Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does Barrow have some sort of STD?
No. He's trying to cure himself of the gays.
I would appreciate that story line more if they had shown him wrestling with his attraction more. Except for the Bateses, all the staff are celibate, so Barrow isn't anything special.
Original PP here. I agree that it doesn't make sense really. He's never seemed ashamed or regretful of his feelings.
I think because he was in love with Jimmy, who is now gone. Maybe this is his way of trying to get over him?
I think Thomas has most definitely seemed remorseful and mortified that he is gay. Those are the scenes in which I feel so much empathy for him and where he shows his true vulnerability. When Jimmy realized that Thomas was gay and reacted with such utter revulsion, Thomas's self-loathing was palpable. And now, with this chemical castration story line, he's trying so hard to rid himself of those feelings. As nasty as he can be, my heart aches for him.
ugh. I hope you aren't in line to marry Charles Manson, too. (teasing you![]()
Mr. Carlson was the one who expressed his distain in pretty harsh terms. To be fair, Jimmy acted "with such utter revulsion" because he awoke to find Thomas ready to kiss him. That stuff is really scary--getting woken up with some unauthorized person in your space. Some roommate of mine did that to me once--I woke up and she was sitting cross-legged on the foot of my bed, gazing at me, for god knows how long--and it's been 30 years and I'll still never forget it--it still gives me the creeps. It's a little unbelievable to me that Jimmy would have ever gotten over it, and admirable that he did.
Another PP made an interesting point, that if they're all supposed to be celibate, what does it matter? I mean, the Anna/Bates thing is really unusual, so if staff are not supposed to marry--or fall in love--why would Thomas care so much? If he "fixed" himself he'd just be lusting over women, which is still not allowed, apparently.
This to me is the more fascinating and weird thing I learned from DA. That the underclass were denied even a mate or family. That to me is just wild. Like going into a priesthood or nunnery.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does Barrow have some sort of STD?
No. He's trying to cure himself of the gays.
I would appreciate that story line more if they had shown him wrestling with his attraction more. Except for the Bateses, all the staff are celibate, so Barrow isn't anything special.
Original PP here. I agree that it doesn't make sense really. He's never seemed ashamed or regretful of his feelings.
I think because he was in love with Jimmy, who is now gone. Maybe this is his way of trying to get over him?
I think Thomas has most definitely seemed remorseful and mortified that he is gay. Those are the scenes in which I feel so much empathy for him and where he shows his true vulnerability. When Jimmy realized that Thomas was gay and reacted with such utter revulsion, Thomas's self-loathing was palpable. And now, with this chemical castration story line, he's trying so hard to rid himself of those feelings. As nasty as he can be, my heart aches for him.
ugh. I hope you aren't in line to marry Charles Manson, too. (teasing you![]()
Mr. Carlson was the one who expressed his distain in pretty harsh terms. To be fair, Jimmy acted "with such utter revulsion" because he awoke to find Thomas ready to kiss him. That stuff is really scary--getting woken up with some unauthorized person in your space. Some roommate of mine did that to me once--I woke up and she was sitting cross-legged on the foot of my bed, gazing at me, for god knows how long--and it's been 30 years and I'll still never forget it--it still gives me the creeps. It's a little unbelievable to me that Jimmy would have ever gotten over it, and admirable that he did.
Another PP made an interesting point, that if they're all supposed to be celibate, what does it matter? I mean, the Anna/Bates thing is really unusual, so if staff are not supposed to marry--or fall in love--why would Thomas care so much? If he "fixed" himself he'd just be lusting over women, which is still not allowed, apparently.
This to me is the more fascinating and weird thing I learned from DA. That the underclass were denied even a mate or family. That to me is just wild. Like going into a priesthood or nunnery.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does Barrow have some sort of STD?
No. He's trying to cure himself of the gays.
I would appreciate that story line more if they had shown him wrestling with his attraction more. Except for the Bateses, all the staff are celibate, so Barrow isn't anything special.
Original PP here. I agree that it doesn't make sense really. He's never seemed ashamed or regretful of his feelings.
I think because he was in love with Jimmy, who is now gone. Maybe this is his way of trying to get over him?
I think Thomas has most definitely seemed remorseful and mortified that he is gay. Those are the scenes in which I feel so much empathy for him and where he shows his true vulnerability. When Jimmy realized that Thomas was gay and reacted with such utter revulsion, Thomas's self-loathing was palpable. And now, with this chemical castration story line, he's trying so hard to rid himself of those feelings. As nasty as he can be, my heart aches for him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes that brings up, what's Edith to do? I mean, if she
'fesses up and takes her child back now, the kid would feel ripped away from her parents. It's sort of too late…if her lover comes back and they successfully deal with the legalities, I'm sure Edith would demand that Marigold come back.
Interesting that DHs watch with some of you. My DH hates this show for a few reasons. One is that it's so slow moving ("it's like watching a rock garden, then everyone gets excited when a rock moves an inch."
But more interesting to me is that he is so annoyed by the fakery of it all. He is very much a history buff, (so besides the crazy timeline problems) he doesn't like the "enlightened" way the characters act. For instance, the Tom storyline. He says IRL Tom would not be so well-spoken and gentlemanly, and there is no way he'd be welcomed into the Downton Upstairs fold. It just didn't happen. He cited someone (Prince Ferdinand or Franz Joseph? I'll have to check) who married someone named Sofia/Sophia who was from an upper crust family but not upper crust enough, and how she was excluded at events etc.
Just tell him to lighten up. It's a trashy soap like Dynasty or Falcon Crest. Just with better costumes. No one thinks it's "art."
Wait...what? Dynasty and Falcon Crest weren't art?

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes that brings up, what's Edith to do? I mean, if she
'fesses up and takes her child back now, the kid would feel ripped away from her parents. It's sort of too late…if her lover comes back and they successfully deal with the legalities, I'm sure Edith would demand that Marigold come back.
Interesting that DHs watch with some of you. My DH hates this show for a few reasons. One is that it's so slow moving ("it's like watching a rock garden, then everyone gets excited when a rock moves an inch."
But more interesting to me is that he is so annoyed by the fakery of it all. He is very much a history buff, (so besides the crazy timeline problems) he doesn't like the "enlightened" way the characters act. For instance, the Tom storyline. He says IRL Tom would not be so well-spoken and gentlemanly, and there is no way he'd be welcomed into the Downton Upstairs fold. It just didn't happen. He cited someone (Prince Ferdinand or Franz Joseph? I'll have to check) who married someone named Sofia/Sophia who was from an upper crust family but not upper crust enough, and how she was excluded at events etc.
Just tell him to lighten up. It's a trashy soap like Dynasty or Falcon Crest. Just with better costumes. No one thinks it's "art."
Anonymous wrote:Yes that brings up, what's Edith to do? I mean, if she
'fesses up and takes her child back now, the kid would feel ripped away from her parents. It's sort of too late…if her lover comes back and they successfully deal with the legalities, I'm sure Edith would demand that Marigold come back.
Interesting that DHs watch with some of you. My DH hates this show for a few reasons. One is that it's so slow moving ("it's like watching a rock garden, then everyone gets excited when a rock moves an inch."
But more interesting to me is that he is so annoyed by the fakery of it all. He is very much a history buff, (so besides the crazy timeline problems) he doesn't like the "enlightened" way the characters act. For instance, the Tom storyline. He says IRL Tom would not be so well-spoken and gentlemanly, and there is no way he'd be welcomed into the Downton Upstairs fold. It just didn't happen. He cited someone (Prince Ferdinand or Franz Joseph? I'll have to check) who married someone named Sofia/Sophia who was from an upper crust family but not upper crust enough, and how she was excluded at events etc.
Anonymous wrote:Tom with Rose. I like that.
An interesting read if you like Isis. http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/programs/features/spotlight/downton-abbey-s4-unsung-heroes-isis/
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lord Gantham is an ass. He blew Cora's family's money and gets all jealous of the art dealer when he was the one who cheated on Cora with a young house maid who he then fired. He is only relevant because of his family's social status. Turds like that should be working sun up to sun down hammering rocks and digging holes.
He didn't cheat with the house maid. He just thought about it.
They kissed. It was at least cheaty.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does Barrow have some sort of STD?
No. He's trying to cure himself of the gays.
I would appreciate that story line more if they had shown him wrestling with his attraction more. Except for the Bateses, all the staff are celibate, so Barrow isn't anything special.
Original PP here. I agree that it doesn't make sense really. He's never seemed ashamed or regretful of his feelings.
I think because he was in love with Jimmy, who is now gone. Maybe this is his way of trying to get over him?