Anonymous
12/20/2016 18:56
Subject: Re:How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
I agree with the man above. Ladies, you cannot have your cake and it it too. That is why I dont date women who dont pay for their meals. You are checkkng me out as much as I am checking you out! So we split the $ required to do that.
Anonymous
12/20/2016 18:50
Subject: Re:How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
Anon100 wrote:Man talking here- What made you so sure that he wanted sex? And how, or why, were you so arrogant to presume that unless you broached the topic beforehand that it would have gone that far? It's insulting to assume that a man would just hop into bed with you. You have to work to get inside my pants. It's never assumed that we will be sleeping together. Dates are NOT the man spending money and time to get laid. It's two adults spending time together to appeal to each other and exploring the possibility of further romance. The minute you view dating as a transactional process whereby you think I'm out for only one thing...you've lost focus on what this is all about. Honestly, if you had approached me about this topic there wouldn't have been a date.
Oh, Jesus, get off your high horse. Why do I feel like no one *wants* to sleep with you?
Anonymous
12/20/2016 18:21
Subject: How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hey OP. Tomorrow's Wednesday. Midweek date for #3?
OP here. Thank you for caring!
I can't do anything this week due to my work schedule but we are on for Friday. Yay!
Friday at your place?
Anonymous
12/20/2016 17:19
Subject: How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
Anonymous wrote:Hey OP. Tomorrow's Wednesday. Midweek date for #3?
OP here. Thank you for caring!
I can't do anything this week due to my work schedule but we are on for Friday. Yay!
Anonymous
12/20/2016 10:08
Subject: Re:How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
Anonymous wrote:singledadmclean wrote:Beta male nice guy here. I never push for sex and end up wasting a lot of time. After 10 dates I can tell, not only am I not getting any, they have hooked up with some other guy they aren't telling me about. I need to change what I am doing.
I have an alpha friend who insists on sex on the 2nd date or he walks. This policy has not only gotten him lots of dates, and has had several long-term relationships with high quality women.
An Attractive woman is *always* getting it from somebody. If it ain't you, it's someone else.
So true. "I'm not willing to have sex on the second date" really means "I'm not willing to have sex on the second date WITH YOU."
Anonymous
12/20/2016 10:06
Subject: Re:How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:singledadmclean wrote:Beta male nice guy here. I never push for sex and end up wasting a lot of time. After 10 dates I can tell, not only am I not getting any, they have hooked up with some other guy they aren't telling me about. I need to change what I am doing.
I have an alpha friend who insists on sex on the 2nd date or he walks. This policy has not only gotten him lots of dates, and has had several long-term relationships with high quality women.
Please don't "insist" on sex. Your friend is an ass not an alpha. There is a difference.
It's not "insist". She has a choice - she can have sex with him or not. But he has a choice, too - namely, if she chooses to say no, then he will choose to next her and move on to someone else.
x2. I've never had an expectation of sex by a certain number of dates, but I did have an expectation of something happening within a certain period of time. If it doesn't, I'm walking because as another poster said, I'm not here to finance some woman's restaurant bill.
Anonymous
12/19/2016 21:53
Subject: How do I go back to his place and watch a movie without having sex? Is that possible?
Hey OP. Tomorrow's Wednesday. Midweek date for #3?