Anonymous wrote:I would block OP and permanently, job inteview or not.

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Anonymous wrote:I was aware that my husband had an internal job interview but forgot it was today. Certainly didn't know the time. we were texting earlier since our tax returns kept getting rejected. there was an issue with the pin# and i was trying to figure it out. he sent me his pin# but it wasn't working. Then a little later, my daughter got some news and she was texting both of us. I was responding - husband wasn't. It did not occur to me that he would be in his interview. A few minutes later, I get a call from a doctor's office that wanted me to electronically sign some documents. I couldn't sign from my laptop for some reason, so I had the office email the docs to my husband to sign. That is when he texted me back how furious he was at me for texting him during his interview and he wasn't able to turn it off. Then he was mad at all the documents he needed to sign. They needed to be signed at that moment as I was on the phone with the doctors office and it was to follow their security protocols.
I told him to put his anger aside and sign and he refused to believe that I was unable to do it from my laptop.
I am also angry because the reason our taxes weren't going thru is because he mistyped one of the numbers in his pin. So as I kept trying to efile, it kept getting rejected and I was trying to figure out. I finally figured out his typo. I am at work too and not too happy that my morning has been spent with tax returns and the doctors office.
I know if the situation was reversed, he would blame me for not turning off my phone before entering the interview. And that is exactly what I want to tell him. But he likes to blame others and will not see it as being his fault. So how do I move forward with this. I feel bad for him and it sucks that this is the moment when my DD texted us her news and there was a lot of back and forth on the text. And then the 15 minutes it took to sign all the paperwork....
when I told him there were 2 more form to sign, he texted me FU - I am at work.

He told you “FU….??!”
Wow, what a winner. 🥸

He should have left his phone in the car during his job interview.
Or at the very least, put it to silence.

If this job offer meant anything to him, that would have been the obvious thing for him to do. Duh!

Anonymous wrote:I was aware that my husband had an internal job interview but forgot it was today. Certainly didn't know the time. we were texting earlier since our tax returns kept getting rejected. there was an issue with the pin# and i was trying to figure it out. he sent me his pin# but it wasn't working. Then a little later, my daughter got some news and she was texting both of us. I was responding - husband wasn't. It did not occur to me that he would be in his interview. A few minutes later, I get a call from a doctor's office that wanted me to electronically sign some documents. I couldn't sign from my laptop for some reason, so I had the office email the docs to my husband to sign. That is when he texted me back how furious he was at me for texting him during his interview and he wasn't able to turn it off. Then he was mad at all the documents he needed to sign. They needed to be signed at that moment as I was on the phone with the doctors office and it was to follow their security protocols.
I told him to put his anger aside and sign and he refused to believe that I was unable to do it from my laptop.
I am also angry because the reason our taxes weren't going thru is because he mistyped one of the numbers in his pin. So as I kept trying to efile, it kept getting rejected and I was trying to figure out. I finally figured out his typo. I am at work too and not too happy that my morning has been spent with tax returns and the doctors office.
I know if the situation was reversed, he would blame me for not turning off my phone before entering the interview. And that is exactly what I want to tell him. But he likes to blame others and will not see it as being his fault. So how do I move forward with this. I feel bad for him and it sucks that this is the moment when my DD texted us her news and there was a lot of back and forth on the text. And then the 15 minutes it took to sign all the paperwork....
when I told him there were 2 more form to sign, he texted me FU - I am at work.

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like the interview did not go well and he is taking it out on you.

DP and hadn't thought of this angle. Good catch, PP.

OP, any chance your DH has problems at work he doesn't tell you about? Maybe he's fearful that his current job will be axed or reduced, so he was wound up about this interview even more? You did say that he is not communicative and you didn't even know about the interview at first. I'd wonder if he isn't telling you things you really ought to know, about his job prospects.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you get through your day? People like you make me insane.

+1

This OP stopped me cold. Just a stunning combination of hostility, resentment, triviality, and sheer incompetence.

I don’t know if her DH is any better, but sounds like he’d at least get to the point without a 2000-word vignette on the minutiae of a toxic relationship.

Anonymous wrote:I was aware that my husband had an internal job interview but forgot it was today. Certainly didn't know the time. we were texting earlier since our tax returns kept getting rejected. there was an issue with the pin# and i was trying to figure it out. he sent me his pin# but it wasn't working. Then a little later, my daughter got some news and she was texting both of us. I was responding - husband wasn't. It did not occur to me that he would be in his interview. A few minutes later, I get a call from a doctor's office that wanted me to electronically sign some documents. I couldn't sign from my laptop for some reason, so I had the office email the docs to my husband to sign. That is when he texted me back how furious he was at me for texting him during his interview and he wasn't able to turn it off. Then he was mad at all the documents he needed to sign. They needed to be signed at that moment as I was on the phone with the doctors office and it was to follow their security protocols.
I told him to put his anger aside and sign and he refused to believe that I was unable to do it from my laptop.
I am also angry because the reason our taxes weren't going thru is because he mistyped one of the numbers in his pin. So as I kept trying to efile, it kept getting rejected and I was trying to figure out. I finally figured out his typo. I am at work too and not too happy that my morning has been spent with tax returns and the doctors office.
I know if the situation was reversed, he would blame me for not turning off my phone before entering the interview. And that is exactly what I want to tell him. But he likes to blame others and will not see it as being his fault. So how do I move forward with this. I feel bad for him and it sucks that this is the moment when my DD texted us her news and there was a lot of back and forth on the text. And then the 15 minutes it took to sign all the paperwork....
when I told him there were 2 more form to sign, he texted me FU - I am at work.

Anonymous wrote:How do you get through your day? People like you make me insane.

Anonymous wrote:I was aware that my husband had an internal job interview but forgot it was today. Certainly didn't know the time. we were texting earlier since our tax returns kept getting rejected. there was an issue with the pin# and i was trying to figure it out. he sent me his pin# but it wasn't working. Then a little later, my daughter got some news and she was texting both of us. I was responding - husband wasn't. It did not occur to me that he would be in his interview. A few minutes later, I get a call from a doctor's office that wanted me to electronically sign some documents. I couldn't sign from my laptop for some reason, so I had the office email the docs to my husband to sign. That is when he texted me back how furious he was at me for texting him during his interview and he wasn't able to turn it off. Then he was mad at all the documents he needed to sign. They needed to be signed at that moment as I was on the phone with the doctors office and it was to follow their security protocols.
I told him to put his anger aside and sign and he refused to believe that I was unable to do it from my laptop.
I am also angry because the reason our taxes weren't going thru is because he mistyped one of the numbers in his pin. So as I kept trying to efile, it kept getting rejected and I was trying to figure out. I finally figured out his typo. I am at work too and not too happy that my morning has been spent with tax returns and the doctors office.
I know if the situation was reversed, he would blame me for not turning off my phone before entering the interview. And that is exactly what I want to tell him. But he likes to blame others and will not see it as being his fault. So how do I move forward with this. I feel bad for him and it sucks that this is the moment when my DD texted us her news and there was a lot of back and forth on the text. And then the 15 minutes it took to sign all the paperwork....
when I told him there were 2 more form to sign, he texted me FU - I am at work.