Burch flats with a balayage hair in loose waves the epitome of being stylish.

Like ewww? For the most educated and wellnoff part of the country why is everyone here southern sorority girl??


Because the Washington social scene consists mostly of professions where creative or cutting-edge manner of dressing is not an asset. Washington also naturally does not attract people who are into fashion. It's a different incentive structure.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:36     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm from London and I think there's not much difference in the way that people in offices dress between the two cities. The main difference is that in London there are many more people doing non-office things (from models to musicians to whatever) and those people tend to look a lot more fashionable, which makes the whole city feel more on trend. Also, London is very different to NYC or Paris, in which women seem to me to be much better groomed, whereas I find Londoners to be less groomed but more edgy with their clothes and more likely to be wearing an unusual new trend.

I still find myself more drawn to British high street brands (Whistles, Jigsaw, Hush etc) than the US equivalents, and buy a lot online from there, so I guess I'm still straddling the two cities in terms of fashion.


As a Londoner, please tell truthfully, what is the collective British opinion on Boden? As an American, I feel like I could be mistaken for a chic Brit when I wear it. Hahaha... or is it "so basic"?



I confess I don’t really know what “basic” means (and this thread didn’t really clear it up for me!) But in this Londoner’s opinion, Boden has a reputation for being a bit frumpy and “mumsy”, if that’s a word here. It’s not fashionable but will nod to the current trends in a safe and comfortable way. That said, there are often one or two pieces each season that will get picked out by fashion magazines and bloggers. I think it’s conparable to how J Crew is perceived here.


I believe "basic" means uncreative, status quo, boring, traditional, sort of plain, maybe several steps behind interesting fashion. Very common, for example everyone carrying :



Perfect! As a 43 year old Mum who goes to J Crew to buy something out of the window when I suddenly need something "nice", I guess Boden is right on for me!! Haha I am NOT stylish, wear scrubs to work, and hoodies and jeans rest of the time. I feel so fancy in a plain JCrew sheath dress. Boden seems more tweedy, and looks very colorful. The models look overtly joyful, not cool and standoffish. But less overtly college girl sexy librarian than JCrew. Boden looks more like a woman with serious middle class business to accomplish would wear it. I love how we buy into the marketing of the catalogs, which are basically graphic novellas.

I love the British point of view. Seems so sensible and straightforward. But are you like SF people- chic, very cool, wear leather and don't smile much? Boden seems like you are excited to go to your mossy country home and have tea or something.

Cheers!


Yes, that is exactly what Boden is like. You live in a nice (posh but not expensive-posh) London suburb and have a weekend home in Gloucestershire (you would never call it the Cotswolds). You have an Aga stove and a Land Rover, and several large labradors (or golden doodles or whatever). You'll wear your floral jersey Boden dress with Hunter wellies and a Barbour jacket in the country, and then with a leather jacket and Supergas when you're in London.


Lol, this description of “basic” in London is what would be considered HIGHLY fashion forward for this area! The women here would wear that and think they are so cool.


Haha! To be honest, I wear the London version of that all the time - not the Boden dress because I don't find them very flattering on me, but another one. I wouldn't describe it as basic in the way you explained it, because it's not that everyone is wearing it, but it's just a certain type of person, and a certain kind of look. A few years ago they were all wearing skinny jeans, Acne pistol boots (or cheaper equivalent) and a faux fur gilet. In other words, they are quite fashionably dressed, but in a very conservative way that turns it into a kind of uniform. But there are worse ways to dress!
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:32     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

Why are we basic? So you can feel superior, of course. Looks like it's working. You're welcome!
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:26     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm from London and I think there's not much difference in the way that people in offices dress between the two cities. The main difference is that in London there are many more people doing non-office things (from models to musicians to whatever) and those people tend to look a lot more fashionable, which makes the whole city feel more on trend. Also, London is very different to NYC or Paris, in which women seem to me to be much better groomed, whereas I find Londoners to be less groomed but more edgy with their clothes and more likely to be wearing an unusual new trend.

I still find myself more drawn to British high street brands (Whistles, Jigsaw, Hush etc) than the US equivalents, and buy a lot online from there, so I guess I'm still straddling the two cities in terms of fashion.


As a Londoner, please tell truthfully, what is the collective British opinion on Boden? As an American, I feel like I could be mistaken for a chic Brit when I wear it. Hahaha... or is it "so basic"?



I confess I don’t really know what “basic” means (and this thread didn’t really clear it up for me!) But in this Londoner’s opinion, Boden has a reputation for being a bit frumpy and “mumsy”, if that’s a word here. It’s not fashionable but will nod to the current trends in a safe and comfortable way. That said, there are often one or two pieces each season that will get picked out by fashion magazines and bloggers. I think it’s conparable to how J Crew is perceived here.


I believe "basic" means uncreative, status quo, boring, traditional, sort of plain, maybe several steps behind interesting fashion. Very common, for example everyone carrying :



Perfect! As a 43 year old Mum who goes to J Crew to buy something out of the window when I suddenly need something "nice", I guess Boden is right on for me!! Haha I am NOT stylish, wear scrubs to work, and hoodies and jeans rest of the time. I feel so fancy in a plain JCrew sheath dress. Boden seems more tweedy, and looks very colorful. The models look overtly joyful, not cool and standoffish. But less overtly college girl sexy librarian than JCrew. Boden looks more like a woman with serious middle class business to accomplish would wear it. I love how we buy into the marketing of the catalogs, which are basically graphic novellas.

I love the British point of view. Seems so sensible and straightforward. But are you like SF people- chic, very cool, wear leather and don't smile much? Boden seems like you are excited to go to your mossy country home and have tea or something.

Cheers!


Yes, that is exactly what Boden is like. You live in a nice (posh but not expensive-posh) London suburb and have a weekend home in Gloucestershire (you would never call it the Cotswolds). You have an Aga stove and a Land Rover, and several large labradors (or golden doodles or whatever). You'll wear your floral jersey Boden dress with Hunter wellies and a Barbour jacket in the country, and then with a leather jacket and Supergas when you're in London.


Lol, this description of “basic” in London is what would be considered HIGHLY fashion forward for this area! The women here would wear that and think they are so cool.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:25     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:I guess they're too busy getting their educations and working to stay up to date on fashion.


Huh. I have an MBA, a full-time job, two kids, a husband, and a dog. I shop in NY mostly, and in Paris, Berlin and London when I get there a couple of times a year. But I grew up in NYC, so my idea of what looks good may be different from someone who grew up in Ohio.


How nice for you that you get to take multiple shopping trips A YEAR in New York, Paris, Berlin, and London. The rest of us have only the time, money, and inclination to hit up the Pentagon City Mall Ann Taylor 2x/year.


Lol, I'm traveling for work for those, except when we go to Europe from Christmas-New Year's. But people can order online. And even if you were bound to this area, you could still take fashion risks.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:21     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

What a stupid thread. People are basic and frumpy here because the bread and butter of DC is government, law and policy. Our industry is not fashion, art, finance, tech, or entertainment--nothing creative or flashy. Having said that, plenty of us wear makeup, keep ourselves trim and groomed and don't feel threatened by others who choose to be more fashionable or edgy in their choices. Knock yourself out.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:21     Subject: Re:Why are dc and nova women so basic?

could OP or enlightned ones tell us what constitutes not basic? i recall hearing that the French dress nicely as a courtesy to one another, not as an expression of their own interests or pride. for example they would never offend one another by wearing ghastly workout attire to the store. how rude!

or what? i need more info I guess. i don't want my colleagues (or really anyone except maybe DH if we go to an event...?) to notice my clothing. I want them to focus on ME.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:17     Subject: Re:Why are dc and nova women so basic?

Health Goth Lady, is that you? Why haven't you moved yet?
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:15     Subject: Re:Why are dc and nova women so basic?

Anonymous wrote:Can the folks who think DC women are basic/frumpy/whatever please post some pictures of conservative, but stylish work outfits? Help us not offend you with our terrible fashion choices.


Amal:
https://www.instyle.com/how-tos/amal-clooney-work-wear-style-lessons
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:12     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:I guess they're too busy getting their educations and working to stay up to date on fashion.


Huh. I have an MBA, a full-time job, two kids, a husband, and a dog. I shop in NY mostly, and in Paris, Berlin and London when I get there a couple of times a year. But I grew up in NYC, so my idea of what looks good may be different from someone who grew up in Ohio.


How nice for you that you get to take multiple shopping trips A YEAR in New York, Paris, Berlin, and London. The rest of us have only the time, money, and inclination to hit up the Pentagon City Mall Ann Taylor 2x/year.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:10     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:What other city has highly fashionable women walking around? NYC? Where else? I don't think DC is unique in this regard. Find me super fashion forward HOARDES of working women in another city please. Sure, the fashion magazines and art careers are most likely more fashion forward. Outside of those, show me a city where office drones dress fashion forward. I'll wait.


Tokyo, Copenhagen


Let's try an American city. My argument is that this isn't a DC thing. It's an American thing.


I wouldn't classify them as super fashion forward, but I noticed a lot well dressed office drones in south florida like Miami and Fort Lauderdale. The women wore prettier and more flattering clothing than I see on women here during warm weather months.


Because they were raised in southern/latin american cultures where women's appearance is more emphasized as key to her accomplishments.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:09     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of women here who think that putting effort into your appearance, doing your hair, enjoying fashion, etc. somehow takes away from your intelligence. It’s like you can’t be smart AND enjoy beauty things.


No, that's not it at all. There are a lot of women in DC who don't prioritize fashion and don't feel like they need to do more than look professional, because they have been raised and educated in a way that does not center on their appearance. But we don't gaf if you decide to dress up or have fashion as a hobby. Truly we don't. Just don't lecture us about being "basic."


It is clear that you do gaf.


I really, really don't.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2018 13:08     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

As long as you look great I don't think anyone cares what your clothing costs or where it comes from. I just don't get those who wear looking haggard like a badge of honor. Degrees and families and pets and professional accomplishments don't prevent you from using conditioner or drying your hair before coming into work and don't turn around and ridicule those who like Sephora and had the nerve to wear a dress to work and claim that it doesn't bother you.
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Post 10/05/2018 13:08     Subject: Why are dc and nova women so basic?

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of women here who think that putting effort into your appearance, doing your hair, enjoying fashion, etc. somehow takes away from your intelligence. It’s like you can’t be smart AND enjoy beauty things.


No, that's not it at all. There are a lot of women in DC who don't prioritize fashion and don't feel like they need to do more than look professional, because they have been raised and educated in a way that does not center on their appearance. But we don't gaf if you decide to dress up or have fashion as a hobby. Truly we don't. Just don't lecture us about being "basic."

You just proved my point. Again, just because one puts effort into their appearance and shops at non-mall stores and enjoys beauty does not mean they were raised and educated to “center on their appearance.” What utter poppycock.


You're misunderstanding. The fact is that many/most women in DC just were not raised in a way that makes them feel like they HAVE to spend a ton of time on their appearance beyond doing the minimum. The women who DO dress more fashionably are doing it because they enjoy fashion in and of itself. That's all I'm saying, and I TRULY don't care that you wear Hermes or whatever.