If you are feeling guilty about your white husband you in fact despise him because of his race. You should stop this hypocrisy and divorce him. Let him find someone who will not secretly despise him for the color of his skin.

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Not necessarily. Every country does not have this pathology

Yes it does.

- Signed a well-traveled SE asian

I didn't realize SE Asians spoke for the entire world. However this thread has been focused on South Asians so I understand why you fixate on that. Either way, there are immigrant communities (one which I am a member of), where marrying white is a rarity and women are not penalized for having darker skin. I would know since I am dark skinned myself. Like I said, every nationality does not have this pathology.

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Not necessarily. Every country does not have this pathology

Yes it does.

- Signed a well-traveled SE asian

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Anonymous wrote:im south Asian and noticed this trend mostly amongst South Indians. My guess is that they're not considered attractive by other south asians and have to seek people outside their race.

This. It’s the same for other nationalities with very dark skin tones.

Not necessarily. Every country does not have this pathology

Anonymous wrote:im south Asian and noticed this trend mostly amongst South Indians. My guess is that they're not considered attractive by other south asians and have to seek people outside their race.

This. It’s the same for other nationalities with very dark skin tones.

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Anonymous wrote:im south Asian and noticed this trend mostly amongst South Indians. My guess is that they're not considered attractive by other south asians and have to seek people outside their race.

That's because South Indians have smaller, more attractive noses. They are also more likely to be thin.

Pffffff have you ever been to south India?? Every other person has a huge wide nose which looks massive bc they are so petite.

Every south Asian knows Pakistanis and North Indians >>>> South Indians.

You're an idiot. I'm South Indian with a South Indian DH and neither of us have "huge wide noses" or are short. I guess if we are going to stereotype, we can say that every South Asian knows that Pakistanis and North Indians are DESPERATE for white people to consider them as white too, but it'll never happen

I'm going to be money the op is South Indian and dark. Yes some North Indians and Pakistanis marry whites but not at the rate of South Indians. We don't need whites to see us as white but I know quite a few South Indian women who married whites because they wanted fair children. North Indians and Pakistanis don't need a white partner for that.

The whitest Indian is brown-skinned by comparison to an Caucasian so most South Indians who are here don't care about skin color as much as you think. In India, sure.

South Asians are obsessed with skin color - which is why OP married a white guy. South Asians, especially the darkest of us are obsessed with marrying lighter skinned people. This is something they won't share with outsiders - but common knowledge within the community.

Anonymous wrote:Eh. There are more white guys than Indian guys around in the US. Easier to find a match who is a white guy.

Yep both special about you OP. Moving on...