Anonymous wrote:If you have 4, you don't have to go back to work ever

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Anonymous wrote:Well for us the reason is money and we make a pretty good living comparatively (HHI ~ 600k). We have three kids and we feel pretty confident that we can give them a nice life including all the extras like travel, private lessons, and sleep away camp. And college savings. That's the kicker. Our FA has us saving 1250 per month PER KID.

I guess people who have 4-6 kids and live like the OP make in the seven figures.

So the only rationale for having more kids is that you can afford them? There has to be a more compelling reason. Poor families pop out multiple kids and can't afford them and they end up welfare....what's their rationale?

Anonymous wrote:Well for us the reason is money and we make a pretty good living comparatively (HHI ~ 600k). We have three kids and we feel pretty confident that we can give them a nice life including all the extras like travel, private lessons, and sleep away camp. And college savings. That's the kicker. Our FA has us saving 1250 per month PER KID.

I guess people who have 4-6 kids and live like the OP make in the seven figures.

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DP here but I'd agree that women who have 4,5,6 or even more children seem, from afar, to be incredibly selfish and narcissistic. My assumption is that they have no other path to self-actualization so they default to popping out one more, and then one more, and so on. A cynic would agree with the PP that some of these women see their children as trophies, reflective of some sort of perceived achievement in life ignoring that fact that having multiple children requires no skill and is reflective of nothing other than fertility. We've already seen posters upthread proudly say that they couldn't care less about any impact to our collective environment that their behavior may have. So I'd like to understand from women who have 4,5,6 or more children......why? At the extreme....say the Duggars.....I'd imagine that there is near consensus that some abhorrent psychosis is driving behavior. But apart from the insanely large families, what is the rationale for the merely irresponsibly large families?

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Please explain the environmental impact of a child. Thank you

Here's one explanation: http://oregonstate.edu/ua/ncs/archives/2009/jul/family-planning-major-environmental-emphasis (The focus here is on carbon emissions.)

I don't particularly care about an extra child's impact on the environment. If the government or society has a problem with it then they should severely limit immigration (isn't natural birthrates lower than the replacement rates?).

Good luck in trying to persuade me it's wasteful to bring an extra person to this world.

It's not just wasteful it is so unnecessary. I see families with 5 or 6 kids and it just makes me think that the mother is some sort of broodmare who can't help but pump out more kids because that's how she defines her value and purpose in life. It's just grotesque and does no favor to the litter of kids fighting amongst themselves for their parent's attention.

That is just an incredibly unkind, hurtful thing to say.

+1 yeah, wow. What on earth has gone so wrong in your own life that you became such a rude, low class, bitter b*tch? Did you have fertility struggles?

Low class? Sweetie, I'm not the one popping out kids like a clown car. And yes, when you are DESTROYING MY PLANET with your little f*** trophies ON MY DIME, it does make me a little bitter.

And no fertility issues here, but thanks for your concern on that

Hm. If THAT is how you characterize / think of children, it seems you must not be a very good mother. Not to mention your clear aggression and anger issues! Sweetie.

DP here but I'd agree that women who have 4,5,6 or even more children seem, from afar, to be incredibly selfish and narcissistic. My assumption is that they have no other path to self-actualization so they default to popping out one more, and then one more, and so on. A cynic would agree with the PP that some of these women see their children as trophies, reflective of some sort of perceived achievement in life ignoring that fact that having multiple children requires no skill and is reflective of nothing other than fertility. We've already seen posters upthread proudly say that they couldn't care less about any impact to our collective environment that their behavior may have. So I'd like to understand from women who have 4,5,6 or more children......why? At the extreme....say the Duggars.....I'd imagine that there is near consensus that some abhorrent psychosis is driving behavior. But apart from the insanely large families, what is the rationale for the merely irresponsibly large families?

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Please explain the environmental impact of a child. Thank you

Here's one explanation: http://oregonstate.edu/ua/ncs/archives/2009/jul/family-planning-major-environmental-emphasis (The focus here is on carbon emissions.)

I don't particularly care about an extra child's impact on the environment. If the government or society has a problem with it then they should severely limit immigration (isn't natural birthrates lower than the replacement rates?).

Good luck in trying to persuade me it's wasteful to bring an extra person to this world.

It's not just wasteful it is so unnecessary. I see families with 5 or 6 kids and it just makes me think that the mother is some sort of broodmare who can't help but pump out more kids because that's how she defines her value and purpose in life. It's just grotesque and does no favor to the litter of kids fighting amongst themselves for their parent's attention.

That is just an incredibly unkind, hurtful thing to say.

+1 yeah, wow. What on earth has gone so wrong in your own life that you became such a rude, low class, bitter b*tch? Did you have fertility struggles?

Low class? Sweetie, I'm not the one popping out kids like a clown car. And yes, when you are DESTROYING MY PLANET with your little f*** trophies ON MY DIME, it does make me a little bitter.

And no fertility issues here, but thanks for your concern on that

Hm. If THAT is how you characterize / think of children, it seems you must not be a very good mother. Not to mention your clear aggression and anger issues! Sweetie.

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Anonymous wrote:No! One son, one daughter. That's the traditional "Rich man's family" in the United States.

Not anymore. Most of my ivy educated friends have 3 or 4 kids with mom staying at home. For a while 3-4 seemed like the new 2.

Anonymous wrote:Sheer fantasy. We'd all look like her after popping out six kids in six years.

Anonymous wrote:I honestly feel like with any more than three you are really short changing the kids. No parent could gI’ve adequate attention when they have that many kids.

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Please explain the environmental impact of a child. Thank you

Here's one explanation: http://oregonstate.edu/ua/ncs/archives/2009/jul/family-planning-major-environmental-emphasis (The focus here is on carbon emissions.)

I don't particularly care about an extra child's impact on the environment. If the government or society has a problem with it then they should severely limit immigration (isn't natural birthrates lower than the replacement rates?).

Good luck in trying to persuade me it's wasteful to bring an extra person to this world.

It's not just wasteful it is so unnecessary. I see families with 5 or 6 kids and it just makes me think that the mother is some sort of broodmare who can't help but pump out more kids because that's how she defines her value and purpose in life. It's just grotesque and does no favor to the litter of kids fighting amongst themselves for their parent's attention.

That is just an incredibly unkind, hurtful thing to say.

+1 yeah, wow. What on earth has gone so wrong in your own life that you became such a rude, low class, bitter b*tch? Did you have fertility struggles?

Low class? Sweetie, I'm not the one popping out kids like a clown car. And yes, when you are DESTROYING MY PLANET with your little f*** trophies ON MY DIME, it does make me a little bitter.

And no fertility issues here, but thanks for your concern on that

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Anonymous wrote:Italians haven't been having children for a long while now. The government has been trying to get them to procreate.

Looks like Dolce & Gabana are trying to make it look glamorous as wel.

Though, frankly, with that guy in his "wife-beater" tee and all of those kids it reminds me of an Irish family during the potato famine.

same. probably because they're all in their underwear.

Idk but there is nothing glam or aspiration about that photo for me.

Maybe if they were all dressed up at the theater, like at a performance for the Nutcracker or something? That could be sweet.

And women who have given birth six times have a body like that. And boobies like that! Yeah, right!

After two kids, no chance.

Umm...why are some of you taking the ad so seriously? Of course a powerful, successful fashion house is using professional models in an ad. And of course the models are attractive -- that's why they are models.