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Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

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Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

I just think Trey was a really good guy, and he knew how terrible his mother was. He loved charlotte, he knew he had failed her, and he wanted to make it up to her. Maybe he didn't want his mother to have the house and wanted charlotte to be able to have her future family there.

I never thought she was that bad but I have the MIL from hell.

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Anonymous wrote:Trey was nice but wasn't very supportive during infertility. I think Harry worked because he was very blunt. Charlotte needed someone a bit more assertive. Trey was too passive.

Trey was "beta,"Harry and especially Big were more "alpha."

On the subject of characters-- Did anyone think Samantha and Charlotte were more or less one dimensional, with Carrie and Miranda being more multidimensional? Of course, Carrie was the central character and narrator, so we heard her insights more.

I think they did try to add layers to both Charlotte and Samantha by having them face challenges unique to their particular dispositions. Charlotte is a Park Ave. Princess who wanted to marry Prince Charming. Well...she did and found out all that glitters is not gold. When she ended up with the "beast" that is Harry to her "beauty," she demonstrated a lot of growth and agency.

Same thing with Sam and the Smith and cancer story line. We also sensed that Sam was sexually promiscuous because of her deep sense of insecurity. She thought no man could possibly want her for anything other than her body. I don't necessarily think Carrie and Miranda were more developed than the other two.

I think it would have been much more interesting if Harry was poor, but I guess they thought they had already done that with Steve.

Sure. Of all the women Char consistently dated blue blooded super wealthy guys. Even for casual sex she wouldn't consider anyone who wasn't a lawyer or an investment banker and she was the most obviously classist.

I still really found her storyline realistic and very endearing. She, like a lot of us out there, had this large checklist of her perfect man and found out that what really makes her happy was something very different. Her short marriage to Trey and its dissolution was very interesting. I think the fact that Char found the rigid rules and customs of the McDougal clan stifling and intrusive was indicative of her growth from back when we first meet her in Season 1. Maybe season 1 char wouldve loved the McDougals and all their strange world. But by the time she finally marries her perfect on paper dream man...she had been single and independent for a long time and actually needed a marriage where she had more autonomy. Harry made her so happy because he was on board with whatever she wanted, no questions asked. She had the upper hand in that marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:Trey was nice but wasn't very supportive during infertility. I think Harry worked because he was very blunt. Charlotte needed someone a bit more assertive. Trey was too passive.

Trey was "beta,"Harry and especially Big were more "alpha."

On the subject of characters-- Did anyone think Samantha and Charlotte were more or less one dimensional, with Carrie and Miranda being more multidimensional? Of course, Carrie was the central character and narrator, so we heard her insights more.

I think they did try to add layers to both Charlotte and Samantha by having them face challenges unique to their particular dispositions. Charlotte is a Park Ave. Princess who wanted to marry Prince Charming. Well...she did and found out all that glitters is not gold. When she ended up with the "beast" that is Harry to her "beauty," she demonstrated a lot of growth and agency.

Same thing with Sam and the Smith and cancer story line. We also sensed that Sam was sexually promiscuous because of her deep sense of insecurity. She thought no man could possibly want her for anything other than her body. I don't necessarily think Carrie and Miranda were more developed than the other two.

I think it would have been much more interesting if Harry was poor, but I guess they thought they had already done that with Steve.

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Anonymous wrote:Trey was nice but wasn't very supportive during infertility. I think Harry worked because he was very blunt. Charlotte needed someone a bit more assertive. Trey was too passive.

Trey was "beta,"Harry and especially Big were more "alpha."

On the subject of characters-- Did anyone think Samantha and Charlotte were more or less one dimensional, with Carrie and Miranda being more multidimensional? Of course, Carrie was the central character and narrator, so we heard her insights more.

I think they did try to add layers to both Charlotte and Samantha by having them face challenges unique to their particular dispositions. Charlotte is a Park Ave. Princess who wanted to marry Prince Charming. Well...she did and found out all that glitters is not gold. When she ended up with the "beast" that is Harry to her "beauty," she demonstrated a lot of growth and agency.

Same thing with Sam and the Smith and cancer story line. We also sensed that Sam was sexually promiscuous because of her deep sense of insecurity. She thought no man could possibly want her for anything other than her body. I don't necessarily think Carrie and Miranda were more developed than the other two.

Carrie certainly wasn't. In fact, I'd argue she's the one character who didn't develop any emotional maturity or growth during the run of the show. The others all did. She remained the same vapid, shallow, selfish person she was all along.

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Anonymous wrote:Trey was nice but wasn't very supportive during infertility. I think Harry worked because he was very blunt. Charlotte needed someone a bit more assertive. Trey was too passive.

Trey was "beta,"Harry and especially Big were more "alpha."

On the subject of characters-- Did anyone think Samantha and Charlotte were more or less one dimensional, with Carrie and Miranda being more multidimensional? Of course, Carrie was the central character and narrator, so we heard her insights more.

I think they did try to add layers to both Charlotte and Samantha by having them face challenges unique to their particular dispositions. Charlotte is a Park Ave. Princess who wanted to marry Prince Charming. Well...she did and found out all that glitters is not gold. When she ended up with the "beast" that is Harry to her "beauty," she demonstrated a lot of growth and agency.

Same thing with Sam and the Smith and cancer story line. We also sensed that Sam was sexually promiscuous because of her deep sense of insecurity. She thought no man could possibly want her for anything other than her body. I don't necessarily think Carrie and Miranda were more developed than the other two.

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Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

l

Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

I just think Trey was a really good guy, and he knew how terrible his mother was. He loved charlotte, he knew he had failed her, and he wanted to make it up to her. Maybe he didn't want his mother to have the house and wanted charlotte to be able to have her future family there.

I agree with this completely. And I don't doubt that piece of real estate was just one of many. It just happened to be the one Trey lived in. I don't think he missed it, and am willing to bet he found an even better apartment.

Right. Also I think his extreme generosity speaks to his patrician manners. When you grow up in the kind of abundance someone like him is bound to be, fighting over one of many real estate properties around the world with a wife with whom you had a sad end to a marriage, seems extremely petty and gauche. He couldn't fulfill his wife's basic needs, the least he could do was end it by respecting her and keeping her dignity intact. It would be extremely tacky for him to ask her to leave his apartment.It was't a monetary thing, it was extremely classy.

Anonymous wrote:Trey was nice but wasn't very supportive during infertility. I think Harry worked because he was very blunt. Charlotte needed someone a bit more assertive. Trey was too passive.

Trey was "beta,"Harry and especially Big were more "alpha."

On the subject of characters-- Did anyone think Samantha and Charlotte were more or less one dimensional, with Carrie and Miranda being more multidimensional? Of course, Carrie was the central character and narrator, so we heard her insights more.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

l

Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

I just think Trey was a really good guy, and he knew how terrible his mother was. He loved charlotte, he knew he had failed her, and he wanted to make it up to her. Maybe he didn't want his mother to have the house and wanted charlotte to be able to have her future family there.

I agree with this completely. And I don't doubt that piece of real estate was just one of many. It just happened to be the one Trey lived in. I don't think he missed it, and am willing to bet he found an even better apartment.

Do you think Trey wound up married again? to an older woman who does not want children?

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Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

l

Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

I just think Trey was a really good guy, and he knew how terrible his mother was. He loved charlotte, he knew he had failed her, and he wanted to make it up to her. Maybe he didn't want his mother to have the house and wanted charlotte to be able to have her future family there.

I agree with this completely. And I don't doubt that piece of real estate was just one of many. It just happened to be the one Trey lived in. I don't think he missed it, and am willing to bet he found an even better apartment.

Trey was nice but wasn't very supportive during infertility. I think Harry worked because he was very blunt. Charlotte needed someone a bit more assertive. Trey was too passive.

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Yeah. Trey wanted a break because IVF is frustrating and hard. Char was acting like a brat especially considering he was a really good husband in all areas (once bedroom issues were fixed).

She couldn't wait a year and try again? She just quit.

And didn't she also kiss their gardener and Trey pardoned, forgave it?

Yep. She was much more forgiving of Harry even though he wasn't nearly as nice to her as Trey was. Trey was a genuinely good man who tried to do right by her to the best of his ability. He went through painful therapy sessions to fix his impotence issues, forgave her infidelity, and when she wanted to quit, still tried to end the marriage on the best of terms.

Harry forced himself on her, broke up with her because she wanted some attention and expected her to change her faith to be with him!

I think Charlotte REALLY did not do right by Trey. Making a baby is BOTH people's decision, just temporarily exhausted by the pressure. I think Charlotte went in expecting fairy-tales and was upset by the smallest slights.By the time Harry came around, she was desperate and did everything to have him. Trey was a better man IMO. #teamtrey

Yeah. Trey wanted a break because IVF is frustrating and hard. Char was acting like a brat especially considering he was a really good husband in all areas (once bedroom issues were fixed).

She couldn't wait a year and try again? She just quit.

And didn't she also kiss their gardener and Trey pardoned, forgave it?

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Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

l

Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

+1 - in the episode where she was negotiating her prenup I think she was only going to get $1 million and that's if she were married for a certain number of years. And part of the reason Trey wanted to take a break from TTC was because of how crazy Charlotte was acting, not because he just changed his mind. No way she earned that apartment after a marriage that didn't even last a full season.

Yeah. Trey wanted a break because IVF is frustrating and hard. Char was acting like a brat especially considering he was a really good husband in all areas (once bedroom issues were fixed).

She couldn't wait a year and try again? She just quit.

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Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

l

Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

+1 - in the episode where she was negotiating her prenup I think she was only going to get $1 million and that's if she were married for a certain number of years. And part of the reason Trey wanted to take a break from TTC was because of how crazy Charlotte was acting, not because he just changed his mind. No way she earned that apartment after a marriage that didn't even last a full season.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love this thread. What else about SATC can we talk about? Not the movies.

l

Trey is getting a bad rap in this thread for being stiff and boring but so was Charlotte. They were equally matched IMO.

Speaking of those 2, something that always bugged me was him giving her the apartment in the divorce. That was prime real estate and had been in his family for generations - and he gives her the house, where she moves her new husband in and has a family there.

Trey and Charlotte couldn't have been married more than 15 months and that includes a separation. I'm usually not team MIL, but Bunny really should have pulled out the big guns, maybe had Trey declared insane - whatever it took to put a stop to that nonsense.

See, I think that story line was great and seemed accurate. It was so sad when Trey told Charlotte he didn't want any children. I mean, that's devastating and he's such a good man to give her the apartment. I think in real life it would have gone down a similar way. "Trey gave me that apartment"-"it wasn't his to give", and then the telegram "Charlotte was a wonderful wife. Give her everything she wants. seriously mother. Stop".

I thought it seemed really stupid. A telegram? REally? Was it 1936? She might have been a good wife, but that didn't mean she deserved a mulit-million dollar piece of property that had been in his family for years.

A few years of alimony, sure. Or a payout. But COME ON.

I just think Trey was a really good guy, and he knew how terrible his mother was. He loved charlotte, he knew he had failed her, and he wanted to make it up to her. Maybe he didn't want his mother to have the house and wanted charlotte to be able to have her future family there.