Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 09:59     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I sold all of my ex boyfriend jewelry after I got married. Your local jeweler will buy it.

AP is probably wearing it to mess with OP’s head. She wants OP to leave her husband so she can get him back.

OR

She was always in the affair for the swag and doesn’t care about OP’s husband.


I think it’s #1

The AP’s will often do things such as anonymously out the affair so that the wife will leave. They mess with them.


All the more reason to leave the sort of man who has an AP. Game over. He can keep her brand of crazy, and you can have a life without his drama-causing nonsense.

If you're staying, you're playing. There are no winners in this game. Stop.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 09:50     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:I sold all of my ex boyfriend jewelry after I got married. Your local jeweler will buy it.

AP is probably wearing it to mess with OP’s head. She wants OP to leave her husband so she can get him back.

OR

She was always in the affair for the swag and doesn’t care about OP’s husband.


I think it’s #1

The AP’s will often do things such as anonymously out the affair so that the wife will leave. They mess with them.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 08:20     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
I sold all of my ex boyfriend jewelry after I got married. Your local jeweler will buy it.

AP is probably wearing it to mess with OP’s head. She wants OP to leave her husband so she can get him back.

OR

She was always in the affair for the swag and doesn’t care about OP’s husband.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 07:50     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He should have asked for it back. I would have made him. Do married men always give their affair partners expensive things to remember them by?


I was very generous with my AP. She was trying to compete with my wife and it was getting worse and worse. At that point I ended it and never had an AP again. There is something really strange about women trying to compete with other women they don't even know.


100% really weird psychology


It’s called being a pickme.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 07:46     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:So if this is you.. You are 55yo and your husband aggressively pursued a 36-year-old never married woman who wanted to have kids, telling her he would leave you, he was repulsed by you, he was only with you for your ill / special needs child. He gave her gifts, flowers, dates and texted her. And all of this just happened in 2023.

I will be the 100th person to tell you to have some self-respect and divorce the bum! Your husband is a manipulative, lying jerk who cares more about getting laid than either one of you. I hope he has money because you will get some when you divorce him. But all you’re doing now is prolonging the misery. Do for yourself what you would tell your daughter to do.


And that’s the kind of man the necklace wearing Ho wants—let her have him. He can be her problem….because they always repeat history.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 23:16     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
So if this is you.. You are 55yo and your husband aggressively pursued a 36-year-old never married woman who wanted to have kids, telling her he would leave you, he was repulsed by you, he was only with you for your ill / special needs child. He gave her gifts, flowers, dates and texted her. And all of this just happened in 2023.

I will be the 100th person to tell you to have some self-respect and divorce the bum! Your husband is a manipulative, lying jerk who cares more about getting laid than either one of you. I hope he has money because you will get some when you divorce him. But all you’re doing now is prolonging the misery. Do for yourself what you would tell your daughter to do.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 22:54     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Your husband had the time of his life putting his caulk inside of her, and you’re worried about a necklace?
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 21:13     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:Bc it’s a nice necklace?

Seriously stop thinking about her.


This. Gold is forever. Men, no.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 20:56     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:I feel like this post is marketing for Kay jewelers



Definitely a troll post.

I’ll just eat popcorn.

Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 19:21     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Does it matter if there were earlier posts? How does that negate her feelings?


If you even have to ask why that’s relevant you’re totally missing the point. It matters because OP is not free, and she never will be. I think Jeff even did a write up on this woman earlier this year about being a lost cause. Some people can simply never untether themselves no matter how much pain has been inflicted by their cheating husband. This is more than likely the same poster, because she won’t come out and say otherwise. It’s just sad. Nobody deserves to live like this but some people just can’t imagine any different.


OP posted so many threads about infidelity last year that you would have thought half of the DMV is out cheating on their wives. She is not healing and desperately needs to leave this bozo. Cheating is one thing but this guy had a long relationship with this woman that included trash talking his wife for years and apparently gifts. Gifts!! DTMFA, OP, be free!
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 19:12     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:Well op he told you one thing but he showed her something else.


I have to agree that this makes complete sense.

OP, not trying to be snarky but how can you be 💯% sure your husband is no longer w/this woman??
You cannot since none of us can ever know 100% of what another person does.

Your husband is only going to tell you what he wants to.
Everything else will be up to interpretation.

The bigger question is this…..
If he truly did not care for this person as you stated > then why did he purchase a necklace for her?
Generally people who only have sex w/each other do not usually purchase jewelry for them.

And most importantly here -
Why are you still married to a man who cheated on you?
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 19:12     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:Does it matter if there were earlier posts? How does that negate her feelings?


If you even have to ask why that’s relevant you’re totally missing the point. It matters because OP is not free, and she never will be. I think Jeff even did a write up on this woman earlier this year about being a lost cause. Some people can simply never untether themselves no matter how much pain has been inflicted by their cheating husband. This is more than likely the same poster, because she won’t come out and say otherwise. It’s just sad. Nobody deserves to live like this but some people just can’t imagine any different.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 19:09     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:Does it matter if there were earlier posts? How does that negate her feelings?


You're allowed to have your feelings AND you're responsible for your behavior.

If you're obsessively refreshing the AP's social media, making up stories about what she's doing and why, you are complicit in your own unhappiness.

Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 18:47     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Does it matter if there were earlier posts? How does that negate her feelings?
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2024 18:25     Subject: Husbands former AP wearing necklace he gave her
Anonymous wrote:I’m the immediate PP. I think this is the OP:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1176795.page#26511289


In case you need a refresher on this poster and her nightmarish marriage and her inability to let go of her trash husband and his AP (who he is most likely still seeing, based on how all this is going), from the last post of the prior thread:

You're probably not familiar with this OP who I am 99.9999% sure is NOT in a good place- she composed most of the threads about affairs on the relationship forum in 2023 and her husband wrote incredibly nasty things about her to the AP, and then OP somehow got ahold of those texts (I'm not sure who gave them to her, the AP or the DH). She has repeatedly said that the AP is troubled and vulnerable and younger and her DH took advantage of that. The DH is a real piece of work and OP needs to cut him loose like 6 months ago.