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Anonymous wrote:OP, I find it utterly bizarre that you allowed your daughter to apply to any school that would actually be a stretch financially. It sounds like all of the other schools she applied to are expensive privates - why? You say she wasn't interested in a large state school, but surely there were small or mid-sized Pennsylvania state schools she could have included in her list? Your situation is so bizarre because while you don't want her to attend the no-name school for free, you also seem hesitant to pay $200,000 on an expensive private.

Where are your state school options?

She said that the kid didn’t like big state schools. Get off her back about the list and try to be constructive!

OP- if your kid is okay with the free school, go for it. She can transfer to UMD or your flagship state school if it feels wrong… with nothing out of pocket. Good luck.

Can you even read? I suggested small/mid-sized state universities. And I stand by my post. She's complaining about her options and for some odd reason, didn't insist her daughter apply to affordable schools.

Sorry, what's the rule here? "Land the helicopter?" or "insist" they do what parents want?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I find it utterly bizarre that you allowed your daughter to apply to any school that would actually be a stretch financially. It sounds like all of the other schools she applied to are expensive privates - why? You say she wasn't interested in a large state school, but surely there were small or mid-sized Pennsylvania state schools she could have included in her list? Your situation is so bizarre because while you don't want her to attend the no-name school for free, you also seem hesitant to pay $200,000 on an expensive private.

Where are your state school options?

She said that the kid didn’t like big state schools. Get off her back about the list and try to be constructive!

OP- if your kid is okay with the free school, go for it. She can transfer to UMD or your flagship state school if it feels wrong… with nothing out of pocket. Good luck.

Can you even read? I suggested small/mid-sized state universities. And I stand by my post. She's complaining about her options and for some odd reason, didn't insist her daughter apply to affordable schools.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I find it utterly bizarre that you allowed your daughter to apply to any school that would actually be a stretch financially. It sounds like all of the other schools she applied to are expensive privates - why? You say she wasn't interested in a large state school, but surely there were small or mid-sized Pennsylvania state schools she could have included in her list? Your situation is so bizarre because while you don't want her to attend the no-name school for free, you also seem hesitant to pay $200,000 on an expensive private.

Where are your state school options?

She said that the kid didn’t like big state schools. Get off her back about the list and try to be constructive!

OP- if your kid is okay with the free school, go for it. She can transfer to UMD or your flagship state school if it feels wrong… with nothing out of pocket. Good luck.

Anonymous wrote:OP, I find it utterly bizarre that you allowed your daughter to apply to any school that would actually be a stretch financially. It sounds like all of the other schools she applied to are expensive privates - why? You say she wasn't interested in a large state school, but surely there were small or mid-sized Pennsylvania state schools she could have included in her list? Your situation is so bizarre because while you don't want her to attend the no-name school for free, you also seem hesitant to pay $200,000 on an expensive private.

Where are your state school options?

Anonymous wrote:I'm guessing this is a sports situation?

My misgiving is that there is a BIG gap between East Stroudsburg and Colgate/Lehigh. Can you say a little more about why the "middle" colleges are unappealling?

I think that in the health professions, the most important thing is to get the degree. And to get lots of hands-on experience along the way.

Did you guys visit ESU? What did you think?

I agree with this. I would take the full ride.

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Anonymous wrote:What about an in-between, non-fratty LAC with a March deadline, and that’s known for giving copious merit aid. Pretty sure Agnes Scott is one, and they have a pre-health track (I think you can take classes through Emory, too).

Earlham has a March deadline and a pre-health pathways track.

Nothing wrong with your kid’s choice but maybe there’s a happy middle?

There are others — these are the first two that come to mind!

In case this is an approach you want to take, there are LACs on this list known for strong merit aid and still accepting apps. Some definitely have health programs:

https://www.collegesimply.com/guides/application-deadlines/

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Anonymous wrote:Op, I’d ask directly for specifics for medical school placement. Also most kids who enter premed change their mind. How would job placement be if she entered a different field? The school is ranked 145th among regional colleges, as I already posted, that’s would be a no go for our family.There are plenty of premed kids from better colleges who will also have impressive gpas, and the quality of their school will be the difference maker.

How do you know this?

Look at placement stats and get back to me.

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Anonymous wrote:You you all feel the same about Kutztown? Similar profile?

I know a kid who is a freshman at Kutztown and hates it, and I know a professor there who says the kids know nothing and it’s hopeless trying to teach them (post-Covid). So no, I would not send a kid there. A very exceptional go-getter with no other affordable options might indeed do fine, but I don’t think it’s a great path.

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Anonymous wrote:If she is really pre-health, this is idea. No undergrad tuition!!! Get a super high GPA, lean into whatever health opportunities exist in the area, and set yourself apart. Do well on MCAT and boom. I understand how you feel, but this may be a tremendous opportunity. For a business degree, I would have a different opinion.

This is the big fish/small pond approach. I went to a seminar given by college admissions officers - full disclosure it was a long time ago in a professional capacity -and they endorsed this approach to graduate school admission. If your kid is at the top of their class at ES, and they do great on the MCAT they might have an advantage over a kid who did just ok at Lehigh or Villanova.

There is such a thing as a pond that's too small. ESU is the kind of school that turns out nurses and lab technicians not people who go to medical school.

Anonymous wrote:Op, I’d ask directly for specifics for medical school placement. Also most kids who enter premed change their mind. How would job placement be if she entered a different field? The school is ranked 145th among regional colleges, as I already posted, that’s would be a no go for our family.There are plenty of premed kids from better colleges who will also have impressive gpas, and the quality of their school will be the difference maker.

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Anonymous wrote:How many of you urging OP’s DD to go to ESU would send your own kid there, turning down Lehigh?
My concern would be that your DD may not be able transfer, coming from ESU, regardless of her grades.

I had my kid turn down Lehigh for a lesser school. Not East Stroudsberg but not too far off. Kid graduated with a $110k finance job. It’s not the school, it’s the kid. A smart, humble, hardworking kid will go far. That combination is in short supply today.

100% correct. Your DC has the work ethic, drive and ambition and unless there is something dramatic to change that, do you have reason to believe that your DC will not be as equally successful at ESU?

Now, think about taking that 180k you have and investing it for your DC. Your DC has a full 4-year ride, is successful in the health-related field, lands a job (or gets into a good graduate program) AND has a nice investment portfolio that is growing. That is the smart way of thinking about this.

+1. Your kid can basically have medical school fully funded. So graduating undergrad and medical school with OUT debt. That's damn impressive and trust me in 10 years they will appreciate that much more than being $300K in debt