Anonymous wrote:Our new neighbor is my DH’s AP from years ago.

Oh no!
Do all parties know that all parties know?
Is the AP married?

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:My mom died years ago when I was in my early 30s. I always found it deeply upsetting that she would never meet her grandkids.

Let’s say (to keep thing anonymous), she was born on 1/31 and died on 5/22.

DC1 was born on 3/11. DC2 on 2/25.

It gives me some comfort that they are connected to her.

I'm missing something. How are these dates related?

NP here, but I read this to mean the dates have the same numbers.

And to that poster: I can relate!
My mother’s death and some newly important dates are close in unique ways, also. It does feel like a connection.
Like… of all the dates in the calendar - to then be 2 days apart, etc.

PP. Yup, this is it exactly!

Lol 2 days apart. No connection there. You are searching.

Anonymous wrote:My mom died years ago when I was in my early 30s. I always found it deeply upsetting that she would never meet her grandkids.

Let’s say (to keep thing anonymous), she was born on 1/31 and died on 5/22.

DC1 was born on 3/11. DC2 on 2/25.

It gives me some comfort that they are connected to her.

I don't see the connection really. I wouldn't have noticed that.

Our new neighbor is my DH’s AP from years ago.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom died years ago when I was in my early 30s. I always found it deeply upsetting that she would never meet her grandkids.

Let’s say (to keep thing anonymous), she was born on 1/31 and died on 5/22.

DC1 was born on 3/11. DC2 on 2/25.

It gives me some comfort that they are connected to her.

I'm missing something. How are these dates related?

NP here, but I read this to mean the dates have the same numbers.

And to that poster: I can relate!
My mother’s death and some newly important dates are close in unique ways, also. It does feel like a connection.
Like… of all the dates in the calendar - to then be 2 days apart, etc.

PP. Yup, this is it exactly!

In my twenties, my ex boyfriend was leading me on about getting back together and it turned out he was dating my random coworkers (we had no mutual friends) friend at the same time. I found out through seeing him in her pictures from a party. I debated telling my coworker and letting it get back to the girl, but I didn’t. I just cut off all contact with my ex.

Anonymous wrote:My husband runs into people he know everywhere we go. The difference between me and him is that he never forgets a face. I’m sure I run into just as many people I know but just ignore them (and they me lol).

My husband does too! The funniest one was when DH, who is from a small town in the Midwest, ran into someone from his home town while walking on the beach in Zanzibar, Tanzania.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom died years ago when I was in my early 30s. I always found it deeply upsetting that she would never meet her grandkids.

Let’s say (to keep thing anonymous), she was born on 1/31 and died on 5/22.

DC1 was born on 3/11. DC2 on 2/25.

It gives me some comfort that they are connected to her.

I'm missing something. How are these dates related?

NP here, but I read this to mean the dates have the same numbers.

And to that poster: I can relate!
My mother’s death and some newly important dates are close in unique ways, also. It does feel like a connection.
Like… of all the dates in the calendar - to then be 2 days apart, etc.

Anonymous wrote:

I had been dating a boy for just over a year in high school when his mom redecorated their living room. This included a large painting of a Scottish castle that was decorated for a holiday celebration. I asked her about it because it looked familiar and I thought my family had visited it when I was in 4th grade.

This is a great coincidence but I have to know more about the large painting of the Scottish castle decorated for a holiday celebration. Does anyone else have a large painting of a castle they've visited, decorated for the holidays, hanging in their living room?

Anonymous wrote:Our anniversary is 7/26 and our firstborn was born at 7:26 pm.

My wedding anniversary, my dad's initials as numbers (like A=1) and my husband's college jersey number are all the same number.

Our anniversary is 7/26 and our firstborn was born at 7:26 pm.

Future DH and childhood best friend made good on a promise to leave upstate NY post HS graduation and drive to the CA coast. DH bought a used VW camper van in NY that was about just falling apart.

Made it to CA. The friends soon after took a side trip up the coast to meet up with another friend. Van broke down in this tiny CA town so DH had to have it towed to nearest dealership.

The van got towed back to the dealership from where it was originally purchased new over a decade ago.

Anonymous wrote:My mom died years ago when I was in my early 30s. I always found it deeply upsetting that she would never meet her grandkids.

Let’s say (to keep thing anonymous), she was born on 1/31 and died on 5/22.

DC1 was born on 3/11. DC2 on 2/25.

It gives me some comfort that they are connected to her.

I'm missing something. How are these dates related?

I’m originally from Columbus Georgia- a place that has military but highly unlikely to have foreign service officers. It was a career choice I was interested in but had no one to talk to about it. I decided to transfer my junior year to Emory University and needed some paperwork signed off. As I was closing out my last week, one of my professors asked what was causing the move- I told him my career interest and I wanted to be in a more cosmopolitan area . turned out he was a retired FSO whose last post was Bosnia Herzegovina. I didn’t know what his life was before teaching the class other than he was retired. We stayed in touch and he put me in touch with a diplomat in residence in Atlanta who then linked me to the foreign service exam study group. I failed the exam twice but still land at the State Department working in policy.

My mom died years ago when I was in my early 30s. I always found it deeply upsetting that she would never meet her grandkids.

Let’s say (to keep thing anonymous), she was born on 1/31 and died on 5/22.

DC1 was born on 3/11. DC2 on 2/25.

It gives me some comfort that they are connected to her.