Anonymous wrote:Hmmm you may be talking about my office. Only one person had a religious theme to their wreath last year, and that too is within their right. I don’t even think of wreaths as religious, and I’m Christian.
Anonymous wrote:I work for a large federal agency. Every year, we have a holiday party. This year, as part of the celebration, there is a wreath decorating contest, where each team of attorneys is given a wreath to decorate using any theme or materials. As a non-Christian, I find this activity incredibly alienating and insensitive. Am I overreacting?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wait, is my tax payer money going towards this?
No, their tax payer money is going towards it, because feds pay taxes too![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:And, I place wreaths on my door all year long. Search wreaths on Pinterest. Fall weather, spring wreaths, Valentine's day wreaths, summer wreaths, winter wreaths, and holiday wreaths.
It's not a special thing done only at Christmas.
A lot of people only do it at Christmas though. And that is surely the case for these workplaces.
Maybe in DC. In other places I have lived most single family homes have some sort of wreath (non religious) most of the year. There are football wreaths, flip flop wreaths, beach wreaths, fall wreaths, flower wreaths for spring. It's for fun and to add some color. Two of my old friends sell them year round.
In contrast, most of my neighbors here never put out wreaths, even during the holidays. I find it somewhat depressing. I don't associate door decorating and wreaths only with religious holidays.
Interesting. I did not know that. I've lived in CT, PA, DC, and MD, and in all these areas the wreaths were primarily Christmas-related.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a Jewish person, I wouldn't be super happy about a wreath decorating contest. HOWEVER... as a competitive person, I'd make damn sure my wreath won.![]()
Me too but I'd make it my Hanukkah wreath or do something really bizarre to annoy everyone.
I’m Jewish and have seasonal wreaths up year-round. Right now I have a gorgeous custom-made faux greenery wreath with blue, silver, and gold tones. It doesn’t overtly “say” anything but winter. You guys are thinking way too much about this.
Your the only Jewish person I know who does it.
Likewise. Jew here and even my Jewish family and friends who married Christians don't put up wreaths. (They are all raising the kids Jewish.)
It does sound like a beautiful wreath though! I am all for people decorating however they want. But it still doesn't erase the association, just like if a Christian put up a menorah, it would still be a Hanukkah symbol.
I guess I am weird then. I definitely don’t associate all wreaths with Christianity. In fact, it literally never occurred to me. I see my current wreath as a Hanukkah decoration! I find it very strange that you guys don’t know any Jews who put up non Christmas-y wreaths.
I will admit that I am not super religious and don’t go to services besides on holidays. Maybe that has something to do with it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Yes, you are over-reacting. A wreath has pagan origins, as you well know.
Pagan origins, current Christian symbol (or symbol of Christmas).
So, my summer wreath with a red, white, and blue, Stars and Stripes, and firecracker theme is a Christian symbol and a symbol of Christmas?
no. it's a corny take-off of an evergreen wreath that ONLY appears during Christmas, and is a symbol of Christmas. Not sure why everyone's being so dense about it. You're Jewish and you don't care or think it's really secular Christmas and not religious Christmas, that's fine. Be my guest. But don't pretend that an evergreen wreath with red bows that appears on your door on December 1 has nothing to do with Christmas.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Yes, you are over-reacting. A wreath has pagan origins, as you well know.
Pagan origins, current Christian symbol (or symbol of Christmas).
So, my summer wreath with a red, white, and blue, Stars and Stripes, and firecracker theme is a Christian symbol and a symbol of Christmas?
no. it's a corny take-off of an evergreen wreath that ONLY appears during Christmas, and is a symbol of Christmas. Not sure why everyone's being so dense about it. You're Jewish and you don't care or think it's really secular Christmas and not religious Christmas, that's fine. Be my guest. But don't pretend that an evergreen wreath with red bows that appears on your door on December 1 has nothing to do with Christmas. Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a Jewish person, I wouldn't be super happy about a wreath decorating contest. HOWEVER... as a competitive person, I'd make damn sure my wreath won.![]()
Me too but I'd make it my Hanukkah wreath or do something really bizarre to annoy everyone.
I’m Jewish and have seasonal wreaths up year-round. Right now I have a gorgeous custom-made faux greenery wreath with blue, silver, and gold tones. It doesn’t overtly “say” anything but winter. You guys are thinking way too much about this.
Your the only Jewish person I know who does it.
Likewise. Jew here and even my Jewish family and friends who married Christians don't put up wreaths. (They are all raising the kids Jewish.)
It does sound like a beautiful wreath though! I am all for people decorating however they want. But it still doesn't erase the association, just like if a Christian put up a menorah, it would still be a Hanukkah symbol.