Anonymous
10/29/2015 14:29
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:
There was a girl who worked in a museum I frequented who I really liked. young, great body, exuded sex appeal.
I asked her out a couple of times and she declined. I would go to this museum every week alone.
Later on I was dating three women casually and would bring them (on separate weekends) off and on to the museum with with me.
The musem worker girl was utterly jealous that I wouldn't make small talk and flirt with her anymore and instead she saw me enjoying myself with these other women.
After about 3 months of seeing me with with these other ladies, one day I went to the museum alone. The museum worker girl cornered me before closing and forced a kiss on me and we later had sex that night at her place.
Social proof is not a big thing for guys - we don't care if a woman has tons of guy friends or not. Women absolutely do care if men they are interested in also interest other women.
If it is a toxic idea that a value of a man is determined by his relationships to women, it is mostly women who drive that idea. After college, most guys won't care/tease/break balls of other guys who are in a dry spell or are striking out
Exactly my point. Social validation is everything to women and those who argue it isn't are the rare exception to the rule.
Anonymous
10/29/2015 11:49
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Why do you think immature girls like assholes instead of guys who treat people respectfully?
I think it has to do with the very strong urge to fit in when they're teens and ignorance about what a healthy relationship looks like. That urge to be accepted by men wears off in a woman's 20s, imo.
Some women choose assholes through out their lives. Ime, those women have unresolved issues. Some people abuse others because they have issues. Others abuse themselves because of the same self-loathing issues. One way of doing that is agreeing to be treated like that and allowing the negative opinions of others to define her. If a woman likes dominant men, she can find one who treats women with respect. They really aren't hard to find. They aren't negging or acting like idiots in a bar.
I dated an ass when I was a teen. One day, he hit me. I beat his ass and never looked back. I didn't go out and find another guy like that, even though I tend to be submissive. My guy treats me like a princess in some ways, but respects me. If he didn't, I wouldn't yield power to him. I respect him because he has earned it, not because he demanded it or insulted me.
Anonymous
10/29/2015 09:53
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
How tweens and teens handle romance isn't a good indicator for how to deal with the opposite sex. Pulling ponytails and snapping bra straps isn't going to get you laid either.
How about you treat a woman like a woman, instead of a child?
Just confirming that those perceptions were correct at the moment.
Did you call them all to confirm? Or, are you just assuming me not arguing that fact makes it true for every woman who ever walked the earth? Honestly, I don't know the girls that went to school with you. I can't confirm or deny their problems.
Just looking for a general proposition. If you were never like that, go ahead and say so, and I'll have a data point. Enough of those, and I'll go looking for why I had an incorrect perception. Enough going the other way, and I'll understand that my perceptions were probably correct even if the rules of attraction changed later on.
It would be correct some of the time. Immature people do immature things. This is not groundbreaking, but feel free to make it a "data point."
Why do you think immature girls like assholes instead of guys who treat people respectfully?
Anonymous
10/29/2015 09:12
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
How tweens and teens handle romance isn't a good indicator for how to deal with the opposite sex. Pulling ponytails and snapping bra straps isn't going to get you laid either.
How about you treat a woman like a woman, instead of a child?
Just confirming that those perceptions were correct at the moment.
Did you call them all to confirm? Or, are you just assuming me not arguing that fact makes it true for every woman who ever walked the earth? Honestly, I don't know the girls that went to school with you. I can't confirm or deny their problems.
Just looking for a general proposition. If you were never like that, go ahead and say so, and I'll have a data point. Enough of those, and I'll go looking for why I had an incorrect perception. Enough going the other way, and I'll understand that my perceptions were probably correct even if the rules of attraction changed later on.
It would be correct some of the time. Immature people do immature things. This is not groundbreaking, but feel free to make it a "data point."
Anonymous
10/29/2015 08:35
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
How tweens and teens handle romance isn't a good indicator for how to deal with the opposite sex. Pulling ponytails and snapping bra straps isn't going to get you laid either.
How about you treat a woman like a woman, instead of a child?
Just confirming that those perceptions were correct at the moment.
Did you call them all to confirm? Or, are you just assuming me not arguing that fact makes it true for every woman who ever walked the earth? Honestly, I don't know the girls that went to school with you. I can't confirm or deny their problems.
Just looking for a general proposition. If you were never like that, go ahead and say so, and I'll have a data point. Enough of those, and I'll go looking for why I had an incorrect perception. Enough going the other way, and I'll understand that my perceptions were probably correct even if the rules of attraction changed later on.
Anonymous
10/29/2015 07:54
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Also, I think it's been said already that immature or emotionally damaged women are more likely to fall for that bullshit.
Anonymous
10/29/2015 07:53
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
How tweens and teens handle romance isn't a good indicator for how to deal with the opposite sex. Pulling ponytails and snapping bra straps isn't going to get you laid either.
How about you treat a woman like a woman, instead of a child?
Just confirming that those perceptions were correct at the moment.
Did you call them all to confirm? Or, are you just assuming me not arguing that fact makes it true for every woman who ever walked the earth? Honestly, I don't know the girls that went to school with you. I can't confirm or deny their problems.
Anonymous
10/29/2015 06:53
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:
How tweens and teens handle romance isn't a good indicator for how to deal with the opposite sex. Pulling ponytails and snapping bra straps isn't going to get you laid either.
How about you treat a woman like a woman, instead of a child?
Just confirming that those perceptions were correct at the moment.
Anonymous
10/29/2015 06:35
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Whatever happened to just being cool?
society told them that instead of being cool, they need to be sensitive and "nice". Unfortunately, that makes women dry as the Mojave Desert.
Oh no, they just get dry around you. It's not a widespread problem
I developed my perception that women liked assholes in middle school and high school -- much lesser extent in college.
Was that perception just always wrong or is it just a growing up thing girls do?
When you women were in high school and middle school, did the guys you giggled and past notes about treat other (weaker) kids nicely, or did they tend to be bullies?
How tweens and teens handle romance isn't a good indicator for how to deal with the opposite sex. Pulling ponytails and snapping bra straps isn't going to get you laid either.
How about you treat a woman like a woman, instead of a child?
Anonymous
10/29/2015 06:33
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:if a man is stupid enough to believe that a woman is honest about what she really wants in these discussions then he deserves all the misery that brings him. The women claiming game doesnt work are all nasty and belligerent and are unappealing to the kind of men who believe in game. They are welcome to the submissive men who would tolerate them.
I'm so glad my guy can tell the difference between being dominant and being an asshole. I pity the younger women who have to put up with these types of men.
Anonymous
10/28/2015 21:48
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
if a man is stupid enough to believe that a woman is honest about what she really wants in these discussions then he deserves all the misery that brings him. The women claiming game doesnt work are all nasty and belligerent and are unappealing to the kind of men who believe in game. They are welcome to the submissive men who would tolerate them.
Anonymous
10/28/2015 18:36
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Whatever happened to just being cool?
society told them that instead of being cool, they need to be sensitive and "nice". Unfortunately, that makes women dry as the Mojave Desert.
Oh no, they just get dry around you. It's not a widespread problem
I developed my perception that women liked assholes in middle school and high school -- much lesser extent in college.
Was that perception just always wrong or is it just a growing up thing girls do?
When you women were in high school and middle school, did the guys you giggled and past notes about treat other (weaker) kids nicely, or did they tend to be bullies?
Anonymous
10/28/2015 17:52
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Whatever happened to just being cool?
society told them that instead of being cool, they need to be sensitive and "nice". Unfortunately, that makes women dry as the Mojave Desert.
Oh no, they just get dry around you. It's not a widespread problem
Anonymous
10/28/2015 17:51
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women only consider about 10% of men "hot". Somehow, most of the rest of those 90% manage to do ok.
Negging doesn't work. Cockiness does. If you act like you're the shit she will start to believe.
Also, if she's rude to you, spit in her eye.
Please do this to me so that I can slap you with an assault charge.
+1
Anonymous
10/28/2015 17:50
Subject: The game and Alpha/Beta
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Whatever happened to just being cool?
society told them that instead of being cool, they need to be sensitive and "nice". Unfortunately, that makes women dry as the Mojave Desert.
Keep telling yourself that, douche.
sure thing Harpy