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Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t have a college degree FYI. She watches Netflix and barely does her work. Is this the new trend? How do you people get these high paying administrative gigs?

I'm an EA making six figures without a bachelor's who watches a lot of Netflix. I do all my work that comes in, in a timely fashion. I pause Netflix or whatever I'm watching, and switch to music when doing work. But a lot of time I'm just monitoring my Inbox.

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Anonymous wrote:We really have to be careful who we call our friends. OP is a prime example. OP, from the very first post, and every single person you have responded to after that, has consisted of shit-talking about your "friend." I don't care if my friend made 3x as much as me; if she asked me to purchase something, I would do it, no questions asked. Sounds like you have been helping this "friend" for many years, but there's a lot of bitterness behind it. I know that my friend would only ask for something if she was in a position of really needing my help. I would never feel anger or regret about it. We have a reciprocal relationship and have both helped each other in times of need. And if you really think she's asking as a way to take advantage of you, well, have you considered she doesn't think of you as a friend? You are definitely no friend of hers. You sound jealous, bitter, and obsessed. When my friend has successes, I am genuinely happy for her, and when she has failures, I hurt for her.

Definition of "snake in the grass" = OP.

I helped her get the job in the first place. I wrote her cover letter and let her borrow my purse (not returned) for the interview. I am not envious. You don’t know the half of it. I am curious and shocked by the turn of events and other things that happened where she even considered a GoFundMe page and family, her ex , and I intervened and talked her down from it only to find out she wasn’t broke at all. As I said, there’s other stuff that went on that I don’t want to describe in detail as that’s not my general concern. I suspect she’s a master manipulator who is using her boss the same way she’s used all of us. She also told my bf I may have a thing with her ex all because her ex messaged me with concern about her erratic behavior. Again, she has a history of doing these things and shutting people out when cornered and doesn’t want to get tested for bipolar disorder which is what her parents want.

This is about entry level admin gigs where the starting pay is 100k+ but since you wanted more info, there you go

Well you helped her get the job, you know exactly how to get one. Go get your own.

I guess I’ll have to write cover letters sucking up to each corporation and during calls, tell them my future plans are to stay with them and help them grow. I didn’t know going to grad school was a net minus for hiring managers.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We really have to be careful who we call our friends. OP is a prime example. OP, from the very first post, and every single person you have responded to after that, has consisted of shit-talking about your "friend." I don't care if my friend made 3x as much as me; if she asked me to purchase something, I would do it, no questions asked. Sounds like you have been helping this "friend" for many years, but there's a lot of bitterness behind it. I know that my friend would only ask for something if she was in a position of really needing my help. I would never feel anger or regret about it. We have a reciprocal relationship and have both helped each other in times of need. And if you really think she's asking as a way to take advantage of you, well, have you considered she doesn't think of you as a friend? You are definitely no friend of hers. You sound jealous, bitter, and obsessed. When my friend has successes, I am genuinely happy for her, and when she has failures, I hurt for her.

Definition of "snake in the grass" = OP.

I helped her get the job in the first place. I wrote her cover letter and let her borrow my purse (not returned) for the interview. I am not envious. You don’t know the half of it. I am curious and shocked by the turn of events and other things that happened where she even considered a GoFundMe page and family, her ex , and I intervened and talked her down from it only to find out she wasn’t broke at all. As I said, there’s other stuff that went on that I don’t want to describe in detail as that’s not my general concern. I suspect she’s a master manipulator who is using her boss the same way she’s used all of us. She also told my bf I may have a thing with her ex all because her ex messaged me with concern about her erratic behavior. Again, she has a history of doing these things and shutting people out when cornered and doesn’t want to get tested for bipolar disorder which is what her parents want.

This is about entry level admin gigs where the starting pay is 100k+ but since you wanted more info, there you go

Well you helped her get the job, you know exactly how to get one. Go get your own.

I guess I’ll have to write cover letters sucking up to each corporation and during calls, tell them my future plans are to stay with them and help them grow. I didn’t know going to grad school was a net minus for hiring managers.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why on earth do you want to stay friends with her? I don't think you realize how badly you come across too.

Our families are neighbors so unfortunately I can’t avoid her even if I wanted to. She’s slandered my name to my parents as well and told them I am a user of drugs. I am not.

That pissed me off more than the cheating accusation. It closed the door to any reconciliation in my eyes.

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Anonymous wrote:Why on earth do you want to stay friends with her? I don't think you realize how badly you come across too.

Our families are neighbors so unfortunately I can’t avoid her even if I wanted to. She’s slandered my name to my parents as well and told them I am a user of drugs. I am not.

That pissed me off more than the cheating accusation. It closed the door to any reconciliation in my eyes.

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Anonymous wrote:100k ain't shit. The janitor and trash man make that get out of the 70s

I have an advanced degree and make 80k

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We really have to be careful who we call our friends. OP is a prime example. OP, from the very first post, and every single person you have responded to after that, has consisted of shit-talking about your "friend." I don't care if my friend made 3x as much as me; if she asked me to purchase something, I would do it, no questions asked. Sounds like you have been helping this "friend" for many years, but there's a lot of bitterness behind it. I know that my friend would only ask for something if she was in a position of really needing my help. I would never feel anger or regret about it. We have a reciprocal relationship and have both helped each other in times of need. And if you really think she's asking as a way to take advantage of you, well, have you considered she doesn't think of you as a friend? You are definitely no friend of hers. You sound jealous, bitter, and obsessed. When my friend has successes, I am genuinely happy for her, and when she has failures, I hurt for her.

Definition of "snake in the grass" = OP.

I helped her get the job in the first place. I wrote her cover letter and let her borrow my purse (not returned) for the interview. I am not envious. You don’t know the half of it. I am curious and shocked by the turn of events and other things that happened where she even considered a GoFundMe page and family, her ex , and I intervened and talked her down from it only to find out she wasn’t broke at all. As I said, there’s other stuff that went on that I don’t want to describe in detail as that’s not my general concern. I suspect she’s a master manipulator who is using her boss the same way she’s used all of us. She also told my bf I may have a thing with her ex all because her ex messaged me with concern about her erratic behavior. Again, she has a history of doing these things and shutting people out when cornered and doesn’t want to get tested for bipolar disorder which is what her parents want.

This is about entry level admin gigs where the starting pay is 100k+ but since you wanted more info, there you go

Well you helped her get the job, you know exactly how to get one. Go get your own.

I guess I’ll have to write cover letters sucking up to each corporation and during calls, tell them my future plans are to stay with them and help them grow. I didn’t know going to grad school was a net minus for hiring managers.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We really have to be careful who we call our friends. OP is a prime example. OP, from the very first post, and every single person you have responded to after that, has consisted of shit-talking about your "friend." I don't care if my friend made 3x as much as me; if she asked me to purchase something, I would do it, no questions asked. Sounds like you have been helping this "friend" for many years, but there's a lot of bitterness behind it. I know that my friend would only ask for something if she was in a position of really needing my help. I would never feel anger or regret about it. We have a reciprocal relationship and have both helped each other in times of need. And if you really think she's asking as a way to take advantage of you, well, have you considered she doesn't think of you as a friend? You are definitely no friend of hers. You sound jealous, bitter, and obsessed. When my friend has successes, I am genuinely happy for her, and when she has failures, I hurt for her.

Definition of "snake in the grass" = OP.

I helped her get the job in the first place. I wrote her cover letter and let her borrow my purse (not returned) for the interview. I am not envious. You don’t know the half of it. I am curious and shocked by the turn of events and other things that happened where she even considered a GoFundMe page and family, her ex , and I intervened and talked her down from it only to find out she wasn’t broke at all. As I said, there’s other stuff that went on that I don’t want to describe in detail as that’s not my general concern. I suspect she’s a master manipulator who is using her boss the same way she’s used all of us. She also told my bf I may have a thing with her ex all because her ex messaged me with concern about her erratic behavior. Again, she has a history of doing these things and shutting people out when cornered and doesn’t want to get tested for bipolar disorder which is what her parents want.

This is about entry level admin gigs where the starting pay is 100k+ but since you wanted more info, there you go

Well you helped her get the job, you know exactly how to get one. Go get your own.

Anonymous wrote:Why on earth do you want to stay friends with her? I don't think you realize how badly you come across too.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We really have to be careful who we call our friends. OP is a prime example. OP, from the very first post, and every single person you have responded to after that, has consisted of shit-talking about your "friend." I don't care if my friend made 3x as much as me; if she asked me to purchase something, I would do it, no questions asked. Sounds like you have been helping this "friend" for many years, but there's a lot of bitterness behind it. I know that my friend would only ask for something if she was in a position of really needing my help. I would never feel anger or regret about it. We have a reciprocal relationship and have both helped each other in times of need. And if you really think she's asking as a way to take advantage of you, well, have you considered she doesn't think of you as a friend? You are definitely no friend of hers. You sound jealous, bitter, and obsessed. When my friend has successes, I am genuinely happy for her, and when she has failures, I hurt for her.

Definition of "snake in the grass" = OP.

I helped her get the job in the first place. I wrote her cover letter and let her borrow my purse (not returned) for the interview. I am not envious. You don’t know the half of it. I am curious and shocked by the turn of events and other things that happened where she even considered a GoFundMe page and family, her ex , and I intervened and talked her down from it only to find out she wasn’t broke at all. As I said, there’s other stuff that went on that I don’t want to describe in detail as that’s not my general concern. I suspect she’s a master manipulator who is using her boss the same way she’s used all of us. She also told my bf I may have a thing with her ex all because her ex messaged me with concern about her erratic behavior. Again, she has a history of doing these things and shutting people out when cornered and doesn’t want to get tested for bipolar disorder which is what her parents want.

This is about entry level admin gigs where the starting pay is 100k+ but since you wanted more info, there you go

Anonymous wrote:We really have to be careful who we call our friends. OP is a prime example. OP, from the very first post, and every single person you have responded to after that, has consisted of shit-talking about your "friend." I don't care if my friend made 3x as much as me; if she asked me to purchase something, I would do it, no questions asked. Sounds like you have been helping this "friend" for many years, but there's a lot of bitterness behind it. I know that my friend would only ask for something if she was in a position of really needing my help. I would never feel anger or regret about it. We have a reciprocal relationship and have both helped each other in times of need. And if you really think she's asking as a way to take advantage of you, well, have you considered she doesn't think of you as a friend? You are definitely no friend of hers. You sound jealous, bitter, and obsessed. When my friend has successes, I am genuinely happy for her, and when she has failures, I hurt for her.

Definition of "snake in the grass" = OP.