Anonymous
06/23/2025 21:11
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
I'm a woman (married) and I agree. Women have been pointing out (in endless articles and elsewhere) for the last 15+ yrs that everything men do is wrong and bad. Now they're supposed to be back and "not perfect" is fine?
Anonymous
06/23/2025 21:04
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
Might want to look further south at more traditional cultures, that value masculinity and marriage.
Many are moving here.
The marriage rate in DCnis higher than every southern state and the marriage rate in NY state is also higher than 1/2 the southern states including GA, LA, KY and MS.
Nevada and Hawaii are the highest and Louisiana is the lowest.
I think the pp may have been referring to central/south America? I spend half the year down there and it's like night and day. I don't even date when back in DC. Just look at some of the insane comments by unhinged women on this site. Just not worth it IMHO.
I don’t think “many are moving there” as PP commented to mean Central and South America…since many people aren’t moving there.
BTW…most men going to these places to “date” define dating the same way as men go to Thailand to “date”.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 20:58
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
Might want to look further south at more traditional cultures, that value masculinity and marriage.
Many are moving here.
The marriage rate in DCnis higher than every southern state and the marriage rate in NY state is also higher than 1/2 the southern states including GA, LA, KY and MS.
Nevada and Hawaii are the highest and Louisiana is the lowest.
I think the pp may have been referring to central/south America? I spend half the year down there and it's like night and day. I don't even date when back in DC. Just look at some of the insane comments by unhinged women on this site. Just not worth it IMHO.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 20:48
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DS20 is very very tall and handsome, but is not into partying and social media. He is surrounded pretty girls at his college, but no girl friend yet. It's none of my business, but he says he wants to get married and have lots of kids. I guess there's no hurry.
DS had a HS sweetheart but they broke up when he was 19. He was heartbroken. He really believed that they would marry one day. He talked about getting married and having children, and how he wanted to parent. He was a really good BF to her, and even her mother was upset that she broke up with him.
He is tall, good looking (random girls have checked him out - I saw it happening lol, and 17 yr old DD's friends have said he's cute), very smart, and will probably end up getting a good paying job in the future based on his trajectory. He cooks, cleans, does his laundry (better than his dad), manages his money well.
He will make a great bf/husband one day.
I call this BS. If he cooks, clean, and does his laundry, he is basically a simp.
I’m 42 and I’ve been married 15 years and together for 20.
I guess I’ve reached the age of fatherly wisdom so here goes…
Son, if you think a man who cooks, cleans, and does his own laundry is a “simp” you have no business being a part of society. Where did your parents fail you? If you can’t be self sufficient you have nothing and you are nothing. I was raised by men who could basically do any task they needed to from sewing on a button to field dressing a deer. Clean up your act. You’re a f’ing joke.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 20:48
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
Might want to look further south at more traditional cultures, that value masculinity and marriage.
Many are moving here.
The marriage rate in DCnis higher than every southern state and the marriage rate in NY state is also higher than 1/2 the southern states including GA, LA, KY and MS.
Nevada and Hawaii are the highest and Louisiana is the lowest.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 20:35
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:I blame these horrible boy-moms.
This is all their fault.
Blame the crappy Boomer dads who raised wildly insecure Gen X and millennial sons, it’s their fault.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:56
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
Might want to look further south at more traditional cultures, that value masculinity and marriage.
Many are moving here.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:55
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
Can't really say I blame you all, considering how bad the USA has gotten in the last 20 years with this issue.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:46
Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The majority of young men these days are unmarriable.
Came for the misandry. Was not disappointed.
It's the misandry that's driving men away from marriage and relationships. It's no longer worth it for them.
Isn't that interesting?? Once women didn't need men for financial security, the misogyny drive them away from marriage and relationships. It wasn't worth it for them.
I applaud all the women who are choosing to remain single when the alternative is an entitled manbaby who still plays video games. I'm sorry for the ones who dream of a nice guy who does his share, possesses some emotional maturity, and views her as an equal, but those are indeed thin on the ground.
This sounds exactly like the government depopulation agenda again. Hmmmmm
And Project 2025 MAGA sounds like Gilead. No, thank you. I'd rather my 17 yr old DD remain single for the rest of her life than subject herself to MAGA's version of America where women are forced to birth their rapist's baby.
Same for my nieces.
Get them cats as a graduation gift and four credit cards to max out, then. Get started early.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:45
Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The majority of young men these days are unmarriable.
Came for the misandry. Was not disappointed.
It's the misandry that's driving men away from marriage and relationships. It's no longer worth it for them.
Isn't that interesting?? Once women didn't need men for financial security, the misogyny drive them away from marriage and relationships. It wasn't worth it for them.
I applaud all the women who are choosing to remain single when the alternative is an entitled manbaby who still plays video games. I'm sorry for the ones who dream of a nice guy who does his share, possesses some emotional maturity, and views her as an equal, but those are indeed thin on the ground.
This sounds exactly like the government depopulation agenda again. Hmmmmm
And Project 2025 MAGA sounds like Gilead. No, thank you. I'd rather my 17 yr old DD remain single for the rest of her life than subject herself to MAGA's version of America where women are forced to birth their rapist's baby.
Same for my nieces.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:45
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:44
Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The majority of young men these days are unmarriable.
Came for the misandry. Was not disappointed.
It's the misandry that's driving men away from marriage and relationships. It's no longer worth it for them.
Isn't that interesting?? Once women didn't need men for financial security, the misogyny drive them away from marriage and relationships. It wasn't worth it for them.
I applaud all the women who are choosing to remain single when the alternative is an entitled manbaby who still plays video games. I'm sorry for the ones who dream of a nice guy who does his share, possesses some emotional maturity, and views her as an equal, but those are indeed thin on the ground.
If you are quality woman and men find you desirable, you can easily attract your equal and not deal with any of this misogyny nonsense. It's the lower quality women, like the nasty ones (not necessarily you) posting here who have little chance of finding a good man and might end up dealing with lazy, immature, and generally hateful guys.
Welp. Even more incentive for them to stay single, if this is how you speak about women. Why would a woman choose a - in your words - hateful guy, to spend time with when she could just be single? How low is the bar for men here?
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:36
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:I blame these horrible boy-moms.
This is all their fault.
"Those who point the finger are often at fault as well."
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:34
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
I blame these horrible boy-moms.
This is all their fault.
This is all their fault.
Anonymous
06/23/2025 19:02
Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:At most universities. 60% of undegrads are female now. We're failing men.
Or is it that now that women get the chance, they outpace the men. No more DEI for men and they fall apart?
Yes, blame the men. When it was the opposite (more men in college than women), did we blame the women?
Yes. Emphatically yes. Women were too delicate for college, didn't have the intellectual capacity to compete with the men, etc etc. And the earliest women who did pursue higher education were vilified for taking space away from men who deserved it more. They were shut out from research opportunity, sexually harassed off campuses, and blamed for all the fallout.
Women are used to taking the blame. But dear lord, when a woman outcompetes a man? Talk about "too emotional!"
nice story granny