Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?
But for me it’s the cheating.
I don’t understand why people expect Dave Grohl to behave differently than any other rock star or celebrity. He’s subject to the same temptations as everyone else in his profession.
Temptations are just that. He is married. I expect everyone to stick to their marriage vows. Want to date, or cheat, get divorced? Its absolutely cheating and wrong. I feel for his wife and kids.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?
That he was having sex outside his marriage. Obviously, he's a rock star, with all the trappings that come with that. And perhaps women who are married to rock stars have different rules about fidelity. I'm only talking about his infidelity from my crush perspective.
I’m shocked he didn’t have a vasectomy or use a condom or both! He is a rock star, he is not clueless. Cheating is bad enough but now there is a reminder of the cheating in his wife’s face for the next 18 years. How could he be so stupid?
You mean lifetime. Even adult kids are in their parent's lives..Thanksgivings, graduations, etc
The Ghrols are not inviting that kid over for Thanksgiving or going to their graduation. The kid is going to grow up as a meal ticket for mom with no father
Of course. But they will have to interact particularly if there is shared custody
Why would there be shared custody? Do you think his wife and daughters want to be around a reminder of Dad's affair?
I assume they don't. But, if he wants to be in the baby's life what do you think that looks like? Assuming they 'forgive' him and the wife does not divorce him.
Anonymous wrote:They've always had an open marriage but this time he made it with baby batter. Big mistake
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There goes my hero...
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Let's be real. He's probably done this before and the only thing he's sorry about is getting caught. He probably wanted to stay on top of the press and acknowledge it so it was less of a big deal. Truely disappointing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have mixed feelings about this. I feel bad for his wife, but I am glad he is acknowledging his new child. I don't think their marriage will survive.
It's hard to deny it if he gets hit with a subpoena for paternity testing
He is claiming paternity. Publicly. A guy who does that is not the guy who would make a woman sue him, etc. He will be in this kid's life. That's the only good in this situation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?
But for me it’s the cheating.
I don’t understand why people expect Dave Grohl to behave differently than any other rock star or celebrity. He’s subject to the same temptations as everyone else in his profession.
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I posted earlier that any one who has even a passing interest in Dave Grohl, and has ever clicked on a Reddit thread knows he steps out on his marriage and has for years. Like I said in my last post, I just assumed his wife and he had some sort of agreement with stipulations.
But this goes beyond that. As other people are saying, I’m shocked that he didn’t have a vasectomy and also that he wasn’t using protection.
we all know a lot of of Rockstars, athletes, famous actors run around on their wives and a lot of them have open marriages. But not everyone has kids outside the marriage.
I mean, even Ben Affleck has managed not to do that. The bar is pretty low.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?
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It's not great but it's not awful. I can think of many stories about celebs that are awful. This ain't one.
I guess unless you’re part of his original family. Since he’s asking for forgiveness, it doesn’t seem like all is well with his wife and children.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?
But for me it’s the cheating.
I don’t understand why people expect Dave Grohl to behave differently than any other rock star or celebrity. He’s subject to the same temptations as everyone else in his profession.
They can’t all be Kevin Bacon.
Anonymous wrote:I am absolutely crushed by this… Such a big fan not so much of his music actually but HIM. he’s just so charismatic and talented. And I was in love with Taylor Hawkins too.
I don’t think his cheating will come as a surprise to his wife. If you’ve ever gone down any Reddit rabbit holes on Dave it is well known that he steps out from time to time. I just figured they had an arrangement with some stipulations. I’m not saying I would go for that, but I just figured she wanted to keep the family together and seems from his book that he really does love her and absolutely adores being a dad.
This goes beyond that… But I would be shocked if she really thought that he was being faithful all these years according to what was out there about him.
This sucks for her though because she does seem like she’s very private. And I’m sure it’s tough on his girls.