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People say the same of Latin American women. Stereotypes.

These people obviously don't know about REAL latin women, not the ones living in the US. REAL latin women are hot, loving, and generous. They might not all want to f4ck you, but they'll at least go out with you initially. It's like pulling teeth to get US women on tinder off of their couches and on dates. They all pretend they're too busy for tinder, so it takes a week to set up a date. Absolutely absurd.

Because if we do go out on the initial date when we aren't really interested, then turn the guy down, we are criticized for wasting his time and money and for not putting out. Easier to just say no right from the get-go.

You’re doing people a favor! It only _looks_ like you’re being a snot. Now I understand.

Not being interested in certain men doesn't make women a snot. Most people have a very good idea of what they do and don't want, and if you don't fit the bill, why waste everyone's time? Trust me, a guy who calls women snots, stereotypes entire groups, and gets mad because some women don't fit their definition of what REAL women are isn't going to magically win me over on one date.

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Anonymous wrote:
People say the same of Latin American women. Stereotypes.

These people obviously don't know about REAL latin women, not the ones living in the US. REAL latin women are hot, loving, and generous. They might not all want to f4ck you, but they'll at least go out with you initially. It's like pulling teeth to get US women on tinder off of their couches and on dates. They all pretend they're too busy for tinder, so it takes a week to set up a date. Absolutely absurd.

Because if we do go out on the initial date when we aren't really interested, then turn the guy down, we are criticized for wasting his time and money and for not putting out. Easier to just say no right from the get-go.

You’re doing people a favor! It only _looks_ like you’re being a snot. Now I understand.

I married into a Latin family. It is astonishing what the women put up with. One couple was married, had three kids, husband started a second family with another woman. So they divorced while he lived with that family for about a decade. Then he left family #2 - and wife #1 took him back! They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary like the decade absence had never happened.

Oh and he also had another child by a THIRD woman somewhere in there. Everyone in the family just loved this guy as the patriarch of the clan..... And of course, his daughters got cheated on, and his sons were cheaters. And his granddaughters got cheated on, and (some of) his grandsons are cheaters....

Catholic family. Go figure.

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Anonymous wrote:
People say the same of Latin American women. Stereotypes.

These people obviously don't know about REAL latin women, not the ones living in the US. REAL latin women are hot, loving, and generous. They might not all want to f4ck you, but they'll at least go out with you initially. It's like pulling teeth to get US women on tinder off of their couches and on dates. They all pretend they're too busy for tinder, so it takes a week to set up a date. Absolutely absurd.

Because if we do go out on the initial date when we aren't really interested, then turn the guy down, we are criticized for wasting his time and money and for not putting out. Easier to just say no right from the get-go.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH is about 5’9”, divorced, balding, single father with full custody, Ivy League MBA, and 9 years older than me. I was 40 when I walked down the aisle and we have a 1yo and one on the way. I am 5’7”, cute, state school MBA blonde. There is no such thing as a perfect man, but there is a lid for every pot even in DC area. I dated in DC for over 10 years and was engaged twice, one of them was a hot 6’2”/educated/ no baggage and he was going to be a terrible husband/partner. Surprisingly, I have found my happiness with a shorter divorced guy .

Why did you need to add that he has an Ivy League MBA? Does that equalize his shorter stature. Also, your post is very telling, your husband has better "credentials" than you which is pointed out in your state school versus Ivy comparison. This is what every woman wants; a man that has more than her. I could have bought your argument had you not needed to post his credentials and said that he worked at the local Harris Teeter. He has a younger, blonde cute wife, every white man's dream yet you feel compelled to post here?

Like they say . . . Bye, Felicia.

I am the PP from above....looks like you're a bit green-eyed there with your "Bye, Felicia" comment. It does not matter where the MBA came from. We're equally matched in our level of education. This is the only "must have" for me in a man. I just don't see myself married to a guy without a degree, we will have nothing to talk about and no commonality.

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Anonymous wrote:Sending this article to my mom who wonders what is wrong me me that I can't find an educated male to marry.

Stop chasing resumes and actually make yourself available to men in your area. How about actually striking up a conversation with a strange guy? Heaven forbid asking one out on a date or proposing a date on Tinder.

White US women are incredibly entitled, spoiled and lazy compared to Latin American women.

Latin American women are largely conditioned to put up with BS from men. American women aren't. I'm not saying either approach is right, but I think what American women feel "entitled" to is respect and honesty....not too tall an order IMO.

-American of Latin American decent

TRANSLATION: American women are better conditioned at extracting financial remuneration from men than Latin American women.

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Anonymous wrote:I've seen a lot of women who are beautiful, educated, professional, cool, and polished settle. Their spouses or boyfriends are either dull, or not very attractive, or have weird issues around sex/porn/cheating.

IME the number of men who are tall, handsome, educated, fun, funny and high earners obviously get snapped up quickly. The ones who don't tend to be commitmentphobes. Hence the dilemma.

Accomplished women have earned the attention of better men? Do those guys know they’re supposed to pay attention to “professional” and “polished” instead of cute and fun?

And who cares if you’re educated beyond a certain point? Most women in this area are educated enough to enjoy a relationship with.

I started with "beautiful," because obviously without that women are worthless...

No, but if you don’t seem to care what you look like, the guy’s not gonna care either.

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Anonymous wrote:Sending this article to my mom who wonders what is wrong me me that I can't find an educated male to marry.

Stop chasing resumes and actually make yourself available to men in your area. How about actually striking up a conversation with a strange guy? Heaven forbid asking one out on a date or proposing a date on Tinder.

White US women are incredibly entitled, spoiled and lazy compared to Latin American women.

Latin American women are largely conditioned to put up with BS from men. American women aren't. I'm not saying either approach is right, but I think what American women feel "entitled" to is respect and honesty....not too tall an order IMO.

-American of Latin American decent

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Anonymous wrote:I've seen a lot of women who are beautiful, educated, professional, cool, and polished settle. Their spouses or boyfriends are either dull, or not very attractive, or have weird issues around sex/porn/cheating.

IME the number of men who are tall, handsome, educated, fun, funny and high earners obviously get snapped up quickly. The ones who don't tend to be commitmentphobes. Hence the dilemma.

Accomplished women have earned the attention of better men? Do those guys know they’re supposed to pay attention to “professional” and “polished” instead of cute and fun?

And who cares if you’re educated beyond a certain point? Most women in this area are educated enough to enjoy a relationship with.

I started with "beautiful," because obviously without that women are worthless...

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How the hell do you get a woman not living in the DC are to go out on a date with you in less than a week. That's one helluva expensive date on her part.

You've got some good-good if you can get a woman to swing for a plane ticket in less than a week. Damn.

Sorry, I spend 1/3 of the year in South America due to work...and it's fun.

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Anonymous wrote:African American women have faced this reality for a couple of decades.

Al they need to do is a semester at American University in Cairo and pick up a Nigeran grad student. They are usually in STEM or other PhD type track, very nice, and very on board with marrying and family.

This is actually good advice! My husband had a postdoc for math and physics institute sponsored by the UN, with the mission to encourage STEM in the developing world. There were several great catches at the institute from Africa who would easily get good jobs in the US.

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People say the same of Latin American women. Stereotypes.

These people obviously don't know about REAL latin women, not the ones living in the US. REAL latin women are hot, loving, and generous. They might not all want to f4ck you, but they'll at least go out with you initially. It's like pulling teeth to get US women on tinder off of their couches and on dates. They all pretend they're too busy for tinder, so it takes a week to set up a date. Absolutely absurd.

How the hell do you get a woman not living in the DC are to go out on a date with you in less than a week. That's one helluva expensive date on her part.

You've got some good-good if you can get a woman to swing for a plane ticket in less than a week. Damn.

Anonymous wrote:
People say the same of Latin American women. Stereotypes.

These people obviously don't know about REAL latin women, not the ones living in the US. REAL latin women are hot, loving, and generous. They might not all want to f4ck you, but they'll at least go out with you initially. It's like pulling teeth to get US women on tinder off of their couches and on dates. They all pretend they're too busy for tinder, so it takes a week to set up a date. Absolutely absurd.

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What about aftrican american women or do you have an opinionon those too? One white guy told me that he thought AA women would "hold down their men." WTF, so you come into a relationship thinking i am going to put up with sh*t. BTW, I am American too. So how does your comment compare to his comment?

I don't know, kind of turned off by the attitudes

People say the same of Latin American women. Stereotypes.

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What about aftrican american women or do you have an opinionon those too? One white guy told me that he thought AA women would "hold down their men." WTF, so you come into a relationship thinking i am going to put up with sh*t. BTW, I am American too. So how does your comment compare to his comment?

I don't know, kind of turned off by the attitudes