Anonymous
07/14/2025 21:39
Subject: Husbands - low value
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The kind of men that less attractive women end up stuck with. Not really a surprise.
THIS.
I’m sure OP’s friends are not very attractive. They ended up with Beta men.
Attractive women like Melania end up with Alpha men. They aren’t complaining about their husbands underachieving.
Being married to Trump is NOT a flex. *shudder*
Anonymous
07/14/2025 21:03
Subject: Husbands - low value
Half my girl friends have husbands who are the primary earners. The other half are the primary earners. In my circle, those with husbands that earn less are definitely not low-value men. They make significant contributions to the family and take on the bulk of caregiving, and they come from families that are relatively well off. I’m envious of it, really. I always wonder what it would be like to have a husband who cooks, cleans, and takes on the mental load of the kids. Sounds like a dream.
Anonymous
07/14/2025 20:06
Subject: Husbands - low value
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just met up with an old friend. The husband recently retired or got pushed out of his job. The wife is a high level executive. The wife was always demanding but now she just barks orders. The husband does most/all of the housework and shuffling kids around. I have a similar set up but I’m the wife. It didn’t look like a good look. I think it is the way she treated her husband that seemed so emasculating. I would not be surprised if they don’t make it as a couple. Wife is very engaging, beautiful and aggressive. They just seem like an off couple now. She is constantly surrounded by polished type A go getters.
Aren’t go-getter husbands always telling their SAHW what to do for the house, what time to leave, what time the kid game is, what the children need all day long? So top of mind! Good to have a backup who knows what’s up.
My go getter husband does not tell me what to do. I handle the house and kids with very little input from DH. I hire and outsource as I please.
Wow! What did your last review say?
Anonymous
07/14/2025 16:12
Subject: Husbands - low value
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just met up with an old friend. The husband recently retired or got pushed out of his job. The wife is a high level executive. The wife was always demanding but now she just barks orders. The husband does most/all of the housework and shuffling kids around. I have a similar set up but I’m the wife. It didn’t look like a good look. I think it is the way she treated her husband that seemed so emasculating. I would not be surprised if they don’t make it as a couple. Wife is very engaging, beautiful and aggressive. They just seem like an off couple now. She is constantly surrounded by polished type A go getters.
Aren’t go-getter husbands always telling their SAHW what to do for the house, what time to leave, what time the kid game is, what the children need all day long? So top of mind! Good to have a backup who knows what’s up.
No, he doesn't want to deal with minutiae, nor should he. He has standards that align with my standards. I execute and manage houses and outsource as I see fit and spend as I feel necessary. He makes all of the money, I monitor it.
Anonymous
07/14/2025 15:36
Subject: Husbands - low value
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just met up with an old friend. The husband recently retired or got pushed out of his job. The wife is a high level executive. The wife was always demanding but now she just barks orders. The husband does most/all of the housework and shuffling kids around. I have a similar set up but I’m the wife. It didn’t look like a good look. I think it is the way she treated her husband that seemed so emasculating. I would not be surprised if they don’t make it as a couple. Wife is very engaging, beautiful and aggressive. They just seem like an off couple now. She is constantly surrounded by polished type A go getters.
Aren’t go-getter husbands always telling their SAHW what to do for the house, what time to leave, what time the kid game is, what the children need all day long? So top of mind! Good to have a backup who knows what’s up.
My go getter husband does not tell me what to do. I handle the house and kids with very little input from DH. I hire and outsource as I please.