Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boy oh boy so much bitterness and schadenfreude in the DCUM community - and judging by how all of these striver helicopter parents posting on this thread have such deep and intense animise toward those “getting one over”on the system, here is some advice… its life get used to it!! I think more of the venom comes from the fact that they haven't been able to game the system while other have lol
This goes far beyond nepotism. If fraud is the taken as the norm, "its life get used to it", I have nothing to say. Perhaps that's why we elected a president like Trump.
Anonymous wrote:Here is how parent involvement in science projects can escalate (own experience). We talk to DD (2nd grade at the time) about the Science Fair at her school. I don't want to ask whether she wants to participate (this would send the message that she could opt out), but rather what she would like to do research on. I don't know how she came up with the idea of Sink or Float (they were likely dropping things in water at school).
We talk about the objects that she wants to test and she comes up with some. The discussion goes to what are those objects made of and whether we can find other objects made from the same material to see how those behave. If you leave it to the 2nd grader, those questions would be unlikely to come up. Is it ethical for a parent to intervene and point out those "research" questions? Some will say that the kid didn't come up with those questions, so it's already not her project anymore. Others will say that beginner researchers always need some guidance and it should be ok if they eventually understand what they are doing and why they are doing it.
The next issue is how we are going to document the results. Simply write them down or offer visual proof? I see this as an opportunity for me to teach my child how to use a camera. We choose a bright spot in the house, DD drops objects in water, then takes a few pictures of each object from different angles (the idea is to select the best picture later). Would she think about taking pictures on her own? Most certainly not. Would she think about taking multiple pictures to be able to trash those that came out unfocused? Certainly not.
Once the "research" was over, we talked about the elephant in the room: why are some objects sinking while others are floating? Have you ever heard about a 2nd grader talking about density? Mine definitely didn't know squat about it. Was I wrong that I seized the opportunity to talk to her about objects with higher and lower density than water sinking and floating, respectively? Was that too much parental involvement? She ended up presenting her "research" and I was proud of how much she learned (operating a camera, objects are made of different materials, each material has its own density, etc.). Would a 2nd grader left to her own devices be able to conduct the "research" this way? That's very unlikely.
I am doing research with graduate students, who also need a lot of guidance (on topics of higher complexity, obviously). I never see anyone coming into the lab knowing exactly what they want to do and how they want to do it. Even as a graduate student, you have to learn the topic, what techniques you have available, how to operate the instrumentation, how to process the data, and how to interpret the results. You don't reach the point where you are able to come up with feasible research ideas without practice and guidance. A teenager patenting a technology that cures cancer is obviously a fraud.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My spouse started playing around with the ideas that would eventually be his field for his engineering PhD in high school. Did the research he did there lead directly to his thesis? Not exactly, but he did start to develop the love for the subject and begin to think about the problem (material fatigue) back when he was a teen.
So no, it's not perfect but you can start building your basis as a kid. My husband is the first person in his family to go to college so his parents definitely weren't doing the work for him.
This is very different. Your DH had a conception in high school. And it takes years to develop those ideas and prepare himself for skills required in that field, then eventually he reduced it to practice in his PhD years.
Many adult scientists have an IQ of about 145 and are simply well-organized, bright people who learn easily.
The kinds of kids who typically win the Regeneron scholarships fair and square, without corrupt levels of parental boosting, have an IQ of about 160, could complete college-level workbooks when they were 10, were interested enough in science to get themselves the equivalent of a weak bachelor’s in science by the time they were 14, and were lucky enough to end up in great science programs at places like Stuyvesant or Thomas Jefferson that hooked them up with good research programs. They may not necessarily be any more successful than the IQ145 researchers at age 45, but they they may look a lot more advanced at age 18.
Anonymous wrote:One sport can keep a kid busy enough with school work …this is surprising .
Different kids do different things.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My spouse started playing around with the ideas that would eventually be his field for his engineering PhD in high school. Did the research he did there lead directly to his thesis? Not exactly, but he did start to develop the love for the subject and begin to think about the problem (material fatigue) back when he was a teen.
So no, it's not perfect but you can start building your basis as a kid. My husband is the first person in his family to go to college so his parents definitely weren't doing the work for him.
This is very different. Your DH had a conception in high school. And it takes years to develop those ideas and prepare himself for skills required in that field, then eventually he reduced it to practice in his PhD years.
Many adult scientists have an IQ of about 145 and are simply well-organized, bright people who learn easily.
The kinds of kids who typically win the Regeneron scholarships fair and square, without corrupt levels of parental boosting, have an IQ of about 160, could complete college-level workbooks when they were 10, were interested enough in science to get themselves the equivalent of a weak bachelor’s in science by the time they were 14, and were lucky enough to end up in great science programs at places like Stuyvesant or Thomas Jefferson that hooked them up with good research programs. They may not necessarily be any more successful than the IQ145 researchers at age 45, but they they may look a lot more advanced at age 18.
At least some of the TJ students are not geniuses. They have just asked their dad's friends to get their name on the research. Everyone knows it's not their research except the STS people who look the other way. Otherwise they won't get the funding for their competitions and that means they won't have money for their salaries. Have you looked at the list recently? See what they're doing in 10 years.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My spouse started playing around with the ideas that would eventually be his field for his engineering PhD in high school. Did the research he did there lead directly to his thesis? Not exactly, but he did start to develop the love for the subject and begin to think about the problem (material fatigue) back when he was a teen.
So no, it's not perfect but you can start building your basis as a kid. My husband is the first person in his family to go to college so his parents definitely weren't doing the work for him.
This is very different. Your DH had a conception in high school. And it takes years to develop those ideas and prepare himself for skills required in that field, then eventually he reduced it to practice in his PhD years.
Many adult scientists have an IQ of about 145 and are simply well-organized, bright people who learn easily.
The kinds of kids who typically win the Regeneron scholarships fair and square, without corrupt levels of parental boosting, have an IQ of about 160, could complete college-level workbooks when they were 10, were interested enough in science to get themselves the equivalent of a weak bachelor’s in science by the time they were 14, and were lucky enough to end up in great science programs at places like Stuyvesant or Thomas Jefferson that hooked them up with good research programs. They may not necessarily be any more successful than the IQ145 researchers at age 45, but they they may look a lot more advanced at age 18.
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All the professors and researchers on this board told you over and over again, it’s not possible. The time commitment requires several years of phd students full time.
Anonymous wrote:It was interesting to read Bill Gates’ recent memoir about what he was able to learn and create as a young kid. Some kids just have the gumption and drive to do expert-level work at a young age.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My spouse started playing around with the ideas that would eventually be his field for his engineering PhD in high school. Did the research he did there lead directly to his thesis? Not exactly, but he did start to develop the love for the subject and begin to think about the problem (material fatigue) back when he was a teen.
So no, it's not perfect but you can start building your basis as a kid. My husband is the first person in his family to go to college so his parents definitely weren't doing the work for him.
This is very different. Your DH had a conception in high school. And it takes years to develop those ideas and prepare himself for skills required in that field, then eventually he reduced it to practice in his PhD years.
Anonymous wrote:My spouse started playing around with the ideas that would eventually be his field for his engineering PhD in high school. Did the research he did there lead directly to his thesis? Not exactly, but he did start to develop the love for the subject and begin to think about the problem (material fatigue) back when he was a teen.
So no, it's not perfect but you can start building your basis as a kid. My husband is the first person in his family to go to college so his parents definitely weren't doing the work for him.