Anonymous
Post 07/18/2019 14:20     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
I was 46, she 27, together now for 21 years, second marriage for both...
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2019 13:44     Subject: 16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Look how happy Donald and Melania are together! And they have so much in common!
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2019 13:39     Subject: 16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am the exception but I am 46 and dating a 65 year old man, a very young acting/looking active amazing man. I have yet to meet any 40 something years old who can hold a candle to him and the sex is off the charts. Age is nothing more than a number.


You expect to have an active sex life when you are 55 and he is 74??


74 still can have sex
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2016 11:58     Subject: 16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
PP, how important is it to you to be right? Are married to an older man? Why do you care?
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2016 10:12     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9801E0DD1431F935A35755C0A9609C8B63

"For the gene that causes dwarfism, researchers found a 2 percent increase in the frequency of the mutation for each year of increasing age...Other kinds of genetic defects did not increase with age. Aneuploidy, the abnormal number of chromosomes that causes Down syndrome and various other genetic disorders, was no more common in the sperm of older men. Age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can cause sterility [b]and other physical or mental problems[u]"

So... older men have a higher chance of fathering a short child... chance of other genetic defects do not increase...


LOL! I love how you wrote "other" genetic defects in addition to being short, which you implied is a genetic defect. Lol, as a woman, I agree!


Ok you mentioned all the physical things that aren't happening...you failed to mention the studies that are showing that older dads are having kids with psychological problems like autism.[/quote]

The cited study actually explicitly mentions that "age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can caus... mental problems" as highlighted above. Therefore, yes the cited study did address your concern and indicated that it should not be a concern.


I think if you dig around you will find that these researchers are probably married to younger women and may not be the best folks to do this study. On top of that it was only done on a small sampling of men
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2016 10:10     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9801E0DD1431F935A35755C0A9609C8B63

"For the gene that causes dwarfism, researchers found a 2 percent increase in the frequency of the mutation for each year of increasing age...Other kinds of genetic defects did not increase with age. Aneuploidy, the abnormal number of chromosomes that causes Down syndrome and various other genetic disorders, was no more common in the sperm of older men. Age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can cause sterility [b]and other physical or mental problems[u]"

So... older men have a higher chance of fathering a short child... chance of other genetic defects do not increase...


LOL! I love how you wrote "other" genetic defects in addition to being short, which you implied is a genetic defect. Lol, as a woman, I agree!


Ok you mentioned all the physical things that aren't happening...you failed to mention the studies that are showing that older dads are having kids with psychological problems like autism.[/quote]

The cited study actually explicitly mentions that "age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can caus... mental problems" as highlighted above. Therefore, yes the cited study did address your concern and indicated that it should not be a concern.


I think if you dig around you will find that these researchers are probably married to younger women and may not be the best folks to do this study. On top of that it was only done on a small sampling of men
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2016 10:09     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9801E0DD1431F935A35755C0A9609C8B63

"For the gene that causes dwarfism, researchers found a 2 percent increase in the frequency of the mutation for each year of increasing age...Other kinds of genetic defects did not increase with age. Aneuploidy, the abnormal number of chromosomes that causes Down syndrome and various other genetic disorders, was no more common in the sperm of older men. Age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can cause sterility [b]and other physical or mental problems[u]"

So... older men have a higher chance of fathering a short child... chance of other genetic defects do not increase...


LOL! I love how you wrote "other" genetic defects in addition to being short, which you implied is a genetic defect. Lol, as a woman, I agree!


Ok you mentioned all the physical things that aren't happening...you failed to mention the studies that are showing that older dads are having kids with psychological problems like autism.[/quote]

The cited study actually explicitly mentions that "age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can caus... mental problems" as highlighted above. Therefore, yes the cited study did address your concern and indicated that it should not be a concern.


You do realize the article you are quoting is actually over 10 yrs old and a lot of research has been done on this since. Your article also states it was a small study of only 97 men. Here is an article from JAMA about a study out of Sweden done in 2014 that refutes your article completely. http://archpsyc.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=1833092&resultClick=3
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2016 09:29     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9801E0DD1431F935A35755C0A9609C8B63

"For the gene that causes dwarfism, researchers found a 2 percent increase in the frequency of the mutation for each year of increasing age...Other kinds of genetic defects did not increase with age. Aneuploidy, the abnormal number of chromosomes that causes Down syndrome and various other genetic disorders, was no more common in the sperm of older men. Age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can cause sterility [b]and other physical or mental problems[u]"

So... older men have a higher chance of fathering a short child... chance of other genetic defects do not increase...


LOL! I love how you wrote "other" genetic defects in addition to being short, which you implied is a genetic defect. Lol, as a woman, I agree!


Ok you mentioned all the physical things that aren't happening...you failed to mention the studies that are showing that older dads are having kids with psychological problems like autism.[/quote]

The cited study actually explicitly mentions that "age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can caus... mental problems" as highlighted above. Therefore, yes the cited study did address your concern and indicated that it should not be a concern.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2016 23:25     Subject: 16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Eleven year age difference here, happily married for 30 years and still going strong … thank God I didn't marry any of the guys close to my age, I would have been divorced many times over! Btw, this is a second marriage, I was 28 and a professional and he was 39 ….
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2016 23:22     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
At 28 I was with someone who had 14 years on me. I was pretty dang happy until he died from a sudden heart attack.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2016 22:36     Subject: 16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:You people focus too much on relationship at its inception point, and don't think too much down the line. Marriage is not about the wedding. It's about the life that follows.

I was married to an older man, for love, and widowed at 29. Never again. I have nothing against older men - the heart wants what the heart wants - but the cold fact is that they do die sooner, and I don't want to deal with this again. Yes, any one of us may die any time, but you must admit that old age tips your risk of being dead sooner rather than later.


A relative is going through a very troubling version of this: nursing home. Most of their life savings, except for what the law entitles her to keep out of the hands of the nursing home, is going into his nursing home care, and when he dies, she will be left with nothing much, but a long life yet to live. Happily married for over 50 years, but she cries every day now. It is heartbreaking and very frustrating.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2016 22:20     Subject: 16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
I'll be 30 when my divorce is final. I'm not interested in dating someone who is almost 50. I even have a hard time with someone nearing 40. Too daddy-issues-complex for me.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2016 15:39     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9801E0DD1431F935A35755C0A9609C8B63

"For the gene that causes dwarfism, researchers found a 2 percent increase in the frequency of the mutation for each year of increasing age...Other kinds of genetic defects did not increase with age. Aneuploidy, the abnormal number of chromosomes that causes Down syndrome and various other genetic disorders, was no more common in the sperm of older men. Age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can cause sterility and other physical or mental problems"

So... older men have a higher chance of fathering a short child... chance of other genetic defects do not increase...


LOL! I love how you wrote "other" genetic defects in addition to being short, which you implied is a genetic defect. Lol, as a woman, I agree!


Ok you mentioned all the physical things that aren't happening...you failed to mention the studies that are showing that older dads are having kids with psychological problems like autism.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2016 08:41     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
I am 36 and my DH is 57. We have a 4 year old daughter and I am pregnant with our second daughter. He was a late bloomer, and I absolutely love him.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2016 04:28     Subject: Re:16-Year Age Difference -- The "Magic" Number for Relationships
Anonymous wrote:http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9801E0DD1431F935A35755C0A9609C8B63

"For the gene that causes dwarfism, researchers found a 2 percent increase in the frequency of the mutation for each year of increasing age...Other kinds of genetic defects did not increase with age. Aneuploidy, the abnormal number of chromosomes that causes Down syndrome and various other genetic disorders, was no more common in the sperm of older men. Age made no difference in sex chromosome abnormalities, which can cause sterility and other physical or mental problems"

So... older men have a higher chance of fathering a short child... chance of other genetic defects do not increase...


LOL! I love how you wrote "other" genetic defects in addition to being short, which you implied is a genetic defect. Lol, as a woman, I agree!