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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I got the keys and I am finally home. I got ramen and spent $25 that I didn’t need to. He can’t walk out of the ward but what he could have done was give the keys to security to hand to me. Apparently this is a personal issue for him because it makes him look forgetful and he doesn’t want to look like he’s on his phone. My keys have always been separate because the car keys stay at the bottom of my bag as my car is touch start/open and makes my house keys lighter.

You sound ungrateful and way too high strung. I wouldn't want to ask security to pass my spouse keys so they didn't have a wait a couple of hours either. Why ask a relative stranger for a favor when you can ask your life partner to just chill for a couple of hours? Save your favors for true emergencies, and trust that your adult partner can handle themselves like an adult through a couple of hours of minor inconvenience.

You have $25 for ramen. Did you even bother to taste it? Maybe you should've used this opportunity to practice being present and grateful for what you have instead of such an insufferable tw@ about what you don't.

You'd really leave your family member locked out for hours rather than just hand security the keys? I wouldn't hesitate to give security a key for a family member eve if it was entirely their fault.

Do you guys just not like your families?

Are you crazy? You would actually hand your key to a stranger? Do you have any idea what that security guard could do with your key? Are you really that careless to put your family at risk? You can't be serious.

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Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.

Why not? Is this some kind of power struggle you two typically engage in?

He does t want to be known as problematic at work. I don’t get it. This is the first time this has happened.

Anonymous wrote:That's weird. Do his coworkers not know he's married?

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I got the keys and I am finally home. I got ramen and spent $25 that I didn’t need to. He can’t walk out of the ward but what he could have done was give the keys to security to hand to me. Apparently this is a personal issue for him because it makes him look forgetful and he doesn’t want to look like he’s on his phone. My keys have always been separate because the car keys stay at the bottom of my bag as my car is touch start/open and makes my house keys lighter.

You sound ungrateful and way too high strung. I wouldn't want to ask security to pass my spouse keys so they didn't have a wait a couple of hours either. Why ask a relative stranger for a favor when you can ask your life partner to just chill for a couple of hours? Save your favors for true emergencies, and trust that your adult partner can handle themselves like an adult through a couple of hours of minor inconvenience.

You have $25 for ramen. Did you even bother to taste it? Maybe you should've used this opportunity to practice being present and grateful for what you have instead of such an insufferable tw@ about what you don't.

You'd really leave your family member locked out for hours rather than just hand security the keys? I wouldn't hesitate to give security a key for a family member eve if it was entirely their fault.

Do you guys just not like your families?

Anonymous wrote:DHs car is in the shop so I took him to work(hospital). He ended up having both our house keys on him. He texts me that he has it and now I’m locked out of our house. DH tells me to wait for his break (7:30 pm) and if not just hang out in the car (he gets out of work at 1am). He refuses to answer his phone or give the keys to someone else so I can get them.