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Anonymous wrote:In South Asian arranged marriage world, being thin, tall and fair is really valuable, more so if comes with a professional degree and an affluent family.

Nobody here cares about this because it does not apply to their world.

Well, nobody is not everybody. Nobody is just nobody. Single, unattractive and griping on DCUM. LOL.

Anonymous wrote:In South Asian arranged marriage world, being thin, tall and fair is really valuable, more so if comes with a professional degree and an affluent family.

Nobody here cares about this because it does not apply to their world.

In South Asian arranged marriage world, being thin, tall and fair is really valuable, more so if comes with a professional degree and an affluent family.

Mirror, mirror on the wall who is the thinnest of them all? That’s the title of your next post, OP.

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Anonymous wrote:I think a woman who has a nice figure ALWAYS has an advantage over her fuller-figure counterparts even if the heavier women have traditionally prettier facial features.

Men love a great body.

Yes, but the debate is what’s a great body. White women think a great body is thinner and more shapeless than anyone else.

Asians are even thinner. It's not just a white woman's way of thinking.

Anonymous wrote:I have been thin and obese. While I found more dates when smaller, they were all f*ckbois. I am at my heaviest and have a great guy. I also met my late husband when I was bigger, and he was also awesome.

Was your husband on heavier side , too when you met?
It’s true that it’s harder ti keep a man who is in great shape

Definitely not. Speaking as a lifelong thin person. It probably helped some, but wasn’t the be all.

I think being healthy is most important. It being intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, approachability. I've been married forever but when young I never had problems getting dates. No dating apps existed so it may have helped. I think it was because I was approachable and nice, could carry on a conversation, was fun, had an interesting job. I think women think all men want models and I don't think true. I wasn't over weight but not model thin at all. It works both ways. So many men say all women want rich men and I don't think that's true either. Also think women are more critical of themselves than men are critical of women. I've gained a few and my husband doesn't care at all.

Anonymous wrote:Everyone in DC is thin so it's not an advantage. Different story if you move to the Midwest or South.

You think DC is thin?

At least at younger ages the south is much more attractive than DC

I would say the 45+ female influencers are driving the ideal body type more than porn.

Problem is, instagram has become the front line of AI versus the super healthy male/female influencer business model.

It is almost impossible to figure out who is real, filtered or just entirely ai generated now.

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Anonymous wrote:How do all these women in porn look so amazing and flawless? What do they do? Plastic surgeons, diet, exercise or just genetics?

It is just so discouraging.

I wouldn't say porn stars are flawless... they'd be actresses if that were the case. They are basically what Waffle House servers might look like with professional makeup and gym time.

Neither adult film stars nor mainstream actors are flawless, what an odd claim.

I can't even imagine caring what men think. Are women still doing this?

I have been thin and obese. While I found more dates when smaller, they were all f*ckbois. I am at my heaviest and have a great guy. I also met my late husband when I was bigger, and he was also awesome.

Anonymous wrote:How do all these women in porn look so amazing and flawless? What do they do? Plastic surgeons, diet, exercise or just genetics?

It is just so discouraging.

I wouldn't say porn stars are flawless... they'd be actresses if that were the case. They are basically what Waffle House servers might look like with professional makeup and gym time.

Ideally a healthy BMI with some muscles and curves. Never more than 10 pounds higher or lower than your ideal weight.