Maybe he was hanging out in bars with men and talking to women. You are jaded PP. Maybe he is fully capable of platonic friendships but your DH isn't. Your description of the running, tennis playing meeting a friend for lunch man sounds like a woman. What's next shopping? My guy friends and I all married play team sports, then drink, go to bars on Friday a d howl at the moon and our DWs don't care.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't be surprised if he cheated. Sounds like he likes the attention of women. Ask the reception of the hotel he's at if other women have spent the night.

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There is a difference between talking to other women and going to bars and hanging out with women. Married men do not frequent bars on a regular basis to chat with women. Married men go for a run, play tennis, meet a guy friend for lunch, etc. If I were overseas there are plenty of ways I could fill my time besides trolling bars to talk with men.