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Anonymous wrote:My mom had me at 46, my older sister just went through menopause at 60. These things happen.

they do happen but its less than 2% for an actual birth at that age.

maybe. nobody actually knows these probabilities (they are impossible to calculate because we don't know how many people are trying, how many are using contraception etc). i don't know why people are throwing these statistics around.

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People ar quick to quote numbers based on a population of women who have compromised fertility- women who don't have trouble having children don't visit fertility clinics. They are the population left out of most of these statistics.

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Anonymous wrote:Probably, but why don't you ask her? I'm sure she's itching to tell everyone how her baby was made, and just hasn't said anything because no one has asked.

It's either a donor egg or it isn't. At her age, it most likely is. What does confirmation one way or the other matter?

personally I am curious. I am pregnant naturally at 45 which is obviously different from 48 but even at 48 pregnancies do happen.

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Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to healthy, happy baby boy last year at age 50. It’s no one's business if we used donor egg, frozen embryo, iVF with eggs frozen years ago, or if we conceived naturally. (We didn’t conceive naturally.). No woman who gives birth at this age is doing anyone a disservice by failing to tell others how they got there. Why? Because one persons experience is not relevant anyone else’s. Any one else trying to get pregnant at this age will be told in their first meeting with any RE what their personal options are and, in part, that will be based on actions you took in the past, like freezing eggs or embryos. So, for anyone at an advanced age that’s fretting over everyone else’s failure to disclose the intimate details of how they got pregnant, stop focusing on everyone else, start focusing on yourself, and become an active participant in resolving your own infertility issues by seeing an RE. And for anyone who wants to know just to criticize an older mom for having kids at this age ... ha! ... energy isn’t age specific ... and, if anything, having a kid at this age has been an energizing change in our lives.

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Watching someone in a movie does not give you the right to be all up in her ovaries , none of your business, she does not owe you her medical records.

and yet.. so many people from the movies lecture us constantly on political and social issues and overnight rise to prominent advocates of whatever issue they happened to wake-up and care about that morning.

Dum A** a voting citizen speaking out about social and political issues that affect ALL OF US is not the same as you telling a famous individual to give up her HIPPA rights so you jump all up in her fallopian
Sss ... You sound stupid as heck!

to be honest i much prefer that barely literate celebrities would shut up on all issues. but no, there is no principal difference between them pinioning on hilary or trump or infertility. the odds are that, when they talk about IF they at least have some personal experience.

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Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to healthy, happy baby boy last year at age 50. It’s no one's business if we used donor egg, frozen embryo, iVF with eggs frozen years ago, or if we conceived naturally. (We didn’t conceive naturally.). No woman who gives birth at this age is doing anyone a disservice by failing to tell others how they got there. Why? Because one persons experience is not relevant anyone else’s. Any one else trying to get pregnant at this age will be told in their first meeting with any RE what their personal options are and, in part, that will be based on actions you took in the past, like freezing eggs or embryos. So, for anyone at an advanced age that’s fretting over everyone else’s failure to disclose the intimate details of how they got pregnant, stop focusing on everyone else, start focusing on yourself, and become an active participant in resolving your own infertility issues by seeing an RE. And for anyone who wants to know just to criticize an older mom for having kids at this age ... ha! ... energy isn’t age specific ... and, if anything, having a kid at this age has been an energizing change in our lives.

+100000
Watching someone in a movie does not give you the right to be all up in her ovaries , none of your business, she does not owe you her medical records.

and yet.. so many people from the movies lecture us constantly on political and social issues and overnight rise to prominent advocates of whatever issue they happened to wake-up and care about that morning.

Dum A** a voting citizen speaking out about social and political issues that affect ALL OF US is not the same as you telling a famous individual to give up her HIPPA rights so you jump all up in her fallopian
Sss ... You sound stupid as heck!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to healthy, happy baby boy last year at age 50. It’s no one's business if we used donor egg, frozen embryo, iVF with eggs frozen years ago, or if we conceived naturally. (We didn’t conceive naturally.). No woman who gives birth at this age is doing anyone a disservice by failing to tell others how they got there. Why? Because one persons experience is not relevant anyone else’s. Any one else trying to get pregnant at this age will be told in their first meeting with any RE what their personal options are and, in part, that will be based on actions you took in the past, like freezing eggs or embryos. So, for anyone at an advanced age that’s fretting over everyone else’s failure to disclose the intimate details of how they got pregnant, stop focusing on everyone else, start focusing on yourself, and become an active participant in resolving your own infertility issues by seeing an RE. And for anyone who wants to know just to criticize an older mom for having kids at this age ... ha! ... energy isn’t age specific ... and, if anything, having a kid at this age has been an energizing change in our lives.

+100000
Watching someone in a movie does not give you the right to be all up in her ovaries , none of your business, she does not owe you her medical records.

and yet.. so many people from the movies lecture us constantly on political and social issues and overnight rise to prominent advocates of whatever issue they happened to wake-up and care about that morning.

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Anonymous wrote:My mom had me at 46, my older sister just went through menopause at 60. These things happen.

they do happen but its less than 2% for an actual birth at that age.

maybe. nobody actually knows these probabilities (they are impossible to calculate because we don't know how many people are trying, how many are using contraception etc). i don't know why people are throwing these statistics around.

Anonymous wrote:My aunt had a history of recurrent miscarriages and no births. She stopped menstruating at 47 and thought she was going through menaupause. When he stomach started growing she thought she had a tumor and went to see a physician. She was 6 months pregnant. The baby is 20 now. These things happen.

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Anonymous wrote:My mom had me at 46, my older sister just went through menopause at 60. These things happen.

they do happen but its less than 2% for an actual birth at that age.

Anonymous wrote:My mom had me at 46, my older sister just went through menopause at 60. These things happen.

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Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to healthy, happy baby boy last year at age 50. It’s no one's business if we used donor egg, frozen embryo, iVF with eggs frozen years ago, or if we conceived naturally. (We didn’t conceive naturally.). No woman who gives birth at this age is doing anyone a disservice by failing to tell others how they got there. Why? Because one persons experience is not relevant anyone else’s. Any one else trying to get pregnant at this age will be told in their first meeting with any RE what their personal options are and, in part, that will be based on actions you took in the past, like freezing eggs or embryos. So, for anyone at an advanced age that’s fretting over everyone else’s failure to disclose the intimate details of how they got pregnant, stop focusing on everyone else, start focusing on yourself, and become an active participant in resolving your own infertility issues by seeing an RE. And for anyone who wants to know just to criticize an older mom for having kids at this age ... ha! ... energy isn’t age specific ... and, if anything, having a kid at this age has been an energizing change in our lives.

+100000
Watching someone in a movie does not give you the right to be all up in her ovaries , none of your business, she does not owe you her medical records.

Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to healthy, happy baby boy last year at age 50. It’s no one's business if we used donor egg, frozen embryo, iVF with eggs frozen years ago, or if we conceived naturally. (We didn’t conceive naturally.). No woman who gives birth at this age is doing anyone a disservice by failing to tell others how they got there. Why? Because one persons experience is not relevant anyone else’s. Any one else trying to get pregnant at this age will be told in their first meeting with any RE what their personal options are and, in part, that will be based on actions you took in the past, like freezing eggs or embryos. So, for anyone at an advanced age that’s fretting over everyone else’s failure to disclose the intimate details of how they got pregnant, stop focusing on everyone else, start focusing on yourself, and become an active participant in resolving your own infertility issues by seeing an RE. And for anyone who wants to know just to criticize an older mom for having kids at this age ... ha! ... energy isn’t age specific ... and, if anything, having a kid at this age has been an energizing change in our lives.

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Anonymous wrote:If it was a natural pregnancy more power to her. I just think these celebrities should publicly announce that they use donor eggs, if they do only because many ordinary women look up to them (unfortunately). This gives women a false impression and hope that they will be fertile in their 40s when the reality is mostly the opposite of that.

I could NOT agree more.

I think it's very unfortunate and creates a false sense of "you have all the time in the world!"

Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to healthy, happy baby boy last year at age 50. It’s no one's business if we used donor egg, frozen embryo, iVF with eggs frozen years ago, or if we conceived naturally. (We didn’t conceive naturally.). No woman who gives birth at this age is doing anyone a disservice by failing to tell others how they got there. Why? Because one persons experience is not relevant anyone else’s. Any one else trying to get pregnant at this age will be told in their first meeting with any RE what their personal options are and, in part, that will be based on actions you took in the past, like freezing eggs or embryos. So, for anyone at an advanced age that’s fretting over everyone else’s failure to disclose the intimate details of how they got pregnant, stop focusing on everyone else, start focusing on yourself, and become an active participant in resolving your own infertility issues by seeing an RE. And for anyone who wants to know just to criticize an older mom for having kids at this age ... ha! ... energy isn’t age specific ... and, if anything, having a kid at this age has been an energizing change in our lives.