Anonymous wrote:I'm looking at other schools now bc our IB school is not working for my child. I'm looking at the suburbs and have applied to charters. I'm willing to go to through the "crazy'' charter process to open my options for a better school that fitts my child, but i don't think that fits the example you are posing OP. And as for the suburbs -- i think the commute downtown and and having to contend with the traffic and other things that suburban living that wear on us personally would not be good for our family personally, even while it would be great for other famlies.
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None of us can see whose kids will work for who, it's arguing on the Internet lady. I'm sure you can figure that out with one of your many languages.
Anonymous wrote:sheesh....I feel sorry for all the kids. So much stress all around.
Lighten up DC parents.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For 95% of people the lottery works out.
We live in a neighborhood that the OP would undoubtedly consider undesirable. We moved there before I was pregnant. We thought we would move before our kids were school aged.
I now have 3 kids OOB at one of the best EOP elementary schools in the city. My kids litterally run into the school like they were going to Disney World every day. Our house payment is slightly less than $1600 a month. We live 2 blocks from a metro station. Our house has doubled in value. Our commutes are very reasonable.
The middle school lottery craziness looms ahead, but if we strike out we can move to Takoma Park or whereever. I kind of think on the lottery stuff that you just have to fight letting it get to you, and getting obsessed with it. Go to a couple open houses. See where the chips fall.
I really don't think that NWDC was the safest bet for you OP. If I was going to be totally Ms. safe choice, I'd have gone with Arlington or Bethesda near a metro.
That's the key isn't it. OP probably considers a majority of the neighborhoods in DC undesirable - except maybe in her perfect Ward 3 world.
Right, but it's so desirable to you that you want to send your kids to school anywhere but there (dare I even say her precious ward 3). Give me a break!
Nope, wouldn't even send my kids to Ward 3 schools. No immersion programs that is acceptable to me in DCPS. My kid goes to charter school. My child is bilingual and will most likely be trilingual by the time she graduates. I'm sure your kids will enjoy working for her.
You say your kid will be trilingual like it's a big deal. My kids all spoke three languages fluently before they entered K, with no formal schooling, just because mommy and daddy do. They may or may not pick up language #4 by the time they graduate, we don't care. Paying for language education is so ...American.
Not pp, but in the same position. What an odd comment. That is nice that your kids are trilingual becuase you are. Do you know tht other people are not all exactly like you? And, you don't pay for charter schools.
Being a 3 yr old who's trilingual is not the same thing as a 23 yr old who it trilingual - meaning they are literate and can operate in all three languages equally. That takes schooling. Honestly, a trilingual 3 yr old is not impressive. Get back to us in 20 yrs.
My kids are three times 3 yr old and can read and write in all three languages; thanks for the free lecture anyway. I see you completely missed the point I made. The point of my comment was to mock the pp's assertion that her kid's trilingualism will guarantee that other people's monolingual kids will end up working for her. My kids are trilingual. They are not special. I have no clue whether it means other people will end up working for them. I don't see multiple language ability as a stone-set path to executive offices. Trilingual, yawn, nothing to it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For 95% of people the lottery works out.
We live in a neighborhood that the OP would undoubtedly consider undesirable. We moved there before I was pregnant. We thought we would move before our kids were school aged.
I now have 3 kids OOB at one of the best EOP elementary schools in the city. My kids litterally run into the school like they were going to Disney World every day. Our house payment is slightly less than $1600 a month. We live 2 blocks from a metro station. Our house has doubled in value. Our commutes are very reasonable.
The middle school lottery craziness looms ahead, but if we strike out we can move to Takoma Park or whereever. I kind of think on the lottery stuff that you just have to fight letting it get to you, and getting obsessed with it. Go to a couple open houses. See where the chips fall.
I really don't think that NWDC was the safest bet for you OP. If I was going to be totally Ms. safe choice, I'd have gone with Arlington or Bethesda near a metro.
That's the key isn't it. OP probably considers a majority of the neighborhoods in DC undesirable - except maybe in her perfect Ward 3 world.
Right, but it's so desirable to you that you want to send your kids to school anywhere but there (dare I even say her precious ward 3). Give me a break!
Nope, wouldn't even send my kids to Ward 3 schools. No immersion programs that is acceptable to me in DCPS. My kid goes to charter school. My child is bilingual and will most likely be trilingual by the time she graduates. I'm sure your kids will enjoy working for her.
You say your kid will be trilingual like it's a big deal. My kids all spoke three languages fluently before they entered K, with no formal schooling, just because mommy and daddy do. They may or may not pick up language #4 by the time they graduate, we don't care. Paying for language education is so ...American.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids don't go to Yu Ying. I have no opinions on the school. But 90% of the families I've met who go there have a major connection (usually one mandarin speaking parent). Have I just had weird luck? I've probably met 20 families (none are close friends).
YY probably has more 1/2 Asian biracial kids than any other school in the area. I assume the 1/2 Asian kids are there for the Mandarin and not to escape their IB school. We did. Our other choice were private schools but they don't offer immersion Mandarin starting in preK. One of the best Mandarin speakers in my kid's K class is white: was born and lived in China until they moved to DC. Most of the families I know are there b/c they value Mandarin or grow too. It's simply too much work otherwise. And the only family I know who left did b/c they were reassigned. They were white and had lived in China/spoke Mandarin and are missed.
Is it your contention that these half-Asian biracial kids are unusually lucky in their lottery hand, or that they are disproportionately interested in the school vs. regular whites, blacks etc.? because interest, background and links to China are all well and good, but they don't give you any edge in the YY lottery. The white kid who was born and lived in China until he moved to DC and a Hispanic kid who never left Takoma Park, D.C., are playing equal odds.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids don't go to Yu Ying. I have no opinions on the school. But 90% of the families I've met who go there have a major connection (usually one mandarin speaking parent). Have I just had weird luck? I've probably met 20 families (none are close friends).
YY probably has more 1/2 Asian biracial kids than any other school in the area. I assume the 1/2 Asian kids are there for the Mandarin and not to escape their IB school. We did. Our other choice were private schools but they don't offer immersion Mandarin starting in preK. One of the best Mandarin speakers in my kid's K class is white: was born and lived in China until they moved to DC. Most of the families I know are there b/c they value Mandarin or grow too. It's simply too much work otherwise. And the only family I know who left did b/c they were reassigned. They were white and had lived in China/spoke Mandarin and are missed.
Is it your contention that these half-Asian biracial kids are unusually lucky in their lottery hand, or that they are disproportionately interested in the school vs. regular whites, blacks etc.? because interest, background and links to China are all well and good, but they don't give you any edge in the YY lottery. The white kid who was born and lived in China until he moved to DC and a Hispanic kid who never left Takoma Park, D.C., are playing equal odds.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids don't go to Yu Ying. I have no opinions on the school. But 90% of the families I've met who go there have a major connection (usually one mandarin speaking parent). Have I just had weird luck? I've probably met 20 families (none are close friends).
YY probably has more 1/2 Asian biracial kids than any other school in the area. I assume the 1/2 Asian kids are there for the Mandarin and not to escape their IB school. We did. Our other choice were private schools but they don't offer immersion Mandarin starting in preK. One of the best Mandarin speakers in my kid's K class is white: was born and lived in China until they moved to DC. Most of the families I know are there b/c they value Mandarin or grow too. It's simply too much work otherwise. And the only family I know who left did b/c they were reassigned. They were white and had lived in China/spoke Mandarin and are missed.
Anonymous wrote:My kids don't go to Yu Ying. I have no opinions on the school. But 90% of the families I've met who go there have a major connection (usually one mandarin speaking parent). Have I just had weird luck? I've probably met 20 families (none are close friends).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are none of you concerned about your kids missing out on the traditional neighborhood school? Maybe it doesn't matter as much if you work full time and your kids don't get home from after-care until 6pm. But I would hate to think that every child in my neighborhood went to a different school. I would hate my child's school to be miles away from our neighborhood. We don't live in D.C. anymore. One of the things I absolutely LOVE about our neighborhood is that all the kids in our neighborhood ride their bikes to school together. There is a real sense of community because all of us are concerned about working to make our neighborhood school the best it can be. My son's teacher lives four houses away from me. The principal lives two streets down. We have crossing guards to help the kids cross the streets safely. They know all the kids by name. Community events are often held at the schools. Our community is tied together in many ways by our school.
I would hate it if my kids' schools started allowing out-of-boundary kids, if for no other reason than the additional traffic. We have almost no car riders. ALL the kids walk or bike. The only time there is a car pool line is in bad weather.
I really think you are missing out on the value of supporting the elementary school in your community.
I'm not concerned about a neighborhood school. I'm concerned about my child speaking fluent Chinese. Someday, when your child is working in the mailroom
at my child's company, maybe he can submit a question to the president, and ask her.
Anonymous wrote:My kids don't go to Yu Ying. I have no opinions on the school. But 90% of the families I've met who go there have a major connection (usually one mandarin speaking parent). Have I just had weird luck? I've probably met 20 families (none are close friends).