Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 13:06     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

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Anonymous wrote:Living in a condo or apartment comes often with the caveat of living in a run down neighborhood with a lot of crime.
I lived the first 10 years of my life in one. On the plus side there were always kids outside, but some were mean bullies and there were fights as well. I am happy my parents moved because suburbia was a completely different environment and I thrived.
I drove past that old neighborhood, it now has a very different demographic of residents, the crime rate statistics is high. I do not think that you could grow up in there and be oblivious to the influence of gangs, drugs.


Are you a middle school student or something? Because this comment is bizarre. There are condos in all types of neighborhoods. A condo doesn’t mean it’s a high crime area. There are also condos in the suburbs.

OP asked about the average condo, not million dollar or luxury apartments.
The average condo has its issues regardless of the type of neighborhood. The average condo is its own neighborhood in a way too. You shall see once you live in one for a few years
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 10:57     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:Living in a condo or apartment comes often with the caveat of living in a run down neighborhood with a lot of crime.
I lived the first 10 years of my life in one. On the plus side there were always kids outside, but some were mean bullies and there were fights as well. I am happy my parents moved because suburbia was a completely different environment and I thrived.
I drove past that old neighborhood, it now has a very different demographic of residents, the crime rate statistics is high. I do not think that you could grow up in there and be oblivious to the influence of gangs, drugs.


Are you a middle school student or something? Because this comment is bizarre. There are condos in all types of neighborhoods. A condo doesn’t mean it’s a high crime area. There are also condos in the suburbs.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 03:25     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Living in a condo or apartment comes often with the caveat of living in a run down neighborhood with a lot of crime.
I lived the first 10 years of my life in one. On the plus side there were always kids outside, but some were mean bullies and there were fights as well. I am happy my parents moved because suburbia was a completely different environment and I thrived.
I drove past that old neighborhood, it now has a very different demographic of residents, the crime rate statistics is high. I do not think that you could grow up in there and be oblivious to the influence of gangs, drugs.

Unfortunately when you live so close to so many units, you just cannot control who your neighbors are. You do get to hear every incident of domestic violence, family fights. Some people drink out in the open and walk around drunk.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2026 22:39     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

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Anonymous wrote:My tenant in my condo is a failure for them. I rented to them when newly married in 2018. I like them a lot.

In early 2020 a unit came up in estate sale that was pre being listed. I am on board and knew. Even though good tenants I told them about it as a good opportunity.

They were a bit nasty. I got we are buying s house in nearby fancy area we have no plans to stay in a condo.

It is 2024 they just renewed lease. Housing shot up crazy last four years and rates up.

So owners of condos not a failure. People stuck in condo rentals with kids are sadly in worse shape


You have absolutely no idea why they didn't buy. I understand you wanted the best for them, but the problem with giving advice is that you never know what's going on and might come off as nosy.


I actually do. I am on Board and one Board members next door neighbor. There is a rich neighborhood nearby like Bethesda. SFHs back then were like 1.1 million. The wife plan was to stay in condo and Jump to that neighborhood. Instead of buying the estate sale condo in January 2020 she got laid off from work for a few months and he had pay cut a few months. I let them pay 1/2 rent two months. They paid me back over 12 months interest free. Housing exploded in price during Covid and they missed opportunity partial as t they were saving up based on 2019 prices. Then their jobs steadied and interest rates shot up, they just said renewing so now they are there till at least 2027.

My condo also took off. My unit is up around $180k since Jan 2020.

There is no way they would know Covid was coming, a housing bubble followed by interest rate hike.

By comparison my unit is $475 common charges and $400 a month taxes. So $875 a month. I have now mortgage. They pay now in renewal $2,450. Full market like $2,850. I give them break.

But if I don’t renew now what, the rental market is horrible now.

Anonymous
Post 05/12/2026 22:26     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

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Anonymous wrote:You get constant comments? From who? I can't imagine ever having an opinion on this for a family member or friend.


You're in serious denial if you think friends, family, associates and colleagues don't judge you based on where you live and type of house. Especially since they don't even need to ask you to suss it out, takes about five seconds on Google. If you have kids, you don't think other parents want to know where you live and what sort of stature you have? You're dreaming.


I have never once Googled where a co-worker or my kids’ friends live. I’ll find out if and when they invite me there, or I take my kid there. You sound like a creep.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2026 22:21     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

I am on a condo board as President.

I represent whole building, people who want low common charges, people who want low reserves, people who want higher common charges and bigger reserves, investors who rent units, owners who live in units, people who want to do capital improvements, people who don’t. Etc I make most people happy and thats the best I can do
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2026 20:36     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

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Anonymous wrote:600K is cheap!


It's cheap by DCUM standards where everyone makes 200k and aspires to live in a million dollar home. The average household wouldn't get approved for a mortgage that high unless they had a big down payment, which is unlike for a household that is average.


If you make 200K, and you're trying to get a house that costs more than 600K, you're going to feel really cash strapped every month.

That said, there's nothing wrong with aspiring to live in a million dollar home. It's not like your dreams die once you get a career.


Which proves my point. The average family isn't making 200k. I don't see anything wrong with expensive homes, I just think it's ridiculous to say that 600K is cheap.


2026 is calling, 600k was cheap. It's 900k now.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2024 22:33     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:In NYC there a a handful of small coop buildings down in SOHO where they are on the super expensive blocks for Boutique shopping with some of the highest rent per square feet around. The coop building owns the ground floor and collects the rent.

One building was feature in the NY Times a few years back. It has "negative monthly maintenance" Meaning the commercial rent is higher than cost to run building and owners get a check paid to them each month. That is crazy.
You are mentioning one rare exception to the rule. Most condos in NYC have high fees that are comparable to rent in many parts of the US.

I dont think any single family home could beat that deal.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2024 22:29     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Land appreciates. Buildings depreciate. It's that simple. That's why condos tend to produce less wealth in the long run. That doesn't mean condos in Manhattan aren't valuable in Manhattan. But condos in northern Virginia are garbage.


Fortunately condo owners own an undivided percentage interest in the underlying land.


The land value is usually such a small percentage of the overall value of the property that it has a minimal impact on appreciation. Unless a super majority of the HOA agrees to sell the land value is effectively $0.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2024 22:00     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

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Anonymous wrote:No, plenty of our well off Alexandria friends are downsizing to condos in the DC area as we become empty nesters and near retirement. Condos are great for those starting out and those who don’t want the hassles of home ownership at retirement.


Yes, flushing $3k 4k 5k 6k down the drain in rent every month until you croak is so wise. Avoiding all those "hassles" and making corporate landlords filthy rich.


What rent? You buy a condo just like you buy a house. The monthly fee is for utilities, pool, cleaners, landscaping, emergency fund, etc


The fastest growing sector of "condos" are build-to-RENT by corporate landlord developers. It's a massive racket and frankly all of those parasites should be denied zoning.


I have owned two condos and one was in a building that didn’t permit tenants. Owner occupied only. The other is over 90% owner occupied.

You can ask the condo board about their policies with renters.


Same here. Our board is extremely strict about rentals, and even in a large high rise building we've got a really tight community of awesome neighbors. I grew up in a big house on a really big estate and there's no way I wanted to have all of that management/upkeep for myself. I could have a house if I wanted to, but prefer the ease and comfort of an extremely low-maintenance and low-stress home. Don't let others' snobbery trick you into believing that they are actually somehow better than you. You only get one life - live it for yourself, not to impress the jerks.


Look how status obsessed you and PP reveal yourself to be, making it known you live in a "good" upper rung condo free of rental proles. But then you condo dwellers get triggered when folks who can afford a superior SFH look down on you. Pretty funny.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 15:01     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Land appreciates. Buildings depreciate. It's that simple. That's why condos tend to produce less wealth in the long run. That doesn't mean condos in Manhattan aren't valuable in Manhattan. But condos in northern Virginia are garbage.


Fortunately condo owners own an undivided percentage interest in the underlying land.


Yes, the tiny, tiny bit of land that underlies the building, divided among many owners.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 14:58     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You get constant comments? From who? I can't imagine ever having an opinion on this for a family member or friend.


You're in serious denial if you think friends, family, associates and colleagues don't judge you based on where you live and type of house. Especially since they don't even need to ask you to suss it out, takes about five seconds on Google. If you have kids, you don't think other parents want to know where you live and what sort of stature you have? You're dreaming.

I agree
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2024 23:29     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:Land appreciates. Buildings depreciate. It's that simple. That's why condos tend to produce less wealth in the long run. That doesn't mean condos in Manhattan aren't valuable in Manhattan. But condos in northern Virginia are garbage.


Can you imagine living in a condo in a hellhole like London. Total failure at life.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2024 23:12     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

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Anonymous wrote:No, plenty of our well off Alexandria friends are downsizing to condos in the DC area as we become empty nesters and near retirement. Condos are great for those starting out and those who don’t want the hassles of home ownership at retirement.


Yes, flushing $3k 4k 5k 6k down the drain in rent every month until you croak is so wise. Avoiding all those "hassles" and making corporate landlords filthy rich.


What rent? You buy a condo just like you buy a house. The monthly fee is for utilities, pool, cleaners, landscaping, emergency fund, etc


The fastest growing sector of "condos" are build-to-RENT by corporate landlord developers. It's a massive racket and frankly all of those parasites should be denied zoning.


I have owned two condos and one was in a building that didn’t permit tenants. Owner occupied only. The other is over 90% owner occupied.

You can ask the condo board about their policies with renters.


Same here. Our board is extremely strict about rentals, and even in a large high rise building we've got a really tight community of awesome neighbors. I grew up in a big house on a really big estate and there's no way I wanted to have all of that management/upkeep for myself. I could have a house if I wanted to, but prefer the ease and comfort of an extremely low-maintenance and low-stress home. Don't let others' snobbery trick you into believing that they are actually somehow better than you. You only get one life - live it for yourself, not to impress the jerks.
Anonymous
Post 06/04/2024 20:47     Subject: Is living in a condo considered a failure?

Anonymous wrote:Land appreciates. Buildings depreciate. It's that simple. That's why condos tend to produce less wealth in the long run. That doesn't mean condos in Manhattan aren't valuable in Manhattan. But condos in northern Virginia are garbage.


Fortunately condo owners own an undivided percentage interest in the underlying land.