Anonymous
12/19/2025 10:53
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:So may deferrals! We’re at one acceptance, two deferrals (LMU and Fordham), and one rejection.
At our school too! A change from prior years.
Anonymous
12/19/2025 03:53
Subject: Re:Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I drank two bottles of wine, ate a family size bag of Skinny Pop and 3/4 container dark chocolate raisins.
Fk u school
I for one appreciate the honesty, and humor
+1
Anonymous
12/18/2025 22:06
Subject: Re:Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:I am appreciating this thread- DC has been deferred 3 in a row including from a “safety.” It’s going to be a long few months and a lot of chocolate needed!
Right there with you. We’re being deferred left and right from schools where stats were very comfortable. It’s disheartening!
Our counselor says in RD, kid should absolutely get in as the application will actually be read, but I have to say I’m very skeptical. Gonna be a long few months.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 21:40
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
How could the other thread possibly be a duplicate if this was created afterwards
Anonymous
12/18/2025 18:32
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:So may deferrals! We’re at one acceptance, two deferrals (LMU and Fordham), and one rejection.
Similar, it’s dispiriting for sure
Anonymous
12/18/2025 18:25
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:So may deferrals! We’re at one acceptance, two deferrals (LMU and Fordham), and one rejection.
My 2024 was the year of the WL.
With my 2026, it does sw the year of the deferral.
^there was so much press about ED being unfair that it’s likely why they defer a lot to RD, even some likely to get in RD with schools that use it judiciously.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 18:15
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
So may deferrals! We’re at one acceptance, two deferrals (LMU and Fordham), and one rejection.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 12:47
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How is there so much cheating going on? What sort of cheating?
College subreddits are full of posts by angry students posting about people cheating on finals in their classes (“guy in a BIO 170 final sitting in the front with a blue hoodie took his test into the bathroom” kinds of things). My kid who recently graduated from college has expressed frustration at the amount of cheating at his top LAC and how many kids he felt had been turned into AI zombies by their practice of zoning out in class and having AI spoon feed them summaries of notes taken by their AI notetaker apps. He also said tons of kids wrote all assignments with AI. It seems like a really different environment than when I was in school.
That is really disheartening.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 11:53
Subject: Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:How is there so much cheating going on? What sort of cheating?
College subreddits are full of posts by angry students posting about people cheating on finals in their classes (“guy in a BIO 170 final sitting in the front with a blue hoodie took his test into the bathroom” kinds of things). My kid who recently graduated from college has expressed frustration at the amount of cheating at his top LAC and how many kids he felt had been turned into AI zombies by their practice of zoning out in class and having AI spoon feed them summaries of notes taken by their AI notetaker apps. He also said tons of kids wrote all assignments with AI. It seems like a really different environment than when I was in school.
Anonymous
12/18/2025 09:43
Subject: Re:Feeling so defeated after deferral. This is a good year for ED.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I drank two bottles of wine, ate a family size bag of Skinny Pop and 3/4 container dark chocolate raisins.
Fk u school
I for one appreciate the honesty, and humor
+1