Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:37
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Your time would be much better spent on SAT tutoring than traveling around playing games.
Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:32
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
So volleyball isn't a rich kid sport because two other sports are more elitist? That's like claiming golf isn't a rich kid sport because Dressage exists and your 45k/yr is a joke in comparison. Volleyball is the only sport we said no to for our DD. Playing club was almost 10x a year more than what we were paying for basketball
Wait a second... How much do you guys pay for basketball? Are the basketball club fees really 10 times lower than for volleyball?
Unless its rec basketball, this can't be true.
Volleyball is expensive but its like 5K/year expensive. No travel basketball team is $500/year.
Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:28
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Youth.sports have turned into a real industrial complex and business moneymaker in a way that simply wasn't the case 30 yrs ago of whenever a lot of us grew up. So there were more kids showing up to freshman tryouts and getting on JV or whatever.
Also in this area the HS are just way bigger than where I grew up. So it's just a ton of kids but the teams themselves can't be bigger. A way smaller percentage can play as a result.
I think both are too bad.
When compared with the 90s/early 00s there are more VHSL official sports (volleyball, lacrosse, etc.), more no cut varsity sports sponsored by individual schools that are not administered by the VHSL depending on the district (crew, ultimate frisbee, pickleball, rifle, rock climbing, surfing, etc.), and more club sports that are aligned with school attendance areas but not sponsored by the schools (ice hockey, etc.). Only a few niche sports have been eliminated by the VHSL since the 00s like boys gymnastics.
However, the most popular sports like basketball, baseball, volleyball, field hockey, softball, soccer, etc., are notoriously hard to make, especially among schools with a dominant middle / upper middle class demographic, where families are heavily invested in these particular sports.
Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:22
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:I don't believe this is even a NOVA issue since it is happening all over America, whether it is California, Texas, Massachusetts, and so on. You have to put your kid in competitive sports at a young age to even have a chance of playing at the high school level. There aren't many rec options once you get to the middle school level, and every school team by then has competitive tryouts. There is no way to pick up a new sport by late elementary or middle school. Kids have to determine their interests at their young age or else it is too late. I don't want to encourage my kids to get into sports because I know it is going to suck for them in the end.
It is especially frustrating when there is basically nothing you get in return for investing so much into youth sports. Most kids will never play in the NCAA, and varsity sports don't matter much for college admissions. I don't know how it is reasonable for any family to invest so much time and money and risking their health for basically nothing.
I agree with the first part of your post. It makes me sad that kids are getting pigeon holed in a sport so young and that as young as 11 is “too late” to try a new sport.
But I disagree that you get nothing in return. There is a value to sports that isn’t a college scholarship or going pro. It’s physical exercise. Experience being a part of a team, achieving goals, and handling defeat/disappointment. It creates a routine and builds endurance. It allows kids to push through things that are difficult or make the decision to walk away when the time feels right.
Of course this is assuming the parents have a healthy outlook on things and aren’t pushing their kids/putting too much pressure on them. The kid should be doing it for passion of the sport not because they feel like it will make mom or dad happy.
Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:18
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Youth.sports have turned into a real industrial complex and business moneymaker in a way that simply wasn't the case 30 yrs ago of whenever a lot of us grew up. So there were more kids showing up to freshman tryouts and getting on JV or whatever.
Also in this area the HS are just way bigger than where I grew up. So it's just a ton of kids but the teams themselves can't be bigger. A way smaller percentage can play as a result.
I think both are too bad.
Also in this area the HS are just way bigger than where I grew up. So it's just a ton of kids but the teams themselves can't be bigger. A way smaller percentage can play as a result.
I think both are too bad.
Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:15
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:WHAT’S the POINT of all this?? Unless you’re truly an exceptional athlete, it will have a minimal impact on college admissions. Meanwhile, if all the travel ball crap hurts your grades, it will be counter productive. So I don’t get it — what’s the objective here?
Living through the kids. Failed athletes themselves
PRECISELY. A bunch of Al Bundy’s and Uncle Rico’s trying to relive their past. So sad to see them impose that on their kids, who have to endure weeks of traveling like they’re McKinsey consultants at 11 and 12. For nothing. Waste of youth. Waste of time.
No wonder there’s a mental health crisis among teens!
Anonymous
08/29/2024 09:02
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
I remember our oldest not being able to join a sport in NOVA high schools. She would have to try out against the travel team kids, and why bother.
Then we moved elsewhere in Virginia and our kid decided she wanted to try joining the tennis team. She approached the coach, and asked when tryouts are. He looked confused and said: no tryouts, just show up at the first practice with your physical form, everyone is welcome.
She wasn't the best player on the team by far, but she got to play.
Our other kid (HS) now has access to opportunities they could have never dreamed of in NOVA schools, where they would have been laughed out of the room. Haha, no, go away. This is not for you, it's for special kids only.
NOVA makes it impossible for average kids in every way, whether sports or academics.
Then we moved elsewhere in Virginia and our kid decided she wanted to try joining the tennis team. She approached the coach, and asked when tryouts are. He looked confused and said: no tryouts, just show up at the first practice with your physical form, everyone is welcome.
She wasn't the best player on the team by far, but she got to play.
Our other kid (HS) now has access to opportunities they could have never dreamed of in NOVA schools, where they would have been laughed out of the room. Haha, no, go away. This is not for you, it's for special kids only.
NOVA makes it impossible for average kids in every way, whether sports or academics.
Anonymous
08/29/2024 08:57
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:WHAT’S the POINT of all this?? Unless you’re truly an exceptional athlete, it will have a minimal impact on college admissions. Meanwhile, if all the travel ball crap hurts your grades, it will be counter productive. So I don’t get it — what’s the objective here?
Living through the kids. Failed athletes themselves
Anonymous
08/29/2024 08:56
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
So volleyball isn't a rich kid sport because two other sports are more elitist? That's like claiming golf isn't a rich kid sport because Dressage exists and your 45k/yr is a joke in comparison. Volleyball is the only sport we said no to for our DD. Playing club was almost 10x a year more than what we were paying for basketball
Wait a second... How much do you guys pay for basketball? Are the basketball club fees really 10 times lower than for volleyball?
8th grade, for the whole year, team dues are around 1k for the top team on a large club that plays three seasons. The club has training and clinics throughout the year that are free or nominally priced. All but one tournament is driving distance. Our club doesn't really start flying to many tournaments until high school and even then, it's just during recruiting windows and only the top team
Anonymous
08/29/2024 08:51
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
WHAT’S the POINT of all this?? Unless you’re truly an exceptional athlete, it will have a minimal impact on college admissions. Meanwhile, if all the travel ball crap hurts your grades, it will be counter productive. So I don’t get it — what’s the objective here?
Anonymous
08/29/2024 08:48
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
So volleyball isn't a rich kid sport because two other sports are more elitist? That's like claiming golf isn't a rich kid sport because Dressage exists and your 45k/yr is a joke in comparison. Volleyball is the only sport we said no to for our DD. Playing club was almost 10x a year more than what we were paying for basketball
Wait a second... How much do you guys pay for basketball? Are the basketball club fees really 10 times lower than for volleyball?
Anonymous
08/29/2024 08:27
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
So volleyball isn't a rich kid sport because two other sports are more elitist? That's like claiming golf isn't a rich kid sport because Dressage exists and your 45k/yr is a joke in comparison. Volleyball is the only sport we said no to for our DD. Playing club was almost 10x a year more than what we were paying for basketball
Anonymous
08/29/2024 08:23
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
I thought golf has the reputation of being a leisurely activity that real athletes engage in during the off season?
Rich people like to pretend it’s a sport.
Do you suggest that athletes who don't engage in golf during the off season are not real athletes?
Anonymous
08/29/2024 05:44
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
I thought golf has the reputation of being a leisurely activity that real athletes engage in during the off season?
Rich people like to pretend it’s a sport.
This
Anonymous
08/29/2024 03:10
Subject: Why are youth and high school sports so competitive to get into now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Volleyball is very much a sport for kids from families with money. To play high level volleyball (and make the varsity team at a HS with a decent team) players have to play club volleyball, which is a significant investment of time and money. DC high schools are a good example of how this plays out. On the public side, Jackson-Reed is the largest DC HS by far and being in upper NW tends to have kids from families with more resources than other parts of the city. Nearly every player on their varsity team plays volleyball outside of school. The girls volleyball team has won the DCIAA (regular DCPS public school conference) all except one year as far back as anyone can remember. The only other DCPS HS with even a half decent team is School Without Walls which while smaller, tends to also have kids from families with more resources and therefore more club volleyball players. Most of the other other DCPS high schools have no club volleyball players and are not very good. JR wins most DCIAA matches by a huge margin. The charter schools aren't much better. St Johns had historically been the best private school volleyball in DC but GDS has take over that spot for the last few years. Both St Johns and GDS recruit players for volleyball (within whatever rules exist) and virtually every player on those teams plays club volleyball.
+1. We are not poor, but not wealthy either. We noticed our bank account taking a hit as soon as our daughter started club volleyball. It is clear though that she would likely not keep a position on a our competitive HS volleyball team with rec skills only.
The money you spend on volleyball is pittance when you compare it to golf or tennis. One of my kids is playing golf at a D1 school this year, and we spent around 45K/yr on golf travel, lessons, tournaments, etc... This is on top of the country club that we're a member. We paid 92K initiation one-time fee and another 15K/year annual fee.
Well, golf has the reputation of being a sport for rich people. 100k for membership in a country club? No, thank you - that's just ridiculous.
I thought golf has the reputation of being a leisurely activity that real athletes engage in during the off season?
Rich people like to pretend it’s a sport.