Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 22:25     Subject: Attraction to much older men
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Anonymous wrote:Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.


Women are going to bash me for saying this, but nowadays its hard to distinguish a regular woman from a sex worker. Women are tripping over each other about who is going to be dressed in the most provocative manner, who is going to score the hedge fund guy

Don't call them hookers. But spoil them over couple of days and they will open the box for you....no don't call them a hooker


It's sad that you don't see a difference between a man dating a woman he likes, showing her affection and a man who takes on covering her essential living expenses - the car, apartment, travel - in order to get her sleep with him. Or in order to get sexual favors that the women otherwise wouldn't be willing to do with him


If he's 15 or more years older, then it's about showing affection through money, gifts and experiences. End of story.


Again, I'm said that you don't see a difference between giving a woman flowers, inviting her to a theater or a nice bar vs giving her a debit card with monthly spending limit to rent an apartment, buy a car etc. Or paying for one-off sex. Men who are transactional like to equalize all women who like to be courted romantically with hookers.

I don't need $10K to sleep with a man I like; don't need him to buy me a trip to Paris. I will like him planning nice dates - cooking classes, movies, weekend outings, giving me memorable but otherwise low cost gifts to show affection.

Prostitute derives her livelihood from men; other women choose men based on mutual affection and interest


SAHM also rely on men for their livelihoods.


Sure-sure except that 40% of US women are breadwinners in the households. Those SAH carry the whole household. Parenthood is the hardest job in the world.
You use a very old, beaten up argument that was presented many times on this forum.

I suppose women who want to be SAH should realize that some husbands equalize them with hookers and think they don’t contribute anything
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 22:20     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.


Women are going to bash me for saying this, but nowadays its hard to distinguish a regular woman from a sex worker. Women are tripping over each other about who is going to be dressed in the most provocative manner, who is going to score the hedge fund guy

Don't call them hookers. But spoil them over couple of days and they will open the box for you....no don't call them a hooker


It's sad that you don't see a difference between a man dating a woman he likes, showing her affection and a man who takes on covering her essential living expenses - the car, apartment, travel - in order to get her sleep with him. Or in order to get sexual favors that the women otherwise wouldn't be willing to do with him


If he's 15 or more years older, then it's about showing affection through money, gifts and experiences. End of story.


Again, I'm said that you don't see a difference between giving a woman flowers, inviting her to a theater or a nice bar vs giving her a debit card with monthly spending limit to rent an apartment, buy a car etc. Or paying for one-off sex. Men who are transactional like to equalize all women who like to be courted romantically with hookers.

I don't need $10K to sleep with a man I like; don't need him to buy me a trip to Paris. I will like him planning nice dates - cooking classes, movies, weekend outings, giving me memorable but otherwise low cost gifts to show affection.

Prostitute derives her livelihood from men; other women choose men based on mutual affection and interest


SAHM also rely on men for their livelihoods.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 22:14     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.


Women are going to bash me for saying this, but nowadays its hard to distinguish a regular woman from a sex worker. Women are tripping over each other about who is going to be dressed in the most provocative manner, who is going to score the hedge fund guy

Don't call them hookers. But spoil them over couple of days and they will open the box for you....no don't call them a hooker


It's sad that you don't see a difference between a man dating a woman he likes, showing her affection and a man who takes on covering her essential living expenses - the car, apartment, travel - in order to get her sleep with him. Or in order to get sexual favors that the women otherwise wouldn't be willing to do with him


If he's 15 or more years older, then it's about showing affection through money, gifts and experiences. End of story.


Again, I'm said that you don't see a difference between giving a woman flowers, inviting her to a theater or a nice bar vs giving her a debit card with monthly spending limit to rent an apartment, buy a car etc. Or paying for one-off sex. Men who are transactional like to equalize all women who like to be courted romantically with hookers.

I don't need $10K to sleep with a man I like; don't need him to buy me a trip to Paris. I will like him planning nice dates - cooking classes, movies, weekend outings, giving me memorable but otherwise low cost gifts to show affection.

Prostitute derives her livelihood from men; other women choose men based on mutual affection and interest
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 22:10     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.


Women are going to bash me for saying this, but nowadays its hard to distinguish a regular woman from a sex worker. Women are tripping over each other about who is going to be dressed in the most provocative manner, who is going to score the hedge fund guy

Don't call them hookers. But spoil them over couple of days and they will open the box for you....no don't call them a hooker


It's sad that you don't see a difference between a man dating a woman he likes, showing her affection and a man who takes on covering her essential living expenses - the car, apartment, travel - in order to get her sleep with him. Or in order to get sexual favors that the women otherwise wouldn't be willing to do with him


If he's 15 or more years older, then it's about showing affection through money, gifts and experiences. End of story.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 22:06     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.


Women are going to bash me for saying this, but nowadays its hard to distinguish a regular woman from a sex worker. Women are tripping over each other about who is going to be dressed in the most provocative manner, who is going to score the hedge fund guy

Don't call them hookers. But spoil them over couple of days and they will open the box for you....no don't call them a hooker


It's sad that you don't see a difference between a man dating a woman he likes, showing her affection and a man who takes on covering her essential living expenses - the car, apartment, travel - in order to get her sleep with him. Or in order to get sexual favors that the women otherwise wouldn't be willing to do with him
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 21:26     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.


Women are going to bash me for saying this, but nowadays its hard to distinguish a regular woman from a sex worker. Women are tripping over each other about who is going to be dressed in the most provocative manner, who is going to score the hedge fund guy

Don't call them hookers. But spoil them over couple of days and they will open the box for you....no don't call them a hooker
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 21:02     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Interesting about Miami. Whenever I'm there, I wonder if there's some kind of high end sex industry going on there at a massive scale. There seem to be a lot of very attractive people there who aren't doing much. When I was on dating apps and my location was Miami, there were many profiles of people who were very attractive and seemed to have high quality photos from around the world but didn't say anything about themselves. I thought they might be scammers but maybe they were just people who get older men to pay for apartments or international travel.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 18:24     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:None of these younger women are providing phone numbers for us men!!



They are on "Seeking.com" formerly Seeking Arrangements. None of them want you for anything other than they money you'll give them and spend on them.


It's a very small percentage of men that are desperate like that. I am 48 and been divorced for 3 years now. The idea that I'll just hand over my hard earn money to another person just because she has boobs and a coochie give me a break. I rather beat my meat until it's cut off.


I am a woman, and recently accidentally ended up chatting at a bar with 2 late 30s women from Eastern Europe with a gentleman. They were both on Seeking.com and met that evening with a man who hired them for a threesome. He was 56, stupid, sulky and ugly like f..k. They whispered he promised them $10K for a thresome, one of them flew for that from Miami. I retreated shortly after.

Unfortunately, there are many floozies out there who are ready to open legs for a new purse
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 17:50     Subject: Attraction to much older men
I met a lady in baby class who was my age (30ish then )and always bragging about season tickets, first class flights, four times a year Disney, jewelry and so on. Turns out she lived in my parents senior townhouse complex with her elderly husband! No wonder she felt she had to brag.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 17:40     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:I recently sold my house to a newly married couple. After some detective work I found out he is 53 and she is 30. They have a 20 months old together. I actually met them cause I didn't use a realtor.

The wife is gorgeous, young, full of energy. Well the guy looked tired, old. I thought he was older than me..nope he was actually a year younger. He just seemed off. Men my age should avoid dating/marrying women more than 10 years younger because we just can't keep up with that passion that women tend to have and that her seem to dissipate. My parents are in their 80s. My mom still enjoy the art galleries, painting l, doing stuff and dad just lay around like a[b] snake[/b].

OP dont do that to yourself.


Lame.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 17:28     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:None of these younger women are providing phone numbers for us men!!



They are on "Seeking.com" formerly Seeking Arrangements. None of them want you for anything other than they money you'll give them and spend on them.


It's a very small percentage of men that are desperate like that. I am 48 and been divorced for 3 years now. The idea that I'll just hand over my hard earn money to another person just because she has boobs and a coochie give me a break. I rather beat my meat until it's cut off.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 17:26     Subject: Attraction to much older men
I recently sold my house to a newly married couple. After some detective work I found out he is 53 and she is 30. They have a 20 months old together. I actually met them cause I didn't use a realtor.

The wife is gorgeous, young, full of energy. Well the guy looked tired, old. I thought he was older than me..nope he was actually a year younger. He just seemed off. Men my age should avoid dating/marrying women more than 10 years younger because we just can't keep up with that passion that women tend to have and that her seem to dissipate. My parents are in their 80s. My mom still enjoy the art galleries, painting l, doing stuff and dad just lay around like a snake.

OP dont do that to yourself.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 16:05     Subject: Attraction to much older men
Anonymous wrote:None of these younger women are providing phone numbers for us men!!



They are on "Seeking.com" formerly Seeking Arrangements. None of them want you for anything other than they money you'll give them and spend on them.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 16:01     Subject: Attraction to much older men
None of these younger women are providing phone numbers for us men!!
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 14:50     Subject: Attraction to much older men
There’s a woman in my neighborhood who only marries much older men. She divorced them afterthought they get too old. She’s 60 and her most recent husband is 80. He’s now a lost soul and she’s with her girlfriends touring Europe.