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Anonymous wrote:I have an 8 year old girl who is 5 feet tall. It profoundly affects her socially and emotionally. So much sympathy for you. We have her in therapy to talk through it and to work on self image. My approach - with advice of therapist - is to try things that become her “thing.” She is too young for tall girl team sports, so we are doing things like theater and climbing.

She can definitely do track and basketball right now.

Regardless, your family seems to be having an oversized reaction to your kid being tall.

Anonymous wrote:Poor baby has short parents and has a short son

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Anonymous wrote:Anecdotal but my sister and I grew up in America and I have 3 siblings who grew up in Korea. Sister and I who grew up in America are both 5'7-5'8" and weigh around 135-140ish. Sisters who grew up in Korea are 5'4" and 110ish. Brother who grew up in Korea (but was younger than all 4 sisters and who has a lot more access to food) is 6'2".

It's all the growth hormones in the US food supply. How tall are your parents, and how old are you?

Op - I am 41. My biological parents are 5’10” (dad) and 5’4”ish (mom).

Brother (who grew up in Korea is an outlier). He is 6 years younger than me and much taller than average Asian. But he had access to more food, plus he was male, in Korea.

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Anonymous wrote:What size are his feet? Typically there is correlation with height. When’s the last time his feet grew? My endo told me that feet grow first and then the body catches up. My son’s growth spurt happened two years after his feet growth spurt.

This is OP. This is interesting.. he wears a size 9 and half men’s shoes(which happens to be by husband’s). He went through many shoe sizes in the last one year.

He doesn’t have any underlying conditions.. just early puberty which threw us off. He eats healthy. We do not have any one under 5’7 - men on both sides of the family. Thanks to all the people who supported and gave us some great advice.

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Anonymous wrote:If short women are so concerned about their child's height why didn't they marry taller? What did you think was going to happen marrying a short man?

Valid question.
It behooves us all to set expectations accordingly.

Not sure why it needs to be repeated over and over, but OP said the DH is 5’8, which is not particularly short for an American man (only slightly below average). And OP is 5’3, which again is not particularly short for an American woman (again, only slightly below average). In fact, OP and her husband are both exactly one inch below the average height, meaning they are the same height when accounting for gender (female height is ~5 inches below the male height equivalent). Since their child is a boy, his expected height would be 5’8. If he is in fact done growing (I can’t speak to that part, as I don’t know much about growth plate closure and its reliability for predicting the end of growth), he is 5 inches shorter than his average predicted height based on genetics. That is pretty significant, and worth investigating, as there might be a biological cause.

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Anonymous wrote:If short women are so concerned about their child's height why didn't they marry taller? What did you think was going to happen marrying a short man?

Valid question.
It behooves us all to set expectations accordingly.

Anonymous wrote:What size are his feet? Typically there is correlation with height. When’s the last time his feet grew? My endo told me that feet grow first and then the body catches up. My son’s growth spurt happened two years after his feet growth spurt.

Anonymous wrote:Anecdotal but my sister and I grew up in America and I have 3 siblings who grew up in Korea. Sister and I who grew up in America are both 5'7-5'8" and weigh around 135-140ish. Sisters who grew up in Korea are 5'4" and 110ish. Brother who grew up in Korea (but was younger than all 4 sisters and who has a lot more access to food) is 6'2".

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If short women are so concerned about their child's height why didn't they marry taller? What did you think was going to happen marrying a short man?

Valid question.
It behooves us all to set expectations accordingly.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anecdotal but my sister and I grew up in America and I have 3 siblings who grew up in Korea. Sister and I who grew up in America are both 5'7-5'8" and weigh around 135-140ish. Sisters who grew up in Korea are 5'4" and 110ish. Brother who grew up in Korea (but was younger than all 4 sisters and who has a lot more access to food) is 6'2".

It's all the growth hormones in the US food supply. How tall are your parents, and how old are you?

Anonymous wrote:Anecdotal but my sister and I grew up in America and I have 3 siblings who grew up in Korea. Sister and I who grew up in America are both 5'7-5'8" and weigh around 135-140ish. Sisters who grew up in Korea are 5'4" and 110ish. Brother who grew up in Korea (but was younger than all 4 sisters and who has a lot more access to food) is 6'2".

Anonymous wrote:If short women are so concerned about their child's height why didn't they marry taller? What did you think was going to happen marrying a short man?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anecdotal but my sister and I grew up in America and I have 3 siblings who grew up in Korea. Sister and I who grew up in America are both 5'7-5'8" and weigh around 135-140ish. Sisters who grew up in Korea are 5'4" and 110ish. Brother who grew up in Korea (but was younger than all 4 sisters and who has a lot more access to food) is 6'2".

It's all the growth hormones in the US food supply. How tall are your parents, and how old are you?

Anonymous wrote:Anecdotal but my sister and I grew up in America and I have 3 siblings who grew up in Korea. Sister and I who grew up in America are both 5'7-5'8" and weigh around 135-140ish. Sisters who grew up in Korea are 5'4" and 110ish. Brother who grew up in Korea (but was younger than all 4 sisters and who has a lot more access to food) is 6'2".