Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Homework sucks! They go to school for 7 hours. Isn't that enough to learn something. High school homework is ridiculous and my kids barely sleep.
kids in other countries work harder. Your kid will be competing with these kids for jobs.
Anonymous wrote:Homework sucks! They go to school for 7 hours. Isn't that enough to learn something. High school homework is ridiculous and my kids barely sleep.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My K child never had homework last year.
That said, I absolutely had homework as a kid in the DMV from 1st on up. By about mid first grade, your child should be able to read most of the instructions. That said, helping a child with homework is something you need to be prepared for from now until they graduate. This was always the norm around here, and I never knew anyone whose parents made excuses not to.
By about 9th grade the math curriculum will have surpassed my current math capabilities. I went to RM and took B/C Calc my senior year. That was some 25 years ago. I haven't used it since. No way will I be able to help my HS Senior with that homework. I also took AP Chem--couldn't calculate a mole today if my life depended on it. That thermal dynamics I learned in AP physics--nope, can't help you there either. I could read an english or history essay for substance and grammar though.
My parents did not help me with my homework in HS. If I didn't understand a concept, it was my responsibility to let the teacher know and schedule time to review the material with them. If that meant missing lunch, that's what I did or if I had to miss PE to sit through the class lecture again, then I did. But counting on mom and dad to explain those concepts was not an option.
This is interesting, if inadvertent, commentary on the usefulness (or lack thereof) of a lot of what we learned (or rather briefly memorized in many cases) in school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My K child never had homework last year.
That said, I absolutely had homework as a kid in the DMV from 1st on up. By about mid first grade, your child should be able to read most of the instructions. That said, helping a child with homework is something you need to be prepared for from now until they graduate. This was always the norm around here, and I never knew anyone whose parents made excuses not to.
By about 9th grade the math curriculum will have surpassed my current math capabilities. I went to RM and took B/C Calc my senior year. That was some 25 years ago. I haven't used it since. No way will I be able to help my HS Senior with that homework. I also took AP Chem--couldn't calculate a mole today if my life depended on it. That thermal dynamics I learned in AP physics--nope, can't help you there either. I could read an english or history essay for substance and grammar though.
My parents did not help me with my homework in HS. If I didn't understand a concept, it was my responsibility to let the teacher know and schedule time to review the material with them. If that meant missing lunch, that's what I did or if I had to miss PE to sit through the class lecture again, then I did. But counting on mom and dad to explain those concepts was not an option.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here again. I help my kids for 2-3 hours each night (after a 10 hour workday). 1 hour would be acceptable.
We all do it and don't like it, but accept it. What if parents rallied together at school district meetings and said "this is unacceptable. Find a way to teach our kids better."
As several of you posted, they don't do drills anymore. They don't take time reviewing homework. They don't focus enough on the core skills- they fill the day with nonsense. Our school year is too short compared to the rest of the world (thanks teachers' unions) We have to supplement all summer long.
I'm a teacher and I have seen a lot of blame placed on unions before but this is new. I'm interested in how it is the fault of the unions that our school year isn't longer. To make it longer, they would need to pay to put a/c in all of the schools. Then they would need to come up with more money to pay teachers to work the additional days. Hmmm. Could it be that this is simply too expensive? Parents complain about paying for school supplies for goodness' sake. I doubt they would want their taxes hiked up a lot more for more instructional days.
This! I'm a journalist who covered education for years. The school year isn't longer because it would require an increase in taxes. Teachers would mostly support a longer year.
As a general rule, I agree that way too much homework is being assigned.
My kindergartner grandson received homework before his first full week of classes.
What's wrong with that? We got weekly homework in prek. It took 30-45 minutes per week and reinforced what was going on in school and let me see how my child was doing. 1st grade was maybe an hour, sometimes more weekly with a special project every so often. It starts good study habits.
WRONG. It can cause power struggles and discourage kids from enjoying school. Zero benefits.
We don't have power struggles. We have a set routine and it gets done. Maybe how you are approaching it and your attitude is the issue. We have a snack and sit down together and get it done.
PK & K students gain more by playing after school than by doing homework. There's plenty of time to develop good study habits when kids are older & homework is age-appropriate.
15 minutes of homework is no big deal. There is still play time, activity time, snack and dinner as well as bath/shower time. Why can't there be a balance of learning and play.
Because the homework is 100% unnecessary.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here again. I help my kids for 2-3 hours each night (after a 10 hour workday). 1 hour would be acceptable.
We all do it and don't like it, but accept it. What if parents rallied together at school district meetings and said "this is unacceptable. Find a way to teach our kids better."
As several of you posted, they don't do drills anymore. They don't take time reviewing homework. They don't focus enough on the core skills- they fill the day with nonsense. Our school year is too short compared to the rest of the world (thanks teachers' unions) We have to supplement all summer long.
I'm a teacher and I have seen a lot of blame placed on unions before but this is new. I'm interested in how it is the fault of the unions that our school year isn't longer. To make it longer, they would need to pay to put a/c in all of the schools. Then they would need to come up with more money to pay teachers to work the additional days. Hmmm. Could it be that this is simply too expensive? Parents complain about paying for school supplies for goodness' sake. I doubt they would want their taxes hiked up a lot more for more instructional days.
This! I'm a journalist who covered education for years. The school year isn't longer because it would require an increase in taxes. Teachers would mostly support a longer year.
As a general rule, I agree that way too much homework is being assigned.
My kindergartner grandson received homework before his first full week of classes.
What's wrong with that? We got weekly homework in prek. It took 30-45 minutes per week and reinforced what was going on in school and let me see how my child was doing. 1st grade was maybe an hour, sometimes more weekly with a special project every so often. It starts good study habits.
WRONG. It can cause power struggles and discourage kids from enjoying school. Zero benefits.
We don't have power struggles. We have a set routine and it gets done. Maybe how you are approaching it and your attitude is the issue. We have a snack and sit down together and get it done.
PK & K students gain more by playing after school than by doing homework. There's plenty of time to develop good study habits when kids are older & homework is age-appropriate.
15 minutes of homework is no big deal. There is still play time, activity time, snack and dinner as well as bath/shower time. Why can't there be a balance of learning and play.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here again. I help my kids for 2-3 hours each night (after a 10 hour workday). 1 hour would be acceptable.
We all do it and don't like it, but accept it. What if parents rallied together at school district meetings and said "this is unacceptable. Find a way to teach our kids better."
As several of you posted, they don't do drills anymore. They don't take time reviewing homework. They don't focus enough on the core skills- they fill the day with nonsense. Our school year is too short compared to the rest of the world (thanks teachers' unions) We have to supplement all summer long.
I'm a teacher and I have seen a lot of blame placed on unions before but this is new. I'm interested in how it is the fault of the unions that our school year isn't longer. To make it longer, they would need to pay to put a/c in all of the schools. Then they would need to come up with more money to pay teachers to work the additional days. Hmmm. Could it be that this is simply too expensive? Parents complain about paying for school supplies for goodness' sake. I doubt they would want their taxes hiked up a lot more for more instructional days.
This! I'm a journalist who covered education for years. The school year isn't longer because it would require an increase in taxes. Teachers would mostly support a longer year.
As a general rule, I agree that way too much homework is being assigned.
My kindergartner grandson received homework before his first full week of classes.
What's wrong with that? We got weekly homework in prek. It took 30-45 minutes per week and reinforced what was going on in school and let me see how my child was doing. 1st grade was maybe an hour, sometimes more weekly with a special project every so often. It starts good study habits.
WRONG. It can cause power struggles and discourage kids from enjoying school. Zero benefits.
We don't have power struggles. We have a set routine and it gets done. Maybe how you are approaching it and your attitude is the issue. We have a snack and sit down together and get it done.
PK & K students gain more by playing after school than by doing homework. There's plenty of time to develop good study habits when kids are older & homework is age-appropriate.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here again. I help my kids for 2-3 hours each night (after a 10 hour workday). 1 hour would be acceptable.
We all do it and don't like it, but accept it. What if parents rallied together at school district meetings and said "this is unacceptable. Find a way to teach our kids better."
As several of you posted, they don't do drills anymore. They don't take time reviewing homework. They don't focus enough on the core skills- they fill the day with nonsense. Our school year is too short compared to the rest of the world (thanks teachers' unions) We have to supplement all summer long.
I'm a teacher and I have seen a lot of blame placed on unions before but this is new. I'm interested in how it is the fault of the unions that our school year isn't longer. To make it longer, they would need to pay to put a/c in all of the schools. Then they would need to come up with more money to pay teachers to work the additional days. Hmmm. Could it be that this is simply too expensive? Parents complain about paying for school supplies for goodness' sake. I doubt they would want their taxes hiked up a lot more for more instructional days.
This! I'm a journalist who covered education for years. The school year isn't longer because it would require an increase in taxes. Teachers would mostly support a longer year.
As a general rule, I agree that way too much homework is being assigned.
My kindergartner grandson received homework before his first full week of classes.
What's wrong with that? We got weekly homework in prek. It took 30-45 minutes per week and reinforced what was going on in school and let me see how my child was doing. 1st grade was maybe an hour, sometimes more weekly with a special project every so often. It starts good study habits.
WRONG. It can cause power struggles and discourage kids from enjoying school. Zero benefits.
We don't have power struggles. We have a set routine and it gets done. Maybe how you are approaching it and your attitude is the issue. We have a snack and sit down together and get it done.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here again. I help my kids for 2-3 hours each night (after a 10 hour workday). 1 hour would be acceptable.
We all do it and don't like it, but accept it. What if parents rallied together at school district meetings and said "this is unacceptable. Find a way to teach our kids better."
As several of you posted, they don't do drills anymore. They don't take time reviewing homework. They don't focus enough on the core skills- they fill the day with nonsense. Our school year is too short compared to the rest of the world (thanks teachers' unions) We have to supplement all summer long.
I'm a teacher and I have seen a lot of blame placed on unions before but this is new. I'm interested in how it is the fault of the unions that our school year isn't longer. To make it longer, they would need to pay to put a/c in all of the schools. Then they would need to come up with more money to pay teachers to work the additional days. Hmmm. Could it be that this is simply too expensive? Parents complain about paying for school supplies for goodness' sake. I doubt they would want their taxes hiked up a lot more for more instructional days.
This! I'm a journalist who covered education for years. The school year isn't longer because it would require an increase in taxes. Teachers would mostly support a longer year.
As a general rule, I agree that way too much homework is being assigned.
My kindergartner grandson received homework before his first full week of classes.
What's wrong with that? We got weekly homework in prek. It took 30-45 minutes per week and reinforced what was going on in school and let me see how my child was doing. 1st grade was maybe an hour, sometimes more weekly with a special project every so often. It starts good study habits.
WRONG. It can cause power struggles and discourage kids from enjoying school. Zero benefits.
We don't have power struggles. We have a set routine and it gets done. Maybe how you are approaching it and your attitude is the issue. We have a snack and sit down together and get it done.