Anonymous wrote:It's in part because we paid a lot of people a lot of money not to work during the pandemic, and people's expenses cratered when the did nothing.
Anonymous wrote:CEO's and their bonuses.
Anonymous wrote:Things were cheaper when our clothing was made by the slaves who slept 10 to a room on a shack on the plantation and were paid in gruel
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you need to build up your emergency savings so that these non-recurring expenses don't wreck your budget.
Earmark separate savings for luxuries/treats. So they're not conflicting with each other.
This isn’t a question about personal budget. There is no budget hack for simply not making enough money and things costing so much
The question is why do things cost so much?
Because everyone wants a liveable wage. In the past, certain people were working for far less than they were worth, which kept costs down.
No, it's because everyone wants the best of everything all the time, but the say "it's not that much" because some billionaire consumes more.
Your grandparents would be amazed at how much you consume. Your house is bigger. Your food is fancier and imported from around the world. Your cars are plural, and bigger and fancier and technology complex. Your computers and streaming music and movies and games...
Anonymous wrote:The prices at McDonald's tell a crazy story. The dollar menu is gone. I paid $15 for two fish filets this week. $20 used to feed a family of four.
Anonymous wrote:I don’t mean groceries and gas and the things politicized and blamed on Joe Biden. I actually think groceries, gas, property taxes, my personal car payment and mortgage are not all that bad.
But I mean, the general annoyances of LIFE are so expensive. Home maintenance. Car repairs. Broken appliances. That sort of thing.
And then when you actually want to treat yourself with something that doesn’t even seem so extravagant, like an evening out, or ordering a pizza, or getting a cabin for the weekend (so I’m not even talking about overseas vacations and shopping sprees), those things are so expensive. I thought those kind of treats would be reasonable for middle class people to partake in from time to time. But all these fees, taxes, included gratuities, service fees and all that crap.
I know this board skews wealthy (reportedly) but it just seems impossible to accumulate any kind of meaningful liquid cash savings or an emergency fund when everything cost so much. Yeah I could just “do without” and just put off enjoying myself indefinitely, but what kind of life is that, I have relatives who died of cancer in their 40s, died in car accidents, so to a certain extent you have to live for the moment.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think we also need to have a reset on what makes life enjoyable. Not everyone is meant to have overseas vacations and eat out everyday. Our great grandparents didn’t splurge on things like that but this culture of greed you talk about makes us think we need to. We are bombarded with what others are doing on social media. I don’t think people truly understand what living within your means actually means. If you can’t afford to pay off your credit card then you certainly shouldn’t be having that extra cup of coffee. OP you said what kind of life is that without these luxuries, you need to find happiness in everyday things. If I died today, I’m not thinking about how I never traveled to Europe, I’m thinking about how I could have bonded with my children more. We also live in a world of replace rather than repair. If we learned to fix things instead of rushing out and replacing appliances, we could save there too. You also don’t need to have the most modern kitchen and furniture. Society should accept that hand me down furniture from our parents is just fine. Ask yourself why you don’t like your grandmother cherry furniture, it’s because you are bombarded with ads and pictures of modern styles to make you purchase more. Things are only more expensive because we feed into this culture.
I agree with a lot of this, but appliances are no longer made to be repaired. They used to be, but they are now made to be replaced (see: corporate greed).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you need to build up your emergency savings so that these non-recurring expenses don't wreck your budget.
Earmark separate savings for luxuries/treats. So they're not conflicting with each other.
This isn’t a question about personal budget. There is no budget hack for simply not making enough money and things costing so much
The question is why do things cost so much?
Because everyone wants a liveable wage. In the past, certain people were working for far less than they were worth, which kept costs down.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you need to build up your emergency savings so that these non-recurring expenses don't wreck your budget.
Earmark separate savings for luxuries/treats. So they're not conflicting with each other.
This isn’t a question about personal budget. There is no budget hack for simply not making enough money and things costing so much
The question is why do things cost so much?
Because everyone wants a liveable wage. In the past, certain people were working for far less than they were worth, which kept costs down.
Anonymous wrote:I don’t mean groceries and gas and the things politicized and blamed on Joe Biden. I actually think groceries, gas, property taxes, my personal car payment and mortgage are not all that bad.
But I mean, the general annoyances of LIFE are so expensive. Home maintenance. Car repairs. Broken appliances. That sort of thing.
And then when you actually want to treat yourself with something that doesn’t even seem so extravagant, like an evening out, or ordering a pizza, or getting a cabin for the weekend (so I’m not even talking about overseas vacations and shopping sprees), those things are so expensive. I thought those kind of treats would be reasonable for middle class people to partake in from time to time. But all these fees, taxes, included gratuities, service fees and all that crap.
I know this board skews wealthy (reportedly) but it just seems impossible to accumulate any kind of meaningful liquid cash savings or an emergency fund when everything cost so much. Yeah I could just “do without” and just put off enjoying myself indefinitely, but what kind of life is that, I have relatives who died of cancer in their 40s, died in car accidents, so to a certain extent you have to live for the moment.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you need to build up your emergency savings so that these non-recurring expenses don't wreck your budget.
Earmark separate savings for luxuries/treats. So they're not conflicting with each other.
This isn’t a question about personal budget. There is no budget hack for simply not making enough money and things costing so much
The question is why do things cost so much?