Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
But are the Ivies still filled with these sorts of kids and families? The kids that come from ultra-connected, household name families? It seems that the Ivies are now filled with FGLI kids, pointy smart kids, Hollywood celebrity kids, and athletes.
The answer is yes…they are still filled with these sorts of kids and families.
For what it is worth my UMC unhooked kid is at an Ivy and while there are some kids of celebs, ultra rich kids and some minor european royal types, he describes the students as friendly, smart and interesting. He is absolutely loving his college experience and the number one reason is the teaching and all he is learning.
And what if he could have had the same experience elsewhere for a fraction of the cost? And maybe also been exposed to a more diverse group of students?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
Harvard is truly a hotbed for nepotism. This weakens society and impugns future Harvard graduates competence.
You may think so. But in my case, I was the first generation to ever graduate from college; first woman from my poor public high school to get into a SLAC; first woman from my SLAC to attend HLS; etc. Harvard Law gave me incredible opportunities I would never have had on my own. It also propelled me from a low economic status to a higher one, thereby enabling me to enroll my children in top schools. That is what the best in America higher education hopes to achieve.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
Harvard is truly a hotbed for nepotism. This weakens society and impugns future Harvard graduates competence.
You may think so. But in my case, I was the first generation to ever graduate from college; first woman from my poor public high school to get into a SLAC; first woman from my SLAC to attend HLS; etc. Harvard Law gave me incredible opportunities I would never have had on my own. It also propelled me from a low economic status to a higher one, thereby enabling me to enroll my children in top schools. That is what the best in America higher education hopes to achieve.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
Harvard is truly a hotbed for nepotism. This weakens society and impugns future Harvard graduates competence.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
Because strivers just can’t help themselves. Striving is all that they know.
What is a striver?
Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
If the bolded is true I’d hate to have met you BEFORE you went to Harvard…
You are reading into the comment what you want. The experience was humbling. For the first time in my life (I was a top student at every level up through college), I was debating in class with the top students from their SLACs, Rhodes Scholars, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
Because strivers just can’t help themselves. Striving is all that they know.
It's a sense of scale. Think about how common and attainable a 1430 or better is. That's how common and attainable T20 spots are. For every kid with a score above that who gets rejected, a kid below that score gets in. If the spots were merit based, everyone with a score of 1430 or above would be t20 material.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Top 2% is not that hard. A 1430 is in the top 2%.
You do realize you can’t compare the top 2% SAT scores with the top 2% of universities, right ?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
Note that this (absolutely correct) answer does not mention a single academic aspect of the school. Major, classes, professors — these matter only insofar as they allow you to network. Students more oriented toward academics than networking will not reap these benefits simply by attending a T10 and earning a degree. It’s who you meet while there that counts.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
If the bolded is true I’d hate to have met you BEFORE you went to Harvard…
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
But are the Ivies still filled with these sorts of kids and families? The kids that come from ultra-connected, household name families? It seems that the Ivies are now filled with FGLI kids, pointy smart kids, Hollywood celebrity kids, and athletes.
The answer is yes…they are still filled with these sorts of kids and families.
For what it is worth my UMC unhooked kid is at an Ivy and while there are some kids of celebs, ultra rich kids and some minor european royal types, he describes the students as friendly, smart and interesting. He is absolutely loving his college experience and the number one reason is the teaching and all he is learning.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone fighting so hard to get their kids into a "top 30-ish" school?
Less than 5% of college students attend a top 50 college. About 2.4% of college students in the US attend a top 30 college. Roughly 1% attend a "top 20" college. What is the point in fighting to be such a tiny fraction of college students.
For internships and jobs after. For grad school, medical and law school placement. For the contacts one makes at such places.
+1 and legacy status after. In my case, I was fortunate to get into Harvard for undergrad and worked hard and got into its law school. I met future presidents, congressman, roommates are household names, that sort of thing. That got me clerkships, which got me offers from top firms, which got me to the top of my field in interesting private and public positions. And now my DD is there. Yesterday I exchanged gifts and calls from H and HLS friends going way back. That’s why it matters. The experience made me a better person and better lawyer - one that could provide for a family and open doors for the next generation.
But are the Ivies still filled with these sorts of kids and families? The kids that come from ultra-connected, household name families? It seems that the Ivies are now filled with FGLI kids, pointy smart kids, Hollywood celebrity kids, and athletes.
The answer is yes…they are still filled with these sorts of kids and families.