Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex wife, twice divorced mother of three (after me) left me for her 50 year old affair partner. He was her co worker. Never married no kids. The jury is out on what will happen there. It's too soon. But something tells me a 50 yo never married guy no kids is either a loser or set on his ways and it won't work out. At least that is what I tell myself.

That's probably correct unless his health begins to fade. He probably doesn't want a house full of kids.

So if youre 50yrs plus you're finished ? Sometimes I read these opinions get the impression I'm like the wounded animal in the herd and should go off await my meeting with my maker.

You're finished approaching relationships like you did when you were a hot 25 year old. Time didn't stop all those years you were out of the dating market.

What you need to figure out is why middle aged divorced women believe they have the "right" to approach dating and relationships like a 25 year old.

Otherwise yes you are finished, dead as a doornail. You are good as a partner only to a younger guy looking for a cougar or with mommy issues; a much older guy with ED; or a seriously emotionally fucked up loser in your same age cohort. As a male in my fifties, if I ever had to go back on the dating market (god no), while I would probably date you, and try to have sex with you, why would you seriously expect me to seriously commit to you if I had any chance--and I would probably have a pretty good chance actually--of finding someone 10 years younger? Do you really bring THAT much to the table? If so, you wouldn't even be posting what you posted.

You are the wounded animal in the herd.

Don't you remember what you though about 50 year old women when you were 25? To you, they didn't even exist. They were invisible.

So now the shoe is on the other foot, sister.

Enjoy your feminism.