Anonymous wrote:I am going to let you all in on a little secret - it doesnt really matter. In my children's well-regarded DC private they each have children in their class who went to (to name a few) NCRC, St John's, CCBC, Mt Sinai, St Columba's, many of the Montessoris, Metropolitan, somewhere in another state, and no preschool at all. You would never be able to identify the child with the preschool or even with the lack of preschool by 1st or 2nd grade. In K the ones who went to preschool are more socially adept but that is about it. This is all terrific angst about something that really does not matter in the long run. Seriously.
Signed,
A mom who's children did go to one the preschools everyone on this thread seems to accept is one of "the best" but who is really certain that its doesnt matter all that much.
My DH didn't go to school until first grade, and did not know English (here in this city). Got himself a full ride to an Ivy League, is the smartest guy I know, and most importantly, friendly, caring and compassionate. Unless they beat the kids and let them watch tv for 12 hours while eating ho-ho's, none of this pre-k shit matters.