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Anonymous wrote:Hindsight is 20/20. Policing parents like this is a way to teach mothers that their place is in the home.

Truly one of the stupidest things I have heard on DCUM.

Why? Sounds like you must really have it figured out to judge others so freely. Please be generous and share your wisdom.

Because nothing about expecting a parent to follow the law and not leave kids who can't handle it alone suggests WOMEN need to not work. It suggests that PARENTS need to LITERALLY be home with their kids if they aren't mature enough to be alone.

I feel so sorry for your kids. Sounds like you watch them like a hawk! Do they have to leave the door open while they're in the bathroom?

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

Not sure why you're ticked. I don't own dogs for this reason. I'm not negligent- I purposely don't own one. Self awareness isn't a bad thing.

+1. Far better to be aware than to be someone who has a dog that routinely runs out of the house. I hope all of you people with escaping dogs don't complain when one gets hit by a car.

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

Not sure why you're ticked. I don't own dogs for this reason. I'm not negligent- I purposely don't own one. Self awareness isn't a bad thing.

+1. Far better to be aware than to be someone who has a dog that routinely runs out of the house. I hope all of you people with escaping dogs don't complain when one gets hit by a car.

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

Not sure why you're ticked. I don't own dogs for this reason. I'm not negligent- I purposely don't own one. Self awareness isn't a bad thing.

DP. Yes, it does sound like you couldn't handle a dog. Glad you realize that. Good job.

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Anonymous wrote:Hindsight is 20/20. Policing parents like this is a way to teach mothers that their place is in the home.

No, but it "teaches" mothers AND fathers that their priority should be their children--whether in their home or away from home. Good parenting decisions matter.

Curious how old you are. Parents used to feel like they didn't have to be next to their kids constantly. People used to think that kids learning to navigate the world without parents was a part of learning how to grow up.

Not Pp, but How old are YOU? Because I'm in my 30s and when I was growing up, no one left 8 year olds alone in vacation rentals.

Also, please remember that back in the day when there was less helicoptering, kids learned early on not to let the dogs out in traffic or run in the road. The problem nowadays is that parents helicopter 90% of the time and then expect the kids to be able to figure it out when they throw them out on their own.

Nonsense. I'm a NP and also in my 30s. People (including me and friends) were definitely left alone in vacation rentals while parents went to get food, stayed at the beach a little longer, etc.

Agree. That was part of growing up back then.

Do kids these days not get left alone until the day they go off to college?

Yes, because there is no difference between 8 and 20.

You sound really wise. Would you mind telling me what the cut-off age is?

NP: it's not 8 and 9 at a vacation rental.

I'd use double digits as a starting point. 10 and 11? Maybe.

I'm guessing something else triggered this.

Okay. So not nine. But ten is okay. Got it.

A year can make quite a difference.

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

Not sure why you're ticked. I don't own dogs for this reason. I'm not negligent- I purposely don't own one. Self awareness isn't a bad thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Hindsight is 20/20. Policing parents like this is a way to teach mothers that their place is in the home.

No, but it "teaches" mothers AND fathers that their priority should be their children--whether in their home or away from home. Good parenting decisions matter.

Curious how old you are. Parents used to feel like they didn't have to be next to their kids constantly. People used to think that kids learning to navigate the world without parents was a part of learning how to grow up.

Not Pp, but How old are YOU? Because I'm in my 30s and when I was growing up, no one left 8 year olds alone in vacation rentals.

Also, please remember that back in the day when there was less helicoptering, kids learned early on not to let the dogs out in traffic or run in the road. The problem nowadays is that parents helicopter 90% of the time and then expect the kids to be able to figure it out when they throw them out on their own.

Nonsense. I'm a NP and also in my 30s. People (including me and friends) were definitely left alone in vacation rentals while parents went to get food, stayed at the beach a little longer, etc.

Agree. That was part of growing up back then.

Do kids these days not get left alone until the day they go off to college?

Yes, because there is no difference between 8 and 20.

You sound really wise. Would you mind telling me what the cut-off age is?

NP: it's not 8 and 9 at a vacation rental.

I'd use double digits as a starting point. 10 and 11? Maybe.

I'm guessing something else triggered this.

Okay. So not nine. But ten is okay. Got it.

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

Not sure why you're ticked. I don't own dogs for this reason. I'm not negligent- I purposely don't own one. Self awareness isn't a bad thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

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Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Thank god! We need less of you people owning dogs that end up in shelters due to their negligence

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Anonymous wrote:Has it occurred to any of you there might be more to the story? The link says she was 5 miles away getting food at a restaurant. Maybe she was gone a long time and the kids told someone. Maybe when they found her they saw she had been sitting at the bar of the restaurant drinking and had been there for quite awhile. I find it hard to believe the entire story is "good mom goes to restaurant real quick for food, immediately arrested for leaving kids unattended on beach." There surely were mitigating circumstances and details to result in arrest and being charged.

I agree theres probably more to the story. I cant read the article because Im on my phone, but is it true she went to a restaurant to pixk up food? Why didnt she have it delivered? When I used to leave my kids that age alone for short periods they had strict instructions: stay in the house with the door locked. Do not let anyone know you are alone. Do not open the door to anyone.

And to the pp suggesting the stranger should have watched the kids himself if he was worried, get a life. Not his freakin' responsibility.

Anonymous wrote:Dogs are a pain in the ass. This is why I don't own one. Dog get out of my house/car/leash and runs off, I'm not ditching my kids to chase it. Bye, dog.

Anonymous wrote:Has it occurred to any of you there might be more to the story? The link says she was 5 miles away getting food at a restaurant. Maybe she was gone a long time and the kids told someone. Maybe when they found her they saw she had been sitting at the bar of the restaurant drinking and had been there for quite awhile. I find it hard to believe the entire story is "good mom goes to restaurant real quick for food, immediately arrested for leaving kids unattended on beach." There surely were mitigating circumstances and details to result in arrest and being charged.