Anonymous wrote:I’m afraid to answer this question because the wfh crazies will attack me for being a loser, being selfish, ruining things for everyone, and on and on. Unfortunately the climate on this board won’t allow an open discussion on this topic.
Anonymous wrote:I have four adult kids. Three are now back to work (required) while one is 100 percent work from home. She has two jobs. Her “full time” employer doesn’t know about the second job. She works hard, is efficient, and doesn’t mess around. But she puts in 40 hours a week, tops. She absolutely could not do what she’s doing if she had to report to an office.
So my sample size is one. But I find it really hard to believe that she is the only remote worker in America who is working a second job behind her primary employer’s back. I’m betting it’s a widespread practice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I get it, some people want to quiet quit with their lazy girl jobs from home and don’t ever want to see the inside of an office. Others have ambition, want to have real relationships with colleagues and are willing to make some effort to show up in person. We’ll see which group has progressed farther in their careers over the next few years, I know who I’m betting on.
Okay, I confess. I do NOT want to have real relationships with coworkers. I don't. Sorry if that makes me a bad person.
I understand this, I’m a mid 40s mom who doesn’t have any need for new relationships, but I also think of all of the people who trained or mentored me when I was new in my career and I understand it’s my turn to do that for the next generation. It’s much harder to do that from home.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I get it, some people want to quiet quit with their lazy girl jobs from home and don’t ever want to see the inside of an office. Others have ambition, want to have real relationships with colleagues and are willing to make some effort to show up in person. We’ll see which group has progressed farther in their careers over the next few years, I know who I’m betting on.
Okay, I confess. I do NOT want to have real relationships with coworkers. I don't. Sorry if that makes me a bad person.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’ve had a few conversations with people about the RTO push and who this benefits.
If you’ll notice, most people agitating for RTO are white guys in upper management. Why? In the office, they’re The Man. Without a staff to kiss their ass, who are they?
Furthermore, I think because presumably WFH evens the playing field for POC, as people truly are being evaluated by their output rather than intangibles like “fit,” the white guys are freaking out that the end to their long, nearly exclusive claim to power in corporate America may be fading.
Finally I think a lot of these guys want to cheat, and without “the office” as a place they go to everyday, it makes that a lot harder.
This is spot on
Anonymous wrote:I’ve had a few conversations with people about the RTO push and who this benefits.
If you’ll notice, most people agitating for RTO are white guys in upper management. Why? In the office, they’re The Man. Without a staff to kiss their ass, who are they?
Furthermore, I think because presumably WFH evens the playing field for POC, as people truly are being evaluated by their output rather than intangibles like “fit,” the white guys are freaking out that the end to their long, nearly exclusive claim to power in corporate America may be fading.
Finally I think a lot of these guys want to cheat, and without “the office” as a place they go to everyday, it makes that a lot harder.
Anonymous wrote:I've noticed an increased expectation since COVID that I/dh am available throughout the day for appts/school activities. Neither one of us works from home (medical careers). I wouldn't call it jealousy. More of a frustration with the assumption that it's a widespread norm.
Anonymous wrote:It’s not jealousy, but fairness. Everyone knows that WFH employees - on average - shirk more than their in-office peers, yet they are paid the same. In-office workers should not receive a raise to work there, but WFH folks should be paid less to WFH, at least 25% less based on their lack of commuting, dry cleaning, aftercare, etc. and lower productivity. I know some WFH loon will go crazy about these comments, but this is what’s on everyone’s mind.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Because we know you aren’t working all of the time and are taking advantage.
Who's "we"? How do you know exactly?