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Anonymous wrote:We got married in our mid 20's, moved to another country for career, had kids, built a life, bought a home, all that without any support network.

I moved overseas in my 20s, got married and had kids in my 30s, without any advice or support from my family. Because they were abusive and dysfunctional. I’m sure my life would have been easier if I had a support system. I hope my children still want my advice and guidance in their 20s and 30s. That reflects a healthy relationship.

Plus a million!

Anonymous wrote:We got married in our mid 20's, moved to another country for career, had kids, built a life, bought a home, all that without any support network.

I moved overseas in my 20s, got married and had kids in my 30s, without any advice or support from my family. Because they were abusive and dysfunctional. I’m sure my life would have been easier if I had a support system. I hope my children still want my advice and guidance in their 20s and 30s. That reflects a healthy relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Here's the non-word salad phrasing -
He's in a very bad place.

Maybe, maybe not. You have no idea. All you know is that he confided in his mother about what is going on in his life.

He is scared.

And?

All the maternal words of support sounds misleading if child support payments are not part of the offered support.

You seem very confused. Hope you don't have children.

Why would she offer money to support a child that's not hers? I get all kinds of support from family and friends that doesn't involve cash.

But you're just trolling, soo.....

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Here's the non-word salad phrasing -
He's in a very bad place.

Maybe, maybe not. You have no idea. All you know is that he confided in his mother about what is going on in his life.

He is scared.

And?

All the maternal words of support sounds misleading if child support payments are not part of the offered support.

I’d say:

How are you feeling about this news?

How is she feeling?

Let me know how I can support you both. I’m here for you, whatever you need.

Once I know their plan,
I would follow their lead. If they are having an abortion, I would offer support. If they are keeping it, I would be excited for them and ask what they need. If they plan for adoption, I would again let them know I support them.

Anonymous wrote:Let me know if you need help with anything.

You have 2 choices: have the baby/don't have the baby.
If you have the baby: You have 2 choices: Keep it/don't keep it

Have you thought about those choices?

Whatever happens we will support you in your decision and still plan to help you get through college. If your girlfriend needs support let us know.

I know this feels really big, but in the end everything will work out. Let me know how we can support you.

That's incorrect. Your *son* only has the second choice, bot the first. That is entirely the prospective mother's.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Here's the non-word salad phrasing -
He's in a very bad place.

Maybe, maybe not. You have no idea. All you know is that he confided in his mother about what is going on in his life.

He is scared.

And?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Here's the non-word salad phrasing -
He's in a very bad place.

Maybe, maybe not. You have no idea. All you know is that he confided in his mother about what is going on in his life.

He is scared.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Here's the non-word salad phrasing -
He's in a very bad place.

Maybe, maybe not. You have no idea. All you know is that he confided in his mother about what is going on in his life.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Here's the non-word salad phrasing -
He's in a very bad place.

Anonymous wrote:Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

What a load of crap, word salad you just made.

Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.

Here is another hypocrite who never, ever asked anyone else for advice as soon as turning 18.

Well, this guy, at 27+ is calling his mom for help so it doesn't sound like he's on the matrimonial road with the girlfriend.
And it sounds like the girlfriend KNEW she was pregnant if she's more than 14 weeks along.

Does OP's support also extend to the palimony the son will be stuck with until the child is 18?

Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.

Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.

Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.