Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 14:40     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
you're missing out on a lifetime of MFM threesomes.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 14:36     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
So you dodged a bullet.

If I were in your shoes, I would reach out to a few close friends to ask them if they suspected he was gay. Then I would ask myself why I missed the red flags.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 12:04     Subject: Re:Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:
How could they not casually mention it to at least make ME ask him if they have thought this about him.
Now I feel someone betrayed by his family that EVERYONE "suspected" this but no one ever even gave me a clue.



I'm so sorry OP. But, as for the above, the person who is responsible for telling you is your boyfriend, not his family. Maybe they thought you knew he was bi and was okay with it.


+1

However, they could at least have asked him whether he had told you and pressured him if he hadn't.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 11:32     Subject: Re:Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
How could they not casually mention it to at least make ME ask him if they have thought this about him.
Now I feel someone betrayed by his family that EVERYONE "suspected" this but no one ever even gave me a clue.



I'm so sorry OP. But, as for the above, the person who is responsible for telling you is your boyfriend, not his family. Maybe they thought you knew he was bi and was okay with it.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 11:31     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.
Hmm, FALSE. This was NOT my post. I am the OP. It was Marc, and not Brad. Why do people post and pretend to be the OP? Anyways, this IS the OP. I called his mom last night, and talked to her. Told her the wedding is off, that I am very sad, but it's for the best. The words that came out of her mouth killed me. She said "Is this because of his sexuality?" I said "WHAT DO YOU MEAN?" She said "Well, we have all suspected that he may like men and women." I said "WHAT??" Then she said "Back when he went to college he had what was considered a boyfriend. We have all be so thrilled that he found you and settled down."

I literally was speechless. Did his ENTIRE family know this expect for me???

How could they not casually mention it to at least make ME ask him if they have thought this about him.
Now I feel someone betrayed by his family that EVERYONE "suspected" this but no one ever even gave me a clue.

So, my sadness has now turned into anger. Anyways. I'm done posting about my problems, so if you see another OP post on this link - IT'S NOT ME.


Well thank goodness that's over - your posting about your problems I mean.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 11:29     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.
Hmm, FALSE. This was NOT my post. I am the OP. It was Marc, and not Brad. Why do people post and pretend to be the OP? Anyways, this IS the OP. I called his mom last night, and talked to her. Told her the wedding is off, that I am very sad, but it's for the best. The words that came out of her mouth killed me. She said "Is this because of his sexuality?" I said "WHAT DO YOU MEAN?" She said "Well, we have all suspected that he may like men and women." I said "WHAT??" Then she said "Back when he went to college he had what was considered a boyfriend. We have all be so thrilled that he found you and settled down."

I literally was speechless. Did his ENTIRE family know this expect for me???

How could they not casually mention it to at least make ME ask him if they have thought this about him.
Now I feel someone betrayed by his family that EVERYONE "suspected" this but no one ever even gave me a clue.

So, my sadness has now turned into anger. Anyways. I'm done posting about my problems, so if you see another OP post on this link - IT'S NOT ME.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 10:07     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.


I hope you took pics and sent them to support your previous text to MIL!

(Because at this point we all know you're trolling, OP.)


That was obviously not the OP.

Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 08:44     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.


Funniest post ever. Come on people - how simple are you?
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 08:30     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
I would tell his mom.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2017 06:48     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Keep the ring too!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2017 22:46     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.


I hope you took pics and sent them to support your previous text to MIL!

(Because at this point we all know you're trolling, OP.)



Right, lol
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2017 22:41     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.


I hope you took pics and sent them to support your previous text to MIL!

(Because at this point we all know you're trolling, OP.)
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2017 22:35     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
OP here. Yesterday, after I got home from the grocery store, I found him in our marital bed, naked, with Brad. he said they were just wrestling but I have doubts that he's telling the truth.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2017 21:15     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site
Anonymous wrote:

"MIL, I'm so sorry to cause you pain, but the wedding and all other events are cancelled. I just found out today that Larlo is gay. We are both very upset about this development and are trying to make sense of it all. Love, Larla."

Better your story than a cooked-up fabrication, OP.


You don't have to out him fwiw. Tell her it's cancelled and that he would bee the best person to explain.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2017 20:15     Subject: Fiance' just signed up for gay dating/hook up site


"MIL, I'm so sorry to cause you pain, but the wedding and all other events are cancelled. I just found out today that Larlo is gay. We are both very upset about this development and are trying to make sense of it all. Love, Larla."

Better your story than a cooked-up fabrication, OP.