Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a parent, this mindset is a huge turn off. Look how many kids never had an interest in it, and are just following the Pied Piper. My friend's DD who just started at Columbia is staying up all night filling out finance club applications. She had zero interest before. My main concern is where are the kids who think independently and are not afraid to go against the tide? Who have a strong set of ethics and intellectual curiosity? This trend does not bode well, in addition to all the other messed up things going on right now.
My kid is at Dartmouth and everyone there is also filling out finance club apps. Our kid called last night and asked us "should I be doing this?" We said no!
The pressure is high at these schools. it feels like 90% of the kids are pursuing economics/finance.
At Dartmouth? They don’t even have a business degree.LOL Cornell and Wharton is where the Ivy business kids go.
Somewhere, a Tuck MBA is wincing.
It used to be uncool to have undergrad business degrees (except for Penn). Business degrees were for the relatively less smart kids. Cornell added undergrad business fairly recently compared with the age of their MBA program.
Econ is the traditional Ivy substitute and is not really much more intellectual or pro-social. Undergrad business includes lots of economics, psychology, statistics, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are many levels of investment banking. I worked in real estate investing banking. I was a poor Asian immigrant. Lots of unhooked kids get into finance from a top school. I went to Harvard. I knew tons of unhooked kids from Harvard, MIT, Cornell, Columbia, Penn, NYU, etc. I don’t remember nepo kids. The people I knew were all qualified. Of course some of those qualified people had parents who were up there but that is not why someone was hired.
We did have interns and entry level kids who were nepo kids as I became more senior.
Looking back, would you recommend your experience? What do you think you would have done instead if that offer hadn't come through?
I ended up marrying a very smart and driven guy. He makes $$$ and I’m now a SAHM.
I don’t think I was in a hyper competitive environment. I interviewed well. I’m attractive. I had a very high rate of getting interviews and offers. I am naturally smart so I didn’t necessarily have to try that hard.
I saw someone prior post that their kid is studying 10+ hours per day for interviews. I spent an hour before the interview and almost always got an offer.
Anonymous wrote:Pp again. I remember something called an airplane test. I was a likable, confident and always smart. The most important was that I truly was passionate about what I wanted to do. I’m not sure you can study to do this.
My husband is extremely successful and super likable and trustworthy. This has worked out well for him. He makes everything look easy.
Anonymous wrote:As a parent, this mindset is a huge turn off. Look how many kids never had an interest in it, and are just following the Pied Piper. My friend's DD who just started at Columbia is staying up all night filling out finance club applications. She had zero interest before. My main concern is where are the kids who think independently and are not afraid to go against the tide? Who have a strong set of ethics and intellectual curiosity? This trend does not bode well, in addition to all the other messed up things going on right now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There's endless chatter on the front end, as these kids discuss their interest in IB, share tips and info, and otherwise chase these jobs.
Some land them. Most don't. I would love to hear from that second group of kids (or their parents) about what they do instead, after the endlessly-discussed IB plan falls through.
Just had this convo with my college senior last night. Most of his friends are business. He is IR and has no desire for finance-type jobs. The kids with the IB dreams as freshman (when they barely knew what that meant) started broadening their scope to PE (ew) then now as seniors moving to wealth management when the first 2 haven't worked out. The kids who actually get the IB or other "most prestigious by name only" jobs are nepo hires.
Anonymous wrote:Pp again. I remember something called an airplane test. I was a likable, confident and always smart. The most important was that I truly was passionate about what I wanted to do. I’m not sure you can study to do this.
My husband is extremely successful and super likable and trustworthy. This has worked out well for him. He makes everything look easy.
Anonymous wrote:As a parent, this mindset is a huge turn off. Look how many kids never had an interest in it, and are just following the Pied Piper. My friend's DD who just started at Columbia is staying up all night filling out finance club applications. She had zero interest before. My main concern is where are the kids who think independently and are not afraid to go against the tide? Who have a strong set of ethics and intellectual curiosity? This trend does not bode well, in addition to all the other messed up things going on right now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are many levels of investment banking. I worked in real estate investing banking. I was a poor Asian immigrant. Lots of unhooked kids get into finance from a top school. I went to Harvard. I knew tons of unhooked kids from Harvard, MIT, Cornell, Columbia, Penn, NYU, etc. I don’t remember nepo kids. The people I knew were all qualified. Of course some of those qualified people had parents who were up there but that is not why someone was hired.
We did have interns and entry level kids who were nepo kids as I became more senior.
Looking back, would you recommend your experience? What do you think you would have done instead if that offer hadn't come through?
Anonymous wrote:There's endless chatter on the front end, as these kids discuss their interest in IB, share tips and info, and otherwise chase these jobs.
Some land them. Most don't. I would love to hear from that second group of kids (or their parents) about what they do instead, after the endlessly-discussed IB plan falls through.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a parent, this mindset is a huge turn off. Look how many kids never had an interest in it, and are just following the Pied Piper. My friend's DD who just started at Columbia is staying up all night filling out finance club applications. She had zero interest before. My main concern is where are the kids who think independently and are not afraid to go against the tide? Who have a strong set of ethics and intellectual curiosity? This trend does not bode well, in addition to all the other messed up things going on right now.
My kid is at Dartmouth and everyone there is also filling out finance club apps. Our kid called last night and asked us "should I be doing this?" We said no!
The pressure is high at these schools. it feels like 90% of the kids are pursuing economics/finance.
At Dartmouth? They don’t even have a business degree.LOL Cornell and Wharton is where the Ivy business kids go.
Intelligent banks don't just hire undergrad business majors. They hire smart kids and train them themselves. I actually often preferred to stay away from the undergrad business majors. This mentality that you must major in "business" undergrad to work on Wall Street is completely incorrect.
This. Top banks hire Econ or math majors all the time. Wharton UG degree fwiw is a Bachelors of science in economics. not an undergrad "business" degree. Most UG "business" degrees ie BBA and similar are not well respected by the top places
Anonymous wrote:What are the far better options? 4 years of $60k per year followed by $600k per year seems pretty good to me.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No it's all the smart, FGLI (first gen low income) kids on Reddit too. Take some time and read--they ALL want to go into investment banking.
The in vogue career path has turned from computer science to econ/banking in the first gen/immigrant crowd.
The reality is that few of these kids will make it as it's not a meritocracy.
Yep. That’s why they should just stick to going into medicine.
People don’t go into medicine because they couldn’t get a finance job. Money grubs have no business in medicine.
Yeah dumb quote - and the money sucks for the amount of time required (my wife was a PGY-9). If that's your only concern, there are far better options elsewhere.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No it's all the smart, FGLI (first gen low income) kids on Reddit too. Take some time and read--they ALL want to go into investment banking.
The in vogue career path has turned from computer science to econ/banking in the first gen/immigrant crowd.
The reality is that few of these kids will make it as it's not a meritocracy.
Yep. That’s why they should just stick to going into medicine.
People don’t go into medicine because they couldn’t get a finance job. Money grubs have no business in medicine.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a parent, this mindset is a huge turn off. Look how many kids never had an interest in it, and are just following the Pied Piper. My friend's DD who just started at Columbia is staying up all night filling out finance club applications. She had zero interest before. My main concern is where are the kids who think independently and are not afraid to go against the tide? Who have a strong set of ethics and intellectual curiosity? This trend does not bode well, in addition to all the other messed up things going on right now.
My kid is at Dartmouth and everyone there is also filling out finance club apps. Our kid called last night and asked us "should I be doing this?" We said no!
The pressure is high at these schools. it feels like 90% of the kids are pursuing economics/finance.
At Dartmouth? They don’t even have a business degree.LOL Cornell and Wharton is where the Ivy business kids go.
Intelligent banks don't just hire undergrad business majors. They hire smart kids and train them themselves. I actually often preferred to stay away from the undergrad business majors. This mentality that you must major in "business" undergrad to work on Wall Street is completely incorrect.