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Post 07/17/2025 11:23     Subject: What do you say to someone who asks about how much money you have saved for retirement?

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Anonymous wrote:Depends on who is the someone


Who is OK to ask?


A spouse who has separate accounts is ok to ask. DH and I sometimes ask each other. Anyone else would get "enough" or "I hope I have enough" or "why do you ask? Are you planning to fund me?"


Wow, that's one f'ed up conversation to have between DH and DW. What kind of marriage is that??


a great one between two independent adults? i don't have access to my spouses funds and he doesn't have access to mine. we usually touch base on accounts and total net worth annually.



That’s wild. There is no “we” in your marriage. Wonder why you two bothered to get married.