Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:39     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Parents who have never tried daycare for their family, and yet have many preconceived notions about it
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:38     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Superstition (otherwise known as religion).
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:36     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).


You can't be serious. Unless you are a native American you better make plans to self-deport.


That comment is tired and has no bearing on our needs today. Too often, in our zeal to be a free and open society, we sacrifice US citizens for the comfort of (sometimes ungrateful) foreigners.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:36     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Moms who work FT "by choice", gay marriage, any sort of weird diet that is not related to food allergy/intolerance (vegan, vegetarian, gluten free, etc.), people who drive cars that are disproportionately nice compared to their house.

I could go on and on. I'm quite judgy, but know better than to tell people!


Ooh ooh, I am a mom who's always worked full time by choice. Do you think it's not really my choice, or that all women should SAH or WOH PT once they become parents? How totally weird.


I know it's totally your choice, that you could easily afford to stay home with your children and don't. That is why I judge. Women who truly must work to cover basic bills, I feel sorry for.


What are you judging? That my children are neglected or being raised wrong because their other parent is as equally involved? Do you think because I work by choice, I'm materialistic? Do you think only women who want to spend the majority of their time with their children should have them?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:34     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).


You can't be serious. Unless you are a native American you better make plans to self-deport.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:34     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).


Does that create "discord" as well? Surely, you are just here to stir the pot. No one can be this stupid.


What's the benefit to immigration?

Legal immigrants-usually highly skilled/trained. Some make it clear they're only here for the jobs and have a general disdain for Americans. Rather than rely on these workers, why not focus on training those already in the US?

Illegal immigrants-....Don't get me started.

What are your positives for immigration?


Before I answer your question, can you please tell me what tribe do you belong to? Cherokee? Sioux? Navajo?


You think our immigration needs are the same as they were hundreds of years ago?


What exactly were the needs then? What are the needs now?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:34     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Blind allegiance to military members, like they didn't choose this as their job.


+1


+1, and the same goes for police and rescue personnel, as well

we don't live in a country where they were forced at gunpoint to take these jobs. they chose them.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:33     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What things do you not agree with, but you never (or rarely) mention it to others because you fear the response and/or don't want folks to know your opinion on the issue?

For me:

-Adoption (that goes doubly for international adoption)
-Interracial marriage


Are you against those things for yourself, or do you think other people shouldn't do them either?


OP here. I don't think other people should do them (and I don't/won't).


OP let me ask you:

If you fell in love with your DH or spouse and later found out they were from an irracial marriage, would that be a deal breaker for you?
On Adoption, what would you suggest that we do with children that are in orphanges or their birth parents can't take care of them????

Do you have any friends? You seem like a lonely person!
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:31     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Anyone who claims they "can't cook" (ever heard of a recipe?)


Can I tell you something? When you are an inexperienced cook, even when you follow a recipe religiously, your food often flops.


Not.possible. Set timers, use measuring cups/spoons, etc.


How does that help with a souffle or risotto?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:29     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Blind allegiance to military members, like they didn't choose this as their job.


+1
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:24     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Home schooling.
Blind allegiance to military members, like they didn't choose this as their job.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:24     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Any state or federal involvement in marriage.

On a personal level, I oppose the idea of marriage for myself.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:19     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Forgot: Immigration (illegal or otherwise).


Does that create "discord" as well? Surely, you are just here to stir the pot. No one can be this stupid.


What's the benefit to immigration?

Legal immigrants-usually highly skilled/trained. Some make it clear they're only here for the jobs and have a general disdain for Americans. Rather than rely on these workers, why not focus on training those already in the US?

Illegal immigrants-....Don't get me started.

What are your positives for immigration?


Before I answer your question, can you please tell me what tribe do you belong to? Cherokee? Sioux? Navajo?


You think our immigration needs are the same as they were hundreds of years ago?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:19     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
Anonymous wrote:interracial marriage
lesbians- worst coworkers ever


lesbians???? why would lesbians be bad coworkers? i'd rather have a moody lesbian than my boss' dirty creepy son staring at my boobs!
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 12:19     Subject: Things you secretly oppose, but don't want other people to know:
ART involving egg-donation or sperm donation
single motherhood by choice by ART
same-sex parenthood by ART