Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not only about the money.
It's about the responsibility.
I know of 2 women who had to sign a prenup that if they got pregnant, they had to terminate the fetus.

And they went ahead and married the guy regardless of that? Seesh. Also, if he was so hellbent on not having children (which I totally get, since I'm childfree) how about a vasectomy?

Not getting sterilization and demanding one's wife undergoes an abortion if she gets pregnant is what, in my country, we call "being a homosexual with someone else's ass".

are you from Italy?

Yes, I am.

you must be from Tuscany....fare il finocchio etc...... recognized the joke

Nah, Lombardy. Anyway, kudos for your knowledge of Italian idioms. I changed it a bit because I can't abide disparaging words for homosexuals.

Anonymous wrote:It's not only about the money.
It's about the responsibility.
I know of 2 women who had to sign a prenup that if they got pregnant, they had to terminate the fetus.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not only about the money.
It's about the responsibility.
I know of 2 women who had to sign a prenup that if they got pregnant, they had to terminate the fetus.

And they went ahead and married the guy regardless of that? Seesh. Also, if he was so hellbent on not having children (which I totally get, since I'm childfree) how about a vasectomy?

Not getting sterilization and demanding one's wife undergoes an abortion if she gets pregnant is what, in my country, we call "being a homosexual with someone else's ass".

are you from Italy?

Yes, I am.

you must be from Tuscany....fare il finocchio etc...... recognized the joke

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not only about the money.
It's about the responsibility.
I know of 2 women who had to sign a prenup that if they got pregnant, they had to terminate the fetus.

And they went ahead and married the guy regardless of that? Seesh. Also, if he was so hellbent on not having children (which I totally get, since I'm childfree) how about a vasectomy?

Not getting sterilization and demanding one's wife undergoes an abortion if she gets pregnant is what, in my country, we call "being a homosexual with someone else's ass".

are you from Italy?

Yes, I am.

Too many red flags with this new boyfriend OP.

He previously dated and had a child with a woman who is now serving time in prison. Obviously he has no morals if he would stoop so low as to date someone who would be such scum that she would birth her baby incarcerated.

Also, to sign away his parental rights in his mid-twenties is just irresponsible. At that age, he should be financially responsible and have the maturity to own up to whatever decisions he has made, one which is to create a child. Looks like he decided to take the easy way out and jump ship.

If you date this man for the long term, he most definitely will do the same to you and your child.

There are plenty of nice decent men out there.

Leave this one for the sharks.

Bullcrap post.