Anonymous wrote:I know someone dropped from their friend group at VISI when the rest of the group took vacations together and did not tell said person because “she would not be able to afford it”, so they ignored her all summer and then dropped her from the group beginning of that school year. How awful.

LIES

I know someone dropped from their friend group at VISI when the rest of the group took vacations together and did not tell said person because “she would not be able to afford it”, so they ignored her all summer and then dropped her from the group beginning of that school year. How awful.

The real Q is, where is mean girls the culture?

Anonymous wrote:We are at SR and I see the Country Club seen as definitely part of the culture of my kids grade.

Possibly but I do not think it is necessarily a country club issue per se. I think it may just be that some parents are just unkind and yes they do coincidentally belong to the same country clubs/social clubs. Anytime parents gossip to kids about other parents and other kids that should be a red flag.