Anonymous wrote:OP here--I'm leaving this thread. I'm don't with all the judgmental, nasty shrews who have nothing better to do that make bitter and immature comments to someone they don't even know. My life does not affect you, if you have no helpful advice, please get a life. Seriously, if you make perfect choices and can judge others so quickly the way you have judged me, what the fuck are you doing in a relationship forum? So Transparent.

To the people who have given helpful advice, thank you so much!

I have been here for many yrs, most of the posts are bogus but there are a few gems from time to time.
The key is to ignore those bogus posts which are often not directed toward ur questions.

My ex-wife felt the same way. She was only 30. I caught her sexting a guy she dated for two weeks...in high school! After three weeks of heavy sexting, she was certain he was her soulmate. I wished her well. We were married for nine years and I'd supported her through hell and back. If that isn't a soulmate then I don't know what is. The guy dumped her soon after.

Sometimes they need a dose of reality. It's on you if you decide to let him back in, but I don't have time for stupidity. My kid and I deserved better, so that's what we'll get.