Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OK - so thinking of my mom's group of friends we have a Louise, Maryanne, Leslie, Diane, Berta (yikes!), Patricia and Amelia. I guess Amelia will always be around, but I don't know if I'm ready for the rest.
Great list! I'll add from my mother's circle: Joanne, Donna, Joyce, Mary Lou, Martha, Miriam.
Anonymous wrote:An ordinary name does not equal an ordinary person.
I have one of the most common girls names of the 70's/80's and there is nothing ordinary about me.
In fact,,,,here's a little note to all of you who are so eager to have the 'one and only' name: the anonymity that comes with having a 'common' name is often a very good thing. Try being at a small university (or even a large university!) and doing something a little bit crazy drunk...your name will spread like wild-fire and be instantly unrecognizable.
I found an instant (and still do today) commaraderie with all the women that share my name. It def. is a conversation starter.
I like my name and still do not care that it was common because it was a beautiful name. The funny thing is--when my mom named me at the time..she swore nobody else had the name. I am at the start of the escalation in popularity.
It's not the end of the world. It's just a name.
Anonymous wrote:We are considering Theodore, nn Theo and I hadn't heard it was too popular. PP, how many Theos do you know? I had a popular name as well and trying to avoid if possible.
. I am at the start of the escalation in popularity.
Anonymous wrote:I really don't get all of this fuss about popular names. If you like it, use it. There are some on this board that would equate a popular name with mediocrity or worse ("trailer trash"). Perhaps Sophia or Jack or Noah have some special meaning within a family. My grandmother was named Ava and we plan on using it. Who are we to judge each other? If you want something unique, how about Snootypants or Stickupmyass.
Anonymous wrote:Updated compilation list:
GIRLS:
Sophie/Sophia
Ella/Ellie/Elle
Eleanor/Nora
Stella
Ava
Eva
Evelyn
Mia/Maya/Maia/Malia
Isabelle/Isabella
Olivia
Lily/Lila/Lillian
Layla/Lola
Grace
Claire
Caroline
Julia
Leah
Lucy
Zoe
Maggie
Molly
Emma/Emily
Chloe
Charlotte
Annabelle/Anna
Alexandra/Alexandria
Madeline
Madison
Addison
Hannah
Harper
Quinn
Anya
Alanna (really?)
BOYS:
Jack/Jackson
Liam/William
Aiden (and all that rhyme)
Max
Alexander
Charlie
Henry
Joe/Joseph/Josiah
Benjamin
Owen
Elijah
Sam
Jacob
Finn
Quinn
Mason
Micah
Matthew
Lucas
Noah
Tyler
Theo
Harrison
Gavin
Dylan
Eric
Michael
What's amazing to me is how so many of these sound alike, like Ava/Eva and Ella/Stella/Isabella or Addison/Madison.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OK - so thinking of my mom's group of friends we have a Louise, Maryanne, Leslie, Diane, Berta (yikes!), Patricia and Amelia. I guess Amelia will always be around, but I don't know if I'm ready for the rest.
Well there you go. I have my future daughter's name picked out now: Berta. Guaranteed to be the only one!
Anonymous wrote:OK - so thinking of my mom's group of friends we have a Louise, Maryanne, Leslie, Diane, Berta (yikes!), Patricia and Amelia. I guess Amelia will always be around, but I don't know if I'm ready for the rest.
Anonymous wrote:Hercules and Ramses are still very unusual.
Anonymous wrote:PP, my mom is Amelia, and she hated her name growing up, so much that she still goes by a rather silly diminutive. When the current crop of Amelias sprouted, she was terribly confused. Couldn't believe that such an antique of a name was making a comeback.
Let's see... mom's generation's names... Sue, Lynn(ette), Pat/Patty/Patricia, Carol, Linda, Barbara, Janet, Valerie... I think all those are pretty safe for the moment!