Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:50
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
What are you saying no to? You’re stupid and bitter.
For starters, I’m saying no to your yellow teeth, limp d!ck and receding hairline.
My dentist, gynecologist, and hairdresser would all disagree. 😘
Right, and I’m sure you drive to them in your Porsche with your bulging biceps and six pack straining against your crisp, tailored shirt.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:50
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
No, honey. You stay mad that you are dull and dim witted.
You don’t say no to any apple cart, you are a slave to it. Which is why you feel so needy and desperate to tell us about your appearance. You got nothing else and I don’t believe you are good looking at all. No good looking person tells others that.
Np. This is just pathetic. Way to confirm what that lady is saying about how useless and also unpleasant men are.
You’re pathetic. I’m a woman and can see right through you bitter female dogs.
Is that what your husband told you on his way out this morning? You sound very familiar with misogynistic insults. My condolences.
No, he didn’t because I’m not a beitch like you.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:50
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
In my MIL's case, she would never (ever) give up FIL's social security and other multiple benefits that FIL obtained through his work (MIL worked only for a short time, so has very few benefits on her own). If MIL remarried (she would not), MIL would lose all of FIL's benefits, and MIL would not have the benefits that she has through FIL otherwise. Not getting remarried is a no brainer for MIL. Besides, she can date all she wants, with no financial or other repercussions.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:50
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
What are you saying no to? You’re stupid and bitter.
For starters, I’m saying no to your yellow teeth, limp d!ck and receding hairline.
NP. When are you going to come out of the closet?
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:49
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
No, honey. You stay mad that you are dull and dim witted.
You don’t say no to any apple cart, you are a slave to it. Which is why you feel so needy and desperate to tell us about your appearance. You got nothing else and I don’t believe you are good looking at all. No good looking person tells others that.
Np. This is just pathetic. Way to confirm what that lady is saying about how useless and also unpleasant men are.
You’re pathetic. I’m a woman and can see right through you bitter female dogs.
Is that what your husband told you on his way out this morning? You sound very familiar with misogynistic insults. My condolences.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:48
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
What are you saying no to? You’re stupid and bitter.
For starters, I’m saying no to your yellow teeth, limp d!ck and receding hairline.
My dentist, gynecologist, and hairdresser would all disagree. 😘
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:47
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Given the divorce rates for 2nd and 3rd and subsequent marriages, what is the point really?
If you find someone you want to be with, cohabitate and leave them something in your will if you really want to share your wealth.
Someone posted about soul mates a little ways back and I winced. Does anyone in middle age really believe in soul mates anymore? Surely even happily married middle aged people are more realistic than that.
If you find someone you want to be with, cohabitate and leave them something in your will if you really want to share your wealth.
Someone posted about soul mates a little ways back and I winced. Does anyone in middle age really believe in soul mates anymore? Surely even happily married middle aged people are more realistic than that.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:46
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
No, honey. You stay mad that you are dull and dim witted.
You don’t say no to any apple cart, you are a slave to it. Which is why you feel so needy and desperate to tell us about your appearance. You got nothing else and I don’t believe you are good looking at all. No good looking person tells others that.
Np. This is just pathetic. Way to confirm what that lady is saying about how useless and also unpleasant men are.
You’re pathetic. I’m a woman and can see right through you bitter female dogs.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:46
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
What are you saying no to? You’re stupid and bitter.
For starters, I’m saying no to your yellow teeth, limp d!ck and receding hairline.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:45
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
Go wash the dishes.
Talking like that is how you ended up divorced and addicted to Only Fans in your roach-infested one bedroom eating ketchup and dorito sandwiches off plastic plates. When will you learn?
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:41
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
No, honey. You stay mad that you are dull and dim witted.
You don’t say no to any apple cart, you are a slave to it. Which is why you feel so needy and desperate to tell us about your appearance. You got nothing else and I don’t believe you are good looking at all. No good looking person tells others that.
Spoken like someone’s ugly, unwanted ex-husband or a wife stuck in a hateful marriage. Cry yourself to sleep, my dear.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:41
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
No, honey. You stay mad that you are dull and dim witted.
You don’t say no to any apple cart, you are a slave to it. Which is why you feel so needy and desperate to tell us about your appearance. You got nothing else and I don’t believe you are good looking at all. No good looking person tells others that.
Np. This is just pathetic. Way to confirm what that lady is saying about how useless and also unpleasant men are.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:39
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:
I'm 44 with about a 2.5 mil net worth and won't marry again because I don't want anyone to have an avenue to fight my kids for money. You can put all the paperwork you want into place, but it doesn't stop someone from bringing a lawsuit anyway. I want my kids to spend my money on fun and their own families, not on lawyers fighting some new husband I married.
As someone with way more assets and who went through a bitter divorce - you are overestimating the legal risks. Took me $50k to divorce with joint businesses worth over $20mm.
If there is a prenup and trusts for the kids the legal expenses won’t be anywhere near what you presume. Plus, I wouldn’t mind my spouse getting some assets as well, if it’s a long marriage.
I don’t want to die single just because I’m scared of legal fees. For someone in their 40s the second marriage could still be a good run together and well worth with the right partner
I'm this poster you replied to. I can have a good run with someone without legally binding myself to them. I may or may not die single, but I don't mind one way or the other. If someone is there, cool. If not, also fine. I enjoy my own company regardless, and I really don't like having to constantly consider someone else ALL the time. Sometimes is fine. What exactly is the benefit of getting remarried once you already have your kids and your money in place? I like the idea of if I decide I no longer want to be with a person, I just pick up my toothbrush and leave. I don't want to have to call my lawyer.
The legal process may or may not be expensive for my kids to fight for their inheritance, but why even introduce that possibility in? Is having a husband really worth it? What makes a husband so important vs just having a long term partner you're committed to?
I had a prenup in place with my divorce, thankfully. So, the whole thing only cost me $1750. We're amicable and work well together as co parents. I would never let someone else live in my home while my kids live here, and they are here for at least another six years. I wouldn't want to disrupt their peace or make their home feel foreign or uncomfortable. I enjoy dating and keeping that part of my life separate from the life I have with my kids, although sometimes a BF is around long enough to have met my kids and hang out with us at times.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:36
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
Go wash the dishes.
Anonymous
03/24/2024 18:36
Subject: Can someone explain to me why so many on here would never remarry?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like I see so many posts from people who are considering divorce or divorced and say they have no expectations of remarriage and neither should anyone else considering divorce. Is that because their experience was so terrible that they are skeptical a new experience will be different? Or because marriage for them was always just about kids and pointless if kids aren't involved? Or because they don't want to be on the hook for taking care of a new older person? Or because they dont think anyone worthwhile will want to marry a 40/50/60/70 something man/ woman etc? or other.
I’m a 40 year old woman who will never let any man get a legal hold on me again. I’m slim, good looking, physically active, and financially secure due to my own hard work. Now that I’m divorcing my husband, I finally have peace of mind. The only thing a man can offer me is good sex and drama-free companionship. Sadly, most men can’t meet either of those two extremely basic requirements and the ones who can meet at least one typically can’t meet both. It’s truly pathetic.
I’ve also become very skeptical of men’s motives for getting married. Listen carefully even to how the good men talk about marriage. It’s all about what they want to extract, what they want to get for themselves. They have a very detailed list of what they’re looking for in a woman, but ask them what they’re offering and the responses get very vague and confused, as if they haven’t thought about it…which they haven’t.
Men give no thought to what they need to give and have no desire to give anything more than what they feel they absolutely must. The joy of giving is an oxymoron to them. It makes men a headache to women like me. The only women I know who want to remarry are those who need the financial help.
No, you’re just superficial with your telling us that you’re thin, physically active, good looking, blah, blah, blah. You’re boring as f.
Stay mad, honey. I work hard at being my best, which includes looking my best, and I’m proud of it. I know it bothers you. Society relies on exploiting women and secure women who know how to say “no” upset the apple cart.
What are you saying no to? You’re stupid and bitter.